If the bride price of the mother s family is small, will the man not cherish the woman?

Whether the man will cherish the woman depends on what kind of husband or mother-in-law he meets. If the husband and mother-in-law know to cherish it, even if the woman does not want a penny of bride price, the husband and mother-in-law will cherish it as well. If the husband and mother-in-law do not know how to cherish it, even if the woman asks for a lot of bride price, the husband and mother-in-law will not cherish it either.

Before I got married, my mother and grandmother would tell me that when I was looking for a marriage partner in the future, I must ask for more bride price, so that I could be valued by my in-laws. They feel sorry for the bride price and won't bully you. The mother-in-law will think that if the bullying is gone, she will have to spend the bride price money to marry another one.

They are afraid of spending money, and they will also pick up this daughter-in-law.

And I put love first, so I married love. Thinking about it, I was really stupid at that time, and I didn't even know to ask for the bride price. I didn't want to marry my husband with such a penny of the bride price.

However, I didn't meet a mother-in-law who cherished me, even if I helped her save so much money, she would think I was stupid and that I was worthless. So after a year of marriage, the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law broke out.

Now think about it, if I had known the true face of my mother-in-law. Before getting married, you should ask for the bride price. Maybe if I ask for a lot of bride price, my mother-in-law won't treat me like this.

The more you respect her, the more she thinks you are afraid of her, and the more she treats you. Such a person may really be good to a person because of money. But, no matter what, things have come to this point where nothing can go back to the way things were.

Therefore, girls who are not yet married, looking for a marriage partner, don't just look at what the boyfriend looks like, the boyfriend's family, and the boyfriend's parents are all factors that must be considered. Because after getting married, it is really a matter of two families, and you must think about it.

I want to say that being cherished by the man, the most important thing is not how much the bride price is decided, change the mode of thinking, is it worth cherishing the wife who spent a lot of money to marry back, and those girls who understand the man's family background and marry love are not worth cherishing? Obviously not, so whether the man cherishes you or not is determined by many factors, and it has nothing to do with the bride price.

Some people think that since the man has done his best to consume the savings of the whole family for many years to marry you into the door, he will cherish you as a treasure. In fact, let's think about it in another way, the man loves you and is willing to give everything for you, take a step back and think about it, the man feels that you are not considerate of his difficulties, knowing that his family is not rich, but the bride price you want is higher than the local average at that time. Despite this, the man considered many aspects and made up enough bride price to marry you.

However, the embarrassing situation after marriage is all caused by you, and the man's family actually has ideas in their hearts.

On the contrary, if you are together because of love, and the man's family is not well-off, you will talk to your parents and ask for a smaller bride price. After marriage, the man will be grateful and cherish you. Because they know that you are a good girl who knows how to be considerate.

Especially your mother-in-law, she will really look at you differently and will show you off when she goes out. You must know that in your mother-in-law's heart, you love her son and not her family's bride price.

Finally, about the bride price, in fact, if the man has money, they don't care about more at all, on the contrary, if you want less, the man will also take the initiative to make up for it in other aspects, such as three golds, dowry, the cost of welcoming relatives and gifts back to the door, etc., the man will also fight for some face for himself to come back, which is a common practice of rich people.

In fact, most of the bride price goes into the pockets of the woman's parents, and the debt is high for marriage, and you still have to work with the man to earn money to pay off the debt after marriage. Of course, there are also parents who will give the bride price to their daughters as a dowry. In this way, the daughter has her own financial security after marriage, so that she will not be bullied.

Therefore, the amount of the bride price is really determined according to the man's family background, and those girls who are despised by their in-laws because of the small bride price, I can only say that she married the wrong person.

Feelings cannot be measured by money, whether the man or the man's parents cherish you after marriage, and whether they are good to you has nothing to do with the bride price. If the two of you have a real relationship and love each other, why should you care about those bride prices? Two people who love each other can only go further if they understand each other and tolerate each other.

