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A woman who rejects the truth.
She never had the self-confidence, and even when happiness came to her, she didn't believe it was real. She doubts everything, including love, because her psyche cannot bear the warmth of love. If you enter into marriage with such a woman, you must always be ready to deal with her sensitivity and suspicion, and bear all the storms of life for her.
In the same way, if there are emotional twists and turns, she will only let herself live in a world full of illusions, away from real reality. Just like an ostrich, when in danger, it buries its head in the sand, thinking that everything will be fine if it is not faced. In reality, she just didn't have the courage to face reality.
A woman without ego.
She may have never taken good care of herself. When someone in need of care appears, she naturally puts all her attention on the other person and does her best to pay for the other person. She is willing to accept and bear the blame and guilt that arises in the emotional world anytime and anywhere.
She doesn't live for herself, but for others; She is not so much a good girl who is selfless and dedicated, but rather a love slave who has lost herself. However, marriage is an equal partnership, not a master-slave relationship. With a woman without ego, a man bears the heaviest and heaviest emotional baggage.
Unless you are a cold man who can accept her "sacrifice" calmly. And for herself, once a man leaves her for some reason, she may collapse because she can't accept reality.
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What are the men who will ruin a woman's life? Don't blame women for men's incompetence.
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1. A woman who has lost all three views.
Before marriage, a woman's three views can only endanger her own life, and after marriage, it is completely different. In marriage, a woman's three views determine the relative height of her life and also depend on the relative height of a family's happiness. Nowadays, money worship has basically become one of the new three views, and the cultivation of good conduct in the past is extremely ridiculous in the eyes of many rich girls, but they don't know that a wife with wrong three views must be a devastating blow to her husband.
Sometimes, a man blindly follows the trend to pursue perfect money, fame and fortune is not from his own original intention, they usually annoy his wife's lack of greed, endless blind comparison, in the long run, this three views will even be jeopardized by women into this man's three views. You might as well ask, how can a person who has lost all three views and looks at "money" in everything gain accomplishment in life?
2. A lazy woman.
In the past, although the sunrise period is long gone, what has always remained the same is that it is not easy for husband and wife to live together to achieve maximum happiness. A truly happy marriage is not the result of one party relying on the other, but the result of two people working together. Many women's opinion is that if they marry a person they like in their lives, their life will basically stop there, and all the economic development expenses after marriage will be strictly smashed on their husbands.
Regardless of whether the man is already physically and mentally exhausted, the lazy woman always thinks about the upcoming new mobile phone or flashy luxury brands, and the only rule they have for men is the paper money they put in their hands every month. Usually, lazy women are not only unable to create wealth for men, but will continue to produce and create various situations on their way to struggle, becoming a big obstacle for men.
3. A woman with a very weak desire to control.
Nowadays, the emphasis on women in social development has improved much on many levels, especially in the call for women's interests. Even sometimes, many people are very sympathetic to today's men, and the forgiveness for men in social development has always been relatively low. This kind of social problem evolved into a woman with a very weak desire to control at home.
Sometimes, there are some women who are in control and still have a very good temperament, and they can also manage the affairs of the family very well, but today's "daughter-in-law" men have basically zero influence in the family, which is also the helplessness of many married men. A woman with a very weak desire to control usually makes her husband lose influence in her marriage, so that she will not be able to raise her head in front of the whole extended family, and it seems that a family has been cleaned by this woman very well, but in fact, marital problems are just as imminent.
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Women with wrong views, women who like a comfortable life, women who are unwilling to pay labor, women who have a very strong desire to control, they don't allow anyone to have variables, water-based Yanghua always likes women who have an affair with the opposite sex, very flamboyant, and likes to show off their extreme vanity.
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Like to mess around, love to be greedy and cheap, not filial to your in-laws, lazy to eat, and have wrong views, marrying such a woman will ruin your life.
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Lose your temper often, have a small pattern, act without eyes, often lie, and don't marry a woman who is insincere.
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