What are the differences in parenting styles for different types of children, and what are the diffe

Parents in the face of enthusiastic babies need to ** when they may lose their temper at any time, and they need to be treated calmly, lively children are full of enthusiasm, parents need to enjoy their enthusiasm and keep them motivated; Exploratory babies need parents to keep their babies safe at all times, because the next moment you don't know what your baby will do in that place, and you also need to ensure that your baby has enough sleep time, and they will always reach a state of selflessness for something they are interested in.

It is divided into four categories, in which neglected parents not only meet the basic material needs of their children, but also have little care and needs for their children and rarely communicate with their children. Allowing children to grow up without love and rules will make them feel insecure and happy.

Family is the cradle of children's birth, parents are children's first teachers, are children's role models, parents' parenting attitudes and education methods, directly affect children's behavior and psychology. Parents' parenting attitudes towards their children are mainly divided into the following 4 types:

Parents treat their children democratically and equally

This type of parent demands absolute obedience to the child's will, and if the child does not obey or does not meet his or her requirements, he will punish him or even beat and scold him at every turn. Parents decide everything in their children's daily lives, including:Daily diet, daily clothing, what kind of interests and specialties to learn, and who to make friends withWait, ask your child to listen to him in everything.

Under this very strict parenting attitude of parents,Children lack autonomy and behave according to the faces of their parents, may form timidity, inferiority complex, lack of independence, autonomy and self-confidence, and may even form an arrogant, rebellious psychology.

Parents do everything for their children, want to provide all the help for their children, and are reluctant to let their children do anything, even very small household chores in the family, and do not let children interfere. Such parents make childrenDeveloped a great dependenceIt is very easy to form a selfish, willful, and lazy temperament.

Under the very doting parenting attitude of parents, children cannot see the hard work of their parents at all, only think about themselves, do not think about others, are very selfish and willful, and have no way to be independent.

This is the opposite of parents doing everything for their children, forming two extremes, some parentsNeglecting the child's development, do not value the education of children. In this kind of neglected family, children will feel lonely because they are not cared for, and they will slowly form the bad qualities of aggression, indifference, and isolation, and their emotions will be capricious and very easy to anger.

Parents to childrenLeave it alone and adopt a free-range attitudeIt is a manifestation of irresponsibility to children, not caring about children's learning, not caring about children's growth, this kind of parents are simply not worthy of being parents.

This is the most democratic and scientific attitude of upbringing. Parents respect their children and get along with them as equalsDo not interfere with children's decisions, give children full of free space, do not force children to do things they don't like, respect children's independent personality and thoughts, give children encouragement and guidance, and be able to criticize and correct children's mistakes.

Under this kind of equal and democratic parenting, it is conducive to cultivating children's self-esteem, self-reliance, generosity, and enthusiasm, and is also conducive to children to develop their own potential, enhance self-confidence, and humbly accept and develop the shortcomings raised by othersIndependent and self-confident, not arrogant or impatient, self-esteem and self-improvementof excellent character.

Among these ways of educating their children, the most scientific and democratic is the last. Being able to build a harmonious family environment can help children form a good psychological quality.

Parents have a more strict style towards their children's upbringing, a more free-range style, a more gentle style, and a more democratic style.

In the process of family parenting, the overall atmosphere of each family's parenting style is different, strict and democratic. A democratic family atmosphere is more conducive to the growth of children.

Authoritative upbringing, laissez-faire upbringing, and inaction upbringing. Authoritative parents, that is, parents who "make appropriate demands and respond appropriately", not only can have reasonable requirements for their children, but also always make appropriate restrictions on their children's behaviors, will set certain behavioral goals for their children, and insist that their children obey and achieve these goals; At the same time, actively pay attention to the child's emotional and behavioral responses so that they can adjust in time. In short, such parents are "rational, strict, democratic, patient and caring" for their children.

At the same time, the "authoritative type" is recognized as the ideal and appropriate style of parenting. Permissive parenting is a parenting style that allows children to do their own thing, and neither cares nor sets the demands of a code of conduct.

1. Democratic parenting style, which can make children more confident and independent; 2. Focus-based parenting, which will only lead to children not having the right to choose and decide; 3. Dote on the type of parenting, so that the children who grow up will only be too self-conscious; 4. Indifferent type of parenting, and this way will only make children not get the love and warmth of the family.

Children who grow up with an authoritative parenting style tend to have the following characteristics:

1.Independence: The child shows a high level of independence and is able to complete activities and solve problems autonomously.

2.Control: The child shows good control, is able to control his behavior and emotions, and follows the rules.

3.Self-confidence: The child shows a high level of self-confidence, believing that he or she can complete tasks and face challenges.

4.Curiosity: Children show a strong sense of curiosity and are willing to take the initiative to explore and learn new things.

5.Cooperative: The child shows good cooperation and is able to cooperate with others to complete tasks.

6.Sense of responsibility: The child shows a strong sense of responsibility and is willing to take responsibility for himself and complete tasks.

7.Creativity: Children show a high level of creativity and are able to solve problems through imagination and creativity.

8.Sense of security: The child shows a high sense of security, trusts the people and environment around him, and does not feel upset or anxious.

It is important to note that this is only a possible consequence of growthal failure, and the child's personality and growth environment will also affect his or her development.

This type of parent has authority in the child's mind, but this is based on respect and understanding for the child. They will make reasonable demands on the child, set appropriate goals, and impose appropriate limits on the child's behavior. At the same time, they will show their love for their children and listen to their children's thoughts.

The characteristics of this style of upbringing, although strict, are absolutely democratic. Growing up in this parenting style, the child has strong self-confidence and good self-control, and will be more optimistic and positive.