The amount of the bride price does not represent the man's love for the woman, as long as two people are in love, the bride price can be discussed according to the actual situation of the family, the marriage rules are different in each place, but every parent wants their children to live happily in the future.

The woman's parents hope to find a son-in-law who treats their daughter as a treasure, and the man's parents hope to find a daughter-in-law who is diligent and thrifty, but they are all for the sake of their children. Marriage requires a lot of money, buying a house, decorating, buying furniture, etc., and having children after marriage also requires a lot of money. There is no need to spend most of the expenses on the bride price, although many of the woman's parents ask for a lot of bride price, so that the man's family is a headache, but on the day of the wedding will be the same to the daughter, this is also the love of the woman's parents for their daughter, which I hope the man understands.

Girls are more empathetic, more emotional, for love can give up everything, so please consider the man more for the woman, she marries you, from now on to live in a strange environment, everything has to be re-adapted, no matter how much the bride price, please cherish your wife, she is for you to endure and adapt.

No matter how much or less you want or look at the character of your in-laws and men, if you have a bad character, if you want to be less and be said to be cheap, cheap, upside down or something, if you want more, you will be displeased with all kinds of eyes, always guard against you, complain that you cheat the bride price, feel that you want more, so the character is the most important.

Jane doesn't cherish it and don't know, but I don't dare to mention that divorce is true, to put it bluntly, the initiative of divorce is in the hands of the woman, and the rich ignore it, the funny thing is that now the divorce rate in Beijing, Shanghai and Guangzhou is over 50%, and the country has also changed the marriage law for this reason.

In traditional Chinese marriage customs, it is important to pay a certain bride price when the woman marries. And now, with the development of the times, the amount of the bride price is getting higher and higher, and it is even called "sky-high bride price". Marrying a wife is even equated with selling a daughter, and many people think that a bride price is due.

After all, it is a custom that has been around for a long time, but there are still many men who think that a woman's act of asking for a bride price is equivalent to selling a daughter. So if a girl gets married without a bride price, will it really be cherished by the boy? This issue has also been discussed by many female friends.

In China, it is often joked that the girls in Jiangxi only have Jiangxi boys to protect this joke. In fact, it is also because the bride price in Jiangxi is too high, almost ranging from 20 to 300,000 yuan. And some people also began to question, after all, the two young people who got married were very young.

Most weddings are expensive and require most of the support from the man's family. And getting married requires a house and a car, plus a bride price of more than 100,000 yuan, which is a very great pressure and expense for the man's family.

Many couples who are about to enter the marriage hall will have an unhappy family because of the dowry in the early stage of the wedding, and the man's family will of course want the woman to have a little less, and the man's own family will have less burden. The woman's family believes that the bride price is the degree to which the other party attaches importance to their daughter, and there is also a saying that if the woman is valued, the bride price should be higher. Among women, the issue of bride price has also caused a lot of controversy.

Some girls think that the man is the same age as herself, but he has to bear such a heavy financial pressure, after all, in today's society, men and women should respect and tolerate each other. There are also some girls who feel that if they don't want a bride price, they will make the man's family feel that they are very cheap, but this part of the girl's idea is not wrong, after all, there are many real cases that happen around everyone. <>

The question of whether a girl should have a bride price when she marries depends on the individual, depending on what the girl thinks. If you save this bride price for your own future, you will not be able to help yourself tide over the difficulties when various problems arise in the marriage. Or use this bride price in your newly formed small family to improve your small family's living standards.

The final bride price all came down to the negotiation of both parents and the receptivity of the two young people.

Not necessarily. It is understandable that the woman wants a bride price, but will the man cherish the other party? It can be hard to judge, after all, every guy thinks differently.

Most of the time this is the case, mainly because the man's parents will feel that they don't want money anyway, and you won't have a temper with you.

1. Poor economic ability.

The bride price is determined according to the man's financial conditions. If the man's family is very poor and he can't get the wedding bride price, then the girl should also be considerate. If there must be a bride price, it can be meant under the condition that the man can afford it.

