Why do I always feel like I m living an unreal life?

You are who you are now, not someone else's. I think you're not doing a lot of things as you planned or imagined, so you have such thoughts, right? Or what's the reason?.

In fact, a person should be cheerful, don't think too much, follow your own ideas, as long as you feel right. Don't care what others say. Everyone has a different evaluation, don't care.

I hope you will be specific about your problems, otherwise it will be difficult for us to imagine what problems you are encountering.

I'm exactly like you, I feel like I'm the soul in this body, I don't remember a lot of things since I was a child, I hardly ever feel real, I always feel like I don't belong here, and I will definitely return to the original place one day. I've never been able to figure out if I'm fake or if the world is fake.

I don't have confidence in myself. Not confident.

I haven't found a reason to get the truth.

Life is like a play, it all depends on acting skills. It's a joke. However, what is sad is that many times, we play another role in our own lives, and our lives have evolved into an unreal stage play, and we put on masks and live as a false self.

Why don't we dare to live our true selves? Why acting? Maybe it's because you can't bear the truth yet, because to admit the truth means to take your own responsibility, to take all the responsibility for your own life, and to give up dependence.

This will cause panic and fear in the heart, what if you can't do it? There is no one to rely on, and it is a cause for fear. Whether we have the courage to face this fear and believe that we can be fully responsible for ourselves, and that we can live and live well as a person, determines whether we can be ourselves.

Without this courage and self-confidence, it is impossible to give up hypocrisy (actual), because by hiding in a role, you can keep yourself in the relationship and rely on the relationship, even if the relationship has hindered the vitality of life and the stretch of ability.

Why don't you break free when you see the existence of obstacles? Because this obstacle is visible and even familiar (including pain and entanglement, torment), on the contrary, what will happen after breaking free and leaving is unknown and uncertain. This uncertainty, like a huge black hole, is scary and terrifying.

It may be scary, or even unthinkable, just thinking about it. So, it's better to stay in a bad relationship than to win but not to be okay. This is the same situation faced by all those who dare not be independent.

Try to find and face the bottomless black hole in your heart (look into the abyss and allow the abyss to look at you), and then experience and face and accept that fear.

And then to say what to live yourself, it may be more realistic.

To live is to use one's own life to change the lives of others, to change the process of society with the process of one's own life, but also to make oneself live a better life and make oneself better.

I believe that people live for their families, themselves, love, ideals, pursuits, and the meaning of life is different for everyone, and finding a way to live in peace with oneself is the most important thing.

This person lives to do his duty, fulfill his obligations, and enjoy the warmth of the people around him.

Habitual leads. Don't think for a long time. Leading.

There are dreams. Is it ideal? Have you ever been in the hunt?

There is no such thing as failure. If you don't have a dream of your own. People are very empty.

Everything is done by others. Do it yourself. Of course, I don't know why I left.

Thinking too much can lead to depression. If you don't think, you'll be stunned. How to grasp it.

Look for yourself.

How long have you been in this situation? Unreal and unreal, are there any other thoughts or behaviors that you think are different from what you used to be? If your current situation has existed for a long time and occurs frequently, please go to the brain department of the hospital in time to check whether there are organic lesions, and if not, please go to the psychiatric department in time.

This belongs to the most popular mourning culture in today's society; Nowadays, people have such an idea, they feel that they really can't live anymore, and they feel that life is meaninglessBut when it comes time to really face death, can they really face it completely calmly? In fact, no one can do it; Life is stressful right now, and even a lot of the time, stress can be something that many people don't want to face!

We often feel that we can't really live anymore when we are facing pressure, but in fact, this is a way to escape; I still didn't choose to deal with the pressure head-onIf you are negative, then no matter how this society changes, it will not change your heart, and even in many cases, we still can't feel the meaning of living in this society; To put it bluntly, it's because I haven't found my place!

You feel that there is no meaning in this world, it is because you are living in this society, you are just living like the walking dead, often living in three points and one line, so you are not self-motivated, you are not creating the meaning of living in this societyYou will never see the purpose of your life, so you will have a sense of sadness, feeling that you are meaningless in this society!

Thinking too much and doing what is in front of you is the key.

Because I don't know enough about myself.

One of the most popular mourning cultures in society right now.

When you're stressed, you don't know why you're so tired.

There are always two different types of people in our lives, one of them is that they like to deal with people, they like to talk and laugh with the people around them, they always have followers on the side, they seem to be the center of a certain circle, they seem to be the object of some people's conversation, they seem to be everywhere or everywhere they may appear.

But there is always such a type of people, they don't like to join in the fun, they don't like to talk about things with others, they only have themselves in the world, and nothing else has anything to do with me.

It should be said that these two types of people are extreme, either completely open or completely closed, I don't think which way is better, but one thing I believe is that there is always a way that suits you, each individual lives in a different environment, everyone's growth experience is different, the most important thing is that everyone's personality characteristics are different, there can be no way of dealing with the world that is suitable for anyone.

So I suggest that you first think about what kind of person you are. If you are a person who likes to be quiet and lively occasionally, then please maintain your friendships as well, they will make you more aware of yourself. Second, think about what you want and run towards that goal.

Being a person is not looking, numb, I don't know what to say, I don't know what to do, I don't know what to do" I believe that after you know your goals, you won't have these confusions.