My husband and I agreed to separate, but we were reluctant, what should I do?

1。You can try to separate for a while.

2.Based on the contrast between what you have lived since you were separated and what you are now. You will be clear.

8 years? Got a baby? Since you can get along for 8 years, it shows that your relationship is not ordinary.

For the time being, we will be separated for a while, go back to my mother-in-law's house for a few days, or go on a trip with friends, and don't see each other for 1 to 2 months, and leave some time with each other, leave some space, and if she loves you, you will feel good when you come back, and talk more.

10 years of golden wedding in Europe Bless you.

I'm sure you'll make it to the end.

That's how life is.

It is firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar tea.

Learn to adapt.

Support mutual understanding.

That's how life goes.

How old are you? Why is the real thing still on the constellations... Immature.

Constellation? You're okay, don't make excuses if you don't have a good personality. Make a good change for the other side.

It's best not to be able to control it! Please dispel this idea in the future! Because you can't get everything you want in a man who can be controlled by you. Unless you're a man!

Why do you want to control it, don't think about controlling a man, the main thing is to grasp the heart, you are amazing;

Men can think of you when they are eating, sleeping, and other small things in the family; It's very good; If you take a man's obedience, then the man's heart has begun to move farther and farther away from you;

It's meant to be a good life. If he is nice to you, choose carefully whether to separate or not. If you think he's not good for you, break it up.

If you are reluctant, don't divide, endure more, and communicate more.

If you love him, you will endure him. Yelling at you must be your ** not doing well.

There is a saying called self-inflicted, you can't change him, then leave him, reluctant to leave him, then suffer it yourself, don't complain, the idea lies with yourself!

If the communication is not good, you will get divorced, otherwise you will be abused.

Usually collude more, and if it is not enough, it is best not to divide.

Is your husband good to you? If it's good, you follow your heart and live it well.

Hehe, if you want to divorce, you still have to feel good.

Don't be like this, it's a good time, it's a hurt to everyone when you are separated, think about it, who will be happy if you two are separated???

Talk to him about his problems, and if he changes, he will leave.

Hey, if you don't think it's okay, end it early, so as not to be sad for a lifetime, don't be with someone you don't love, it's tiring for a lifetime, it's better to end it early

Afraid of not finding it?

Old people often say that people are not as good as the one at the beginning. I don't know if it's or not.

Anyway, I don't think you can help it if you're unhappy all the time.

No way, reluctant to part.

Since you are reluctant, don't have such thoughts, so that you will have no feelings for him.

Why don't you want to get past you? You are reluctant to show that you are not sincere.

Hehe, it's better not to think about it.

You still love him, the two of them live a life thicker than leaves, there are always a lot of troubles, live well, two people are not easy together, and they will regret if they lose.

If you have a child, think about the child and don't let him be a child of a single family. Then the child will have low self-esteem!

If you don't have a child, then talk to him frankly and find each other's own problems!

As the old saying goes, it's better to demolish ten temples than to demolish a pro! Think twice before you act!

You can't break the thread and let go decisively.

Every family has a scripture that is difficult to read, take a step back and open the sky! You think about your child, how to live without you, a woman must be independent and give her baby a better life!

There is a deep understanding, so a woman should be strong, independent, don't revolve around him, let him revolve around you, let him think that it is not okay to leave you, let him know your importance.

Don't settle for the sake of your children, you are a woman first and a mother second. Leave with the child, you can give him all the love and you will take care of the baby.

I think you should communicate more, in order for the children to have a healthy growth in the future, I think you should sit down and discuss well, and don't separate, because you have a child, which will have a certain impact on the psychology of the child in the future, and I hope to adopt it.

If there is a problem with the relationship between two adults, the most hurt is the child, I don't know how old your child is, if you can be separated within 2 years old, if you are older than 3 years old, you have to think about it and try to live a peaceful life. Otherwise, it will affect his life. As the saying goes, home and everything is prosperous.

Take the child away, unless you feel that the child is a burden, and you don't want to take it away and are reluctant to be so entangled! Sugarcane is not sweet at both ends, and if you think about it, you can boldly step out!

Don't delay your happiness in your life because of your child, and your child won't want to have a father who breaks his mother's heart.

Who's right and who's wrong? Has it reached the point where a divorce is needed to resolve it? Can it be re-good?

Generally, don't leave, don't leave if you can save it, for the sake of the child, or for others. If you really leave, it will have the greatest impact on the children, you know, and the most reluctant thing for you is the child, so stay and negotiate with your husband to negotiate. Generally, love in the early stage of marriage is dominant, and there is no such youthful energy in the back.

Child-centered, reconcile if you can. Do you also know how deeply the children of single-parent divorced families and couples who quarrel all day long hurt their children?

I'm already heartbroken with my wife now, and I dream of breaking up, but also for the sake of the children, endure it, pinch my nose!!

Do you know what it means to give up? Only by giving up first, can you get it later.

If you don't leave for the sake of the child, then don't leave. Also to find your happiness,

Dying in name only will do more harm to the family and the future, and what has he done to break your heart.

In divorce, the woman has priority custody of the children.

What breaks your heart? Husbands and wives should understand each other.

For their own happiness, there is only separation.

The child is the mother's heart, and if you get divorced, you have to take the child anyway.

Let's see what kind of things hurt you first, calm down first, and wish you happiness.

Let's talk about it first, it's really hard to talk about divorce again, how old are the children? If the mother is less than two years old, it is more likely.

Pregnancy will affect a woman's endocrine, so a woman's temper and mood will change a lot at this time.

At this time, it is best not to separate, because without a husband by her side during pregnancy, women will be more prone to prenatal depression.

If you really miss home, you can ask your husband to be free to accompany you back for a walk.

In short, it is good to have a husband by your side.

Your husband is fine.

You annoy him mainly because you want to go home.

Then go back and stay for a few days.

It will be fine when you come back.

And then there's something like you said.

You're too idle. So it's going to be annoying.

Inclusive, humble! How can a husband and wife not quarrel! It's okay! Calm down, calm down! Have a great day.

Two people can calm down first

Hehebai, girl, I knew why I had to do it now

Now you understand how easy it is to set up a family, not caring for and loving each other, just blindly complaining to each other, and now the feelings are all noisy with you, and you regret it. Alas!

Sit down with him slowly and talk about it, he can still reconcile now. Try to be as tolerant as possible in the future. I'm Mr. Dong, and I hope to help you.