This relationship really bothers me, this relationship is so painful

Updated on psychology 2024-07-15
38 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Hehe, hello, I'm also a person who doesn't like to communicate, so let me tell you my reason. How to say, in my head, there is no cell that takes the initiative to communicate with others, even if I want to communicate, it is a last resort, and then, in life, I always feel that others are wordy, and often can't say two sentences, and it's a little angry, even if I'm angry, I don't speak, and I'll be fine after a few days... This is the end of my own self, I don't know the similarity with your boyfriend, if you don't want to be similar, just try it as I said, you try 1, in addition to work, you see what your boyfriend likes to play, and then you play with him and talk to him when you talk to him and say that he is interested in [For example, he likes to play games, you talk to him about games, I think you say this, say this, when it comes to wonderful places, he will talk and laugh] 2When you're angry, you have to go to him to make him quiet Even if you go to Ye, it's useless, because at this time he can't listen to anything [in the future, when he is happy, explain how to explain the offense, it's up to you] 3, this is the most important point, usually when it's okay, you have to associate with other men, thinking that introverts are generally vinegar jars [hehe, I am] or need the bar counter details You can understand it yourself I wish you and your boyfriend a happy life Come on.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Life is like a dream, and the years are ruthless. Looking back suddenly, I realized that human life is a mood. It doesn't matter if it's poor, it's rich, it's good to gain, it's good to lose.

    It's all in the past. Think about it, no matter yesterday, today, tomorrow, it is a good day to be able to suddenly open up. Regardless of family, friendship, or love, it is a good mood to cherish it forever.

    Remember that there is a classic text message that says: Don't forget what you once had; What has been received is more cherished; Don't give up what belongs to you; What has been lost is kept as a memory; If you want to get it, you must work hard; When you are tired, put your heart on the shore; Don't regret your choice; Only when you are bitter do you know how to be satisfied; Enjoy life only when it hurts; I only understand to be strong when I am hurt; There are always windy mornings; There is always a splendid dusk; There are always shooting nights. Life is like a one-way ticket with no return, there is no rehearsal, and every show is live.

    Grasping every performance is the best cherishing of life. Seize the present and enjoy life!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Calm down and find time to talk to him, which will not only solve your troubles, but also enhance the relationship. All feelings come from trust, easy to quarrel, indicating that there are still doubts and instability between you, women must pay more attention to this aspect, men don't like to say it explicitly, only find it and correct it in time.

    May you get out of the situation quickly.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    The run-in period, but your run-in period should also be over, it's been three years, I think the communication is not good, it's not just his problem

    He beats people, he has a short temper, he is not mature enough

    Maybe you will feel aggrieved, tired, tired.

    I guess that's what life is like as a woman

    Always revolves around the man、Everything is for him、

    So we have to be more patient and careful.

    to change him, to understand him

    If you can't talk once, you can do it again.

    There will always be success

    Remember, you have to be calm.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Wrong marriage. It's like that before marriage. And what about after you get married? Review yourself. Change your temper.

    It's time for him to be ruthless to you.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Realizing his past problems, he bravely went to talk to her and spoke out about his problems, which can not only alleviate his pain, but also eliminate some misunderstandings.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If you want to be happy, forget about the unpleasant, and the unpleasant things are in the past. Don't think about it anymore, it's like a calendar you flip through and don't turn it back. Go see the blue sky, white clouds, listen to **, and dance.

    Time will dilute everything, and there is no mountain of flames that cannot be passed. After the rain, the sky will be clear, and the rainbow will appear. As long as you adjust your mindset, everything will be fine.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I think you've been in pain now, so why don't you use this time to chase beautiful people again. If she doesn't have a boyfriend at this time, then you go on the offensive, and it's better to have a result than if you're alone trying to figure out something you don't know. Emotional things may be really difficult to control, and if you really like it, don't be so intimidating.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Fate is not always available, and seizing the opportunity is something that you will not regret in the future. You're a man, do what you want to do to tell her what you once wanted to say but couldn't say what you regret now, don't care if she has friends now. Don't mind too much about the consequences of saying it, just be kind and friendly and tell her how you "feel".

    Be a happy and kind boy.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If you really can't forget it, you're chasing her, even if you don't catch her. You can also be very good friends, you can care for each other, care for each other, this is also very good, bless you.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    People have phases in everything, so it takes time to mature. Don't dwell on the past, mature people will be very calm about gains and losses. Gaining or losing is not a bad thing, at least it means that at that stage you are not mature enough to deal with things, and you may not be able to succeed in getting the life you want.

    Love is the right time to meet the right person.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Six words are self-inflicted, and they cannot live.

    You can only use the rest of the time to atone for your sins, the girl was injured by a boy, and the pain will never go away - it is useless to say sorry n times.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Go to her and explain your mind to her Don't think too much After all, the past has passed No matter how much you regret it, it's useless. Cherish the moment.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Tell him that you love him. Try to treat her with your heart.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    When a ceremony, say goodbye to the past and untie the knot. Bless you.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Personality, don't blame yourself so much, I believe she understands you, or at least knows you better. A simple greeting is a new beginning. Of course, people are changing, maybe things are wrong, no matter what, we must maintain a peaceful mind, how can things be as people wish?

    Go with the natural flow of things and accept all that may come your way. Good luck.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It's one thing to not be able to forget, it's another thing to get in touch or not to get in touch again.........I still remember my ex-boyfriend's QQ number! Of course, I deleted it immediately when we broke up at that time, and we have been separated for almost two years! Well, you take a good estimate of yourself, or you just boldly move forward, it's useless to look at the past, I always believe that what has been lost is lost, even if you play again, it's not the same as the original, so I and my friend were very simply divided, even if you said that he wanted to continue to be friends, he didn't want to, or you really couldn't let go of you chasing after .........In short, don't you say that you are open and cheerful, so no matter what the ending is, don't let yourself go to that autistic circle first!