2. Unwilling to pay a bride price.

If the other party has a certain financial ability, and the bride price amount said by the woman is within the scope of the man's responsibility, but the man is still unwilling to pay the bride price, the girl must not marry in this case. Although the wedding bride price cannot measure the feelings of the two people, the bride price can see the sincerity of the other party.

3. Parents are unwilling, boys are willing.

If the man's parents are unwilling to pay the bride price, but the boy is willing, and has been persuading his parents, and is even willing to spend his own money as a bride price to marry you, it is up to the girl to judge for herself. It's true that a boy loves you, but it's also true that the man's parents don't get along well, so it depends on whether he wants to.

No, because in China's old concepts and traditions, customs have not changed, you don't want the bride price is progress or not to worship money is love, but in the eyes of the older generation will not look at you like this, in China The concept of raising children to prevent old age is deep-rooted, it is inevitable to get along with the elderly, Chinese men have not been able to resolve the conflict between their mothers and daughters-in-law, and women will only be more amorous or stupid, if China is like the Americans, they will be independent when they get married, and the elderly do not need to support their children. Maybe I don't want a bride price, because if you want a bride price, you can see many things clearly in China, such as whether the man you want to marry is responsible, whether you are important in his heart, how many things you have to deal with when you get married, the ability to deal with things, etc., and you can also understand whether your future mother-in-law and father-in-law regard you as a future daughter-in-law, and the bride price is more about the sincerity and attitude of your husband and mother-in-law.

Many women think that asking for a bride price is unreasonable, but in fact, on the contrary, women who do not want a bride price are unreasonable. Just thinking that I don't want your bride price, so reasonable, the man will definitely be better for me, which is very selfish. Let's look at the reaction of my parents-in-law first, most of my parents-in-law will definitely say that my son has the ability!

As for the husband, he was ecstatic, picked up a woman for nothing, and the first few days were fine, and when the two people had a conflict, he would definitely say, cheap is not good! You go to the ** station! No matter how noisy it is, divorce, it didn't cost money anyway!

Third, look at the reaction of the parents, the daughter can't enter the door with empty hands when she gets married, so the daughter will lose face and will be looked down upon by her in-laws. I had no choice but to take out my savings for many years to paste a dowry for my daughter. When marrying a daughter, the parents are generally forty or fifty years old, and various problems may occur in the body at any time, what should I do if I get sick?

No. 1. Empty gloves white wolf.

When I mentioned the bride price to him, I said "sell my daughter", even if he asked him to give a little money, it would not work. This kind of empty glove white wolf practice should be cautious, not only will he calculate you, but it is estimated that the other party's parents will secretly teach him to take you to secretly get a license, get pregnant, etc. In this way, when talking about the bride price, they will have an advantage, and this kind of person cannot marry.

2. Limited by family background.

If the man buys a house or his parents are seriously ill and hospitalized, causing financial strain on the family, or the family is not in the first place. After proposing such a high bride price, it is inevitable that you will be angry and say that you will not give it, but you still want to rely on your own efforts to fight for it. At this time, it is necessary to leave him a certain amount of time to see if it is reliable and worthy of trust.

1. Two people really want to live with each other, and the starting point is a small family. Whether it is gnawing at the old or self-reliant, we must start from the new family to avoid differences between the two first.

2. Get your own parents, if you have any requirements, discuss them yourself first and then communicate with your parents, don't waver.

3. Combined with the actual economic situation of the two families, consider what needs to be bought, what can be given up and what to be, how much is the bride price, how much is the dowry, how much is the house, the car, the three golds, etc., and so on, and the premise is to respect the local wedding customs of both parties, and prefer to focus on the woman.

4. Be calm when talking about marriage, don't tear your face easily! If you really decide that the other party thinks the other party is worth marrying, the appropriate concession will not make you lose anything.