Who should I choose for those who love me and the people I love?

It is difficult for two people to choose between the person who loves me and the person I love, but if it is combined with their own actual situation, it will be easier to make a decision.

Some people like to be taken care of, and they are relatively passive in love, so they will choose to love their own people, so that they are the one who is taken care of in the relationship of two people, and they are the ones who can enjoy happiness.

There are also people who like to choose the person they love, because they have a flamboyant personality, are good at expressing their emotions, and also believe that love is sacrosanct and will not force themselves to be with the person they don't like. I choose what I love, and I can't say that I change my choice because of the actions of others.

As for you, in fact, we can start from our own hearts, there are many people who love us, just like parents, relatives and friends, etc., but sometimes we have to be clear that this love is family love, friendship love, or love? <>

Love is actually a matter between two people, and you can't participate in too many impurities. You don't have more to look for your heart, your true thoughts. Everyone's growth environment is different, and their outlook on love will be different.

I don't understand the natural experience in love, but everyone has to choose what suits them.

The result of choosing the person I love may be more tiring, because you must know that I may not reciprocate your efforts, and the other party cannot receive your information, or is not interested in you, and does not get feedback from the other party, then it takes a lot of courage and perseverance to continue to persist in this love, and then you have to consider whether you have the ability to bear such a consequence: the person I love, but it hurts me the most.

But if you choose someone who loves us, although you will enjoy the feeling of being taken care of and taken care of well, you will naturally not have that feeling of love going deep into your bones.

But no matter what, we will have our own choices, and we must be responsible for our own choices, and it is the same in love, whether we are loved or choose to love ourselves, we must pay our due responsibility for our love, take good care of ourselves, and take care of others.

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I remember when I used to go to school, there was a popular saying: find someone who loves you as a husband, and find someone you love as a lover.

Although this sentence has a certain element of drama and abuse in it, it also shows to a certain extent that it is more important to find someone who loves you when choosing the other half of your life.

First of all, the people who love you will embrace everything about you.

Love is not only selfishly possessed, but also tolerant in the eyes of the lover. Inclusion means accepting your strengths as well as your weaknesses. Because getting married and living a life is not like playing a family, it takes a lifetime of mutual support, and it requires two people to be tolerant and supportive of each other.

If you think that you don't have confidence in yourself because you have such and such shortcomings, then find someone who loves you! Of course, if you love you, you also have to repay him with respect, instead of taking his love for you as a condition for blackmailing him, only when two people understand each other can they help each other grow old.

Second, feelings can be cultivated.

After a long time together, feelings can also be cultivated. Choose someone who loves you, your heart is steady, you know that he loves you, and if you are rushing to get married, you will also try to try to love him. When you are able to fall in love with each other, your happiness will be long-lasting.

But if you choose someone you love, the other party may not love you, and may not want to live with you for the rest of their lives, so they may not change for you, and they may not try to fall in love with you. So choose the person you love, but if the other person doesn't love you, happiness may only be temporary.

Of course, even if you choose someone who loves you, the premise is that you don't hate him, and only then can you fall in love with him.

In short, no matter the choice, the person who loves you or the person you love, the premise is to think about which investment can be exchanged for more lasting happiness, after all, marriage takes a lifetime.

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