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Find her, tell her that you still can't forget her, you still love her, apologize for what happened, and then chase her again, chasing her with a dead face, he said.

    You don't care about anything, as long as you think you love her! But not too much, she'll be impressed. (Assuming she doesn't have a man now.)

    Friend) don't let yourself regret anything

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Time will dilute all pain, please let time wash your soul quietly.

    I wish you happiness.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Pain is abandoned. If you don't want to give up, don't care about the pain.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    If you miss it, don't put yourself in the shadow of the past, and when you look back after this paragraph, you will find that these things are actually so insignificant, look away, time will help you forget everything... The problem of autism and arrogance must be overcome by oneself, otherwise it will cause mental illness.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    The opportunity is fought for by yourself, and it depends on whether the girls have a happy life, and some silently bless them. If you don't have it, you will strive for the opportunity, and you will work hardest to see if your fate has come to an end.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    As long as you are sincere, you love her, face her sincerely, if she has a boyfriend, silently wish her happiness, if she can change her mind, wouldn't it be better

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Then ask her out, and then see if she still likes herself, and if she doesn't, it's good to be friends. If both parties still have feelings, then be brave together.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I can actually relate to your feelings. Because, when I was younger, I also experienced this. But in retrospect, it's not really love, it's just a good feeling or liking.

    When you really meet a boy who hurts you, cares about you, and loves you like a treasure, you will understand that the feeling of the past is actually just a kind of honing.

    Girls are more emotional, so once they give, it's not easy for them to let go. However, you must know that true love between the two will not be a matter of one person. Only your contribution without his response, how can you go further.

    He said, "He loves you, but he's not the only one who likes you, he likes outgoing girls." From this sentence, it has been shown that he doesn't have that kind of love for you, just just like it, and he didn't make it clear, for fear that you would be too sad. His intentions are still good, but he is not good at expressing them.

    Don't let yourself be miserable and start a new life, or a new relationship. In this way, you will slowly forget the pain of the past. There is a give-and-take!

    Do what you have to do! Don't be confused, your friend's advice is reasonable, after all, bystanders are clear!

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Girls are prone to crankiness.

    You do more.

    Divert your attention.

    In fact, there is such a thing as feelings, which is inexplicable.

    Maybe letting go is just a matter of a moment.

    But you have to look away.

    Maybe you don't love him anymore.

    You're just nostalgic for your best years.

    So. Don't revolve around love.

    There's a lot more to do.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    I gave up on him because of my family's strong opposition and my dreams, but who knows the pain in my heart. Treat this girl well. This situation can be recalled, but it was already clear at the time. The question of feelings is.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Campus love is fruitless, and whether you give up or not, the end result is the same, because reality is reality

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Can you tell us more about it?

    Circumstance? In fact, there are many people who are worried about this aspect of things, and the situation of you is that you are persevering, which means that you are very entangled, and you have encountered some obstacles, but you can't solve them, so that you have the idea of giving up, because you have been together for a long time, or you feel very reluctant, or they are considerate enough to you, or they can't be together because of work and career.

    To be honest, it is not entirely true that love is the foundation of marriage, on the contrary, it can also be an obstacle!

    If you don't want to dwell on this kind of thing anymore, give yourself a firm idea or give up decisively, or continue to persevere.

    But you have to be mentally prepared.

    If you give up, don't think about him again, don't have any regrets or guilt, emotional problems are difficult to explain, it's not a question of who is right and who is wrong, and then look for the person in your life, but also explain the reason or your thoughts to him, after all, he is also destined to be a person.

    If you choose to persevere, don't worry about whether you give up, you have to face the problems between you, do more communication, the trade-offs must be indispensable, and more importantly, you must be decisive, don't wander in your heart, and do it when you recognize it. Insist on talking about the future, and then depending on the situation, this issue should not be considered for the time being, this is a matter for the future.

    Make your own choice decisively depending on the situation! Be cautious and deliberate!!

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    There is a kind of love called letting go.

    If you really love, then his happiness is your happiness, and it doesn't matter if you are not together.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    All the pain and suffering are because of force. Such as du

    If you can't put it down, prove it.

    Zhi hasn't come to release yet, don't blindly let yourself fall into this kind of entanglement from within. Go with the flow, and when it's time to let go, you'll naturally let it go. Love poison, time antidote.

    Leave it to time. I hope you will be freed from this affliction soon.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    It depends on whether it's worth sticking to, and if it's not worth it, there's no need to stick to it.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    If you think it's worth it, stick to it, and let it go if you regret it, depending on what you think.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Go with the flow, trust your feelings. If you don't think it's okay, it's better to let go as soon as possible, don't fall deeper and deeper, and delay your life!

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    The future is a mystery, think about the future, who do you want to be with, don't hesitate, don't give up lightly, don't give up if you should give up, it's a choice. Let's work hard for your heart.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    If you didn't die yesterday, you can continue tomorrow. It's good that each other still has ta in their hearts!

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    If you always think about whether you like him or not, then you must like him, if you want to love him, then you must not love him, you are still young, grasp it yourself, if you don't want to say it, deal with it slowly, everyone supports you, and I wish you good luck.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Every relationship should be cherished, not to the point of being extraordinary, hoping that friendship will last forever and love will last forever.

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