Giving birth to a child, can a smart woman see whether a marriage is happy or not?

Updated on psychology 2024-07-26
18 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    I don't think it's possible, it's a very unwise thing to try to save a marriage with a child, I don't think the happiness of the marriage has a lot to do with the child, on the contrary, if the marriage is not happy, the child is also a sad thing.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Yes, you can, having a baby can bring all kinds of problems. There will be a lot of changes in the economy, family, including women's hearts, and at this time, you can see whether your spouse is reliable or not, and you can basically measure whether your marriage is happy.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    I think it's okay, after giving birth to a child, there will be more pressure in life than between them, and sometimes couples are prone to disagreements and conflicts when facing children's education and feeding problems. I think at this time you can see whether the marriage is happy or not.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    I think having a child is more able to see the happiness and unhappiness of marriage clearly, because the arrival of a child is also accompanied by all kinds of troubles, which can better reflect a person's patience and understanding of each other.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I think that having a child, in fact, a woman can see whether the marriage is happy or not. Because when you have a baby, you can see the attitude of the man's family towards you.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Yes. A happy family is a family of three where two people spend together in harmony, and unhappy families will mess around.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    However, many women feel that their marital unhappiness begins after giving birth to children, but this unhappiness is not caused by having children, but because women do not pay attention to men's problems at the beginning, and men do not take the initiative to correct their own problems, so it leads to marital conflicts. The three views in marriage are very important, if the consciousness of each other is not correct, then the marriage must be unhappy.

    Why do many women realize the existence of marital problems after giving birth, in fact, some problems exist from the beginning, but they are more obvious after giving birth. After giving birth, women will find that there are many things in the family that need to be borne by themselves, such as housework, before there is no child, the woman has some time to tidy up the housework, but after giving birth, the woman has to take care of the child, if she still needs to bear all the housework, then the family conflict will arise. At this time, the woman may complain about the man's laziness, and will also complain about the man's inconsiderateness, if the man can not understand that housework is a family's business, then it is difficult to be happy in this family.

    After a woman gives birth to a child, if your husband can understand your hardships, can take care of the housework with you, or even take care of everything by himself, such a family will only get better and better.

    It is really not easy for a woman to have a child, not to mention how much risk a woman has to take. Secondly, it is not easy for a woman to take care of her children in ten months of pregnancy. Giving birth to a child is not a woman's business alone, but it is each other's responsibility, if a man ignores the woman after giving birth, then the daily life of marriage is destined to be unhappy.

    After giving birth, a woman actually knows whether she is married to the right person. If your husband can understand that it is not easy for you to get pregnant for 10 months, and can understand the hardships of taking care of your children, then your marriage is happy. This kind of man is responsible, he is intimate with you, even if you are a little tired, then you feel that life is worth it.

    If a woman feels particularly relaxed and happy after giving birth, it must be because you have married a good husband and you have borne a lot for him.

    After a woman has given birth, a man needs to grow up quickly. If a man does not know how to be considerate of his wife and take care of his children after becoming a father, it will only make women feel tragic in marriage and feel that they have married the wrong person. We often say that women are not happy to have a child, and the happiness before giving birth will be changed, only after giving birth to a child, you see a man's sense of responsibility, that is the real happiness.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Yes, you can see a lot of things when you have a child, you have no income during the confinement period, and you need to be served by others, you can see the face of your mother-in-law's family.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Yes, if a woman is particularly happy, her husband will take the initiative to take care of the housework after getting married, and after giving birth to a child, her mother-in-law will also take the initiative to take care of the child, which is a common child with each other, and the man will also take the initiative to take responsibility and be very intimate to his wife.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Yes, if you find a husband who loves you very much, then after giving birth, the other party will take care of you meticulously, and you will not be particularly tired.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Personally, I think there must be something wrong with your understanding. It is also a small number of women who are unhappy when they have children, because their husbands do not give her a sense of security, and most women have children, so they must be happy.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Because after giving birth, the woman is out of shape, and she is at home every day with the child. The husband doesn't care about them. are the reasons why girls are unhappy after giving birth.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I think this sentence is very reasonable, children are a kind of spice of married life, it can enhance the relationship between husband and wife.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If the marriage is unhappy, it would be good to have a child, I think this is not right, because marriage is a matter between two people between husband and wife, if the current marriage is not happy, then if there is another child, it may be a very bad thing for the child, because the child needs to live in a happy family, they will grow up healthily.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I don't share that view. Unhappy marriage is caused by a lack of communication and affection between two people. It's not something that can be solved by having a child.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    No. The marriage of two people is unhappy, not because the child did not come, but because the attitude of the two people is problematic, and the birth of the child can only pity the child.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I don't think so, because the marriage is already unhappy, and having a child will make the child unhappy, but there will be more contradictions and conflicts, and this kind of family environment is also very unfavorable to the growth of children.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    The marriage is already unhappy, and having another child at this time will make the child even more unhappy, which is irresponsible to the child.

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