How can I speak with more temperament, and how can I speak with temperament?

In many ways pull, to put it simply.

1.Behavior should be elegant, speak not too loudly, do not dance when speaking, speak evenly and calmly, not too fast, learn to smile, the standard is to show only 12 14 teeth, the corners of the mouth are raised 60 degrees, and the gums cannot be exposed (practice in the mirror). Walk with a straight head and a steady pace.

Don't be too fast, keep your back straight, swing your hands naturally without being too contrived or exaggerated, and look at each other when you speak, don't look around.

Handle things with care, don't gobble up things when eating, don't make sounds, and don't talk when you have something in your mouth. Tell yourself as much as possible to be steady in everything you do, don't rush too much.

2.Dress elegantly. Long hair looks more temperamental than short hair, try not to choose too bright colors, white and pink and other light colors will set off the temperament.

Clothes should not be too cumbersome as much as possible, simple and clean. With the right accessories, you should quickly develop some temperament in a short time.

In fact, what I'm talking about is just some appearances, temperament is really not shaped in a day or two, it is more emancipated from the inside out, watch more fashion films played by foreign beauties, pay more attention to the words and deeds of the temperament beauties around you, and then you can imitate the works, read more books, and usually pay attention to your words and deeds from bit by bit.

First: Speak with a natural expression, and don't have too exaggerated movements.

Second: Be sure to wait for the other person to finish speaking before expressing your opinion.

Third: You must not be angry, no matter what the other person says.

Fourth: When you disagree with the other party, you can try to talk about the other party's advantages first and then talk about the other party's disadvantages.

Pay attention to the tone of voice when speaking, look into the other person's eyes and smile when speaking, which will give people a very temperamental feeling As for what the landlord says will appear temperamental, this is not easy to say The scope is too wide But I think as long as you don't say foul language, and then add polite language should be fine

Dizzy, are you male or female? It seems that the definition of temperament is different depending on the gender.

Boys, then you have to speak strongly, make people feel that every word you say is thoughtful, and don't talk too much, of course, the words should be as civilized and elegant as possible.

Girls, first of all, are elegant and civilized, because boys don't ask you to say anything amazing, but they definitely want you to be a comfortable and gentle woman, and you have to work hard in this direction, hehe.

You first practice military posture every day, and read more famous books.

After half a year, you will naturally have a temperament!

Just listen to it!

The key is to have a temperament on the outside!

Temperament is from the inside out, not something that can be solved in a way.

Pay more attention to your own behavior and expression, and pay attention to inner cultivation.

Calm 1Don't show your emotions casually.

2.Don't tell people about your difficulties and experiences.

3.Think for yourself before asking for someone else's opinion, but don't talk about it first.

4.Don't nag your grievances at every opportunity.

5.Important decisions should be discussed with others as much as possible, and it is best to release them every other day.

6.Don't be flustered when you speak, and walk too.

Verbal acts.

The action must be elegant and generous, smile indifferently when you laugh, don't laugh loudly.

Speak low-key, don't always speak in a high-spirited manner. Walk a little slower and be awkward.

Be calm, keep your voice down, be calm, and don't let others know what you're thinking.

When you speak, you are not in a hurry and stand your ground.

<> "How to speak, it seems that you have a temperament and connotation."

How to make yourself speak with a temperament.

1.When you talk to someone, look them in the eye or between them. This is respect for Hui Zhifang, and it is also to tell the other party that I am confident.

2.Self-confidence, what you express is your own thoughts, but after thinking through the brain).

3. Don't make small movements, you can't touch your face and scratch your head. This makes the other party lower your evaluation, and you have to make it clear word by word, showing that you have sufficient self-confidence and a firm position. Even if you say it wrong, the other party will admire your slow charm.

4.From the beginning to the end of your speech, pay attention to the other person's mannerisms and pay attention to polite words: "Please listen to my thoughts, what do you think when I finish speaking?" Can I listen to yours?It's all about being brave enough to express yourself.

2. How to make your speech meaningful.

1.Be knowledgeable, read more, see more, and listen more. Through learning, let yourself have a good belly.

The more you know, the more selective you are, and the richer your vocabulary you use. You can find some speakers online and listen to their presentations. Analyze how they speak and find good places to learn.

2.Learn to listen and get to the point. When talking to others, remember not to be like a sparrow, unable to grasp the center of the conversation, not only will not be recognized by others, but will be annoying.

There is a saying: the wise man speaks carefully! You have to understand before you can say it well.

3.Increase self-cultivation, speech is the manifestation of the inner self, which requires a long period of accumulation, the abdomen disturbs the posture of poetry and calligraphy, self-cultivation is the truth, increase the self-internal cultivation, to achieve the result of self-cultivation.

4.Reflect more on your own speech and behavior, when speaking, think more from the perspective of others, whether it is appropriate for others to listen to what I say, think more about others, the highest emotional intelligence is to know how to consider others.

5.Avoid ** and abuse during the speaking process, use honorifics and humility to make your words sound connotative.

A child on the bus fell asleep, and his mother was afraid of disturbing the child, so she always whispered when talking to others.

Excerpt: Bo Yazi drum and piano, his friend Zhong Zi listened to it, Fang Gu Qin and aspired to Mount Tai, Zhong Zi said: "Good drum piano!" Towering as Mount Tai. Between the few elections, and the ambition is to flow, Zhong Ziqi replied: "Good as the drum and piano!" The soup is like water! ”

Translation: Boya plays the piano, and his friend Zhong Ziqi appreciates it**. When Boya was playing the piano, he thought about climbing Mount Tai.

Zhong Ziqi said happily: "It's so good to play Hanhong!" I felt like I saw a majestic Mount Tai!

After a while, Boya thought about the flowing water again, and Zhong Ziqi said again: "It's so good to play!" I seem to see the vast ocean of rivers and seas!

Tang Hanyu's "Shunzong Shilu Yongzhen Five Years": "Although he rebelled against the two envoys, he did not mean to write books, and Riqi led his party to whisper and talk about the side books and plotting to seize the officials and soldiers, so as to control the lives of the four seas. ”

Vernacular: "Although he betrayed the two envoys, he never took the documents as his intentions, and every day he led his comrades to let people whisper in private, plotting to seize the official army, in order to control the fate of the country." ”

1. Since childhood, we have lived under the wings of our parents, many things like to rely on them, if you want to become a person with aura, you need to go through a lot of training, we should understand that we can't rely on others for a lifetime, we should learn to deal with things independently, so that even if we have experienced a lot of storms, we still have the ability to solve problems independently, so that our aura will follow.

2. In daily life, you should pay more attention to your eloquence, so that your expression ability is concise and organized, so that the aura will come, instead of saying a lot of words, but others can't understand what you're saying, and you can't express your thoughts, which will also create a bad impression on others. Therefore, it is recommended that you pay more attention to practicing your language skills.

3. We know that a well-educated person will not yell at others casually, and people with aura are the same, don't think that having aura is yelling at others, no matter how angry you are, as long as you don't offend your bottom line, try to solve it in a gentle way.

4. Learn to take one step at a time, don't compare with others casually, don't envy or be jealous, learn to be yourself steadfastly, and one day, you will find that you will also win. So if you become a person with aura, you might as well work hard according to these points!