What should I do if I hate my home environment?

It is recommended that you achieve financial independence on your own and move out to live alone in order to get rid of your family of origin.

The family environment cannot be changed, and if you hate your home environment, you should learn to adapt, or tell your parents, try to change the family environment.

I think you should learn to accept and appreciate, and if you really can't accept it, you can choose to move out and live alone.

You can do this with your family who hate yourself:

1. If you really can't control your emotions, then try to have less direct contact to avoid hurting your parents because you can't control your emotions and regret it afterwards.

2. The starting point of parents is still for the good of their children, but it is possible that the way of love is not right, or what you give is not what you want, but their nagging is also to hope that you are good, if you don't want them to be like this, then you can prove to them that you can live well! If you're really good, they don't have to worry about it, and they won't be nagging you anymore.

Changing others is a psychopath, and changing oneself is God. "You are getting better and better, and it will naturally affect the people around you and their attitude towards you.

3. When your mood stabilizes, you can calmly talk to your parents and talk about your heart. If you can't do it, then sort out the reasons why you are out of control after you are emotionally stable. Remember that although the family of origin has a great influence on a person, many choices are made by yourself, don't be an ostrich with your head buried in the sand, have the courage to face the storms of life, and try to be the master of your own life.

No one can beat you but yourself.

4. Read more books and study more to enrich yourself, keep yourself busy, don't think nonsense all day long, complain about others, when you have wisdom in your brain and a good fortune in your heart, you will be able to better understand your parents' "hate" and your own "impatience", and you will no longer be entangled in these haves and nos.

If you find that your child is disgusted with his birth and family, then parents should educate them immediately and not let their children form such ideas. In fact, children cannot decide what kind of family they are born in, but we can decide our own behavior, because you can create happiness through your own hard work.

Parents also have high expectations for their children, because parents also want their children to get ahead, if the child is born in a bad family, the child may resent his parents, because the child feels that he was not born in a particularly wealthy family, and the child has no way to meet his basic needs, and there is no way to buy what he wants, so the child will be disgusted with his environment. If you find that your child has such emotions, then parents should educate them immediately at this time, and they must let their children have the right ideas.

We all want children to be smarter, and we also want children to be very healthy, so we must provide children with a better growth environment in life. In this way, the child can grow up healthily, and at this time it is necessary to observe the child's inner thoughts. Because children are also prone to some mood swings, so we should also pay more attention to our children in life, if you find that children have such emotions, then parents must also guide at this time, but you must not directly scold the child.

Children may also feel very uncomfortable at this time, because children cannot change their environment at this time, so children may be disgusted with their environment. So parents must let their children have the right concept at this time, so that your children will really like their own home, and will love their parents.

At this time, the child should be able to understand the hard work of his parents, and he should also let the child know that the conditions created by his parents are the ones that his parents have put in a lot of efforts, and they should let the children know that everyone should be responsible for their own lives, do not rely on others all the time, and should teach the children as soon as possible.

Let him know that he can change his family environment through hard work. The child is disgusted with his family because he is dissatisfied with his family, but as long as he knows that he can change his family environment through hard work, he will not be so disgusted with his family environment, but will change his family environment through hard work.

Children should be taught well, and secondly, children should also be taken to see a psychologist, because the state of every family is not what parents want to give their children, and they also hope that children can live a better life and have a better future.