Why am I always supported by others, but I can t support myself?

Actually, when you say support, I think that others will always ask you to do something, and rarely ask others to do it. Here's what you think.

This has to be analyzed first, why do you like to do it, what are the things that you are asked to do, are they important or trivial, and others do it or can't do it?

Actually, there is no need to think about it so much. Others like to ask you to do things, or to support you, it also means that you get along well with everyone, and it also shows that you are kind and willing to help others. In addition, doing more things is very helpful for your work, the so-called "suffering losses is blessings" It is a good thing to suffer a little loss when you are young, and it is very helpful for your growth when you encounter problems.

However, you should also learn to say no to others. When you are busy with your own work, when you have something important, you have to refuse to be asked for help from others. You can start by saying "I'm sorry" and explain that you have something important to do, and if the other person is not in a hurry, you can wait until you have done something important before helping him, at which point most people will not ask you for help again.

Pay attention to both language and tone.

The most important thing is to improve your professionalism, if you are an important person, no one will dare to ask you to do trifles. If you're not a heavyweight, you'll only have to do chores for others.

There are also books on the market that teach people how to refuse other people's requests. You can look for it. The bookstore is still a good place, don't be too lazy to look for books.

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First of all, you must prepare in your heart, when others support you, you have to think clearly, whether he is right or not, it has no effect on me, such as face, it is beneficial, whether I need to do it, when you decide not to do it, pay attention to the tone and way of speaking, I believe you will be able to do it, and it will be fine slowly. Respect yourself, believe in yourself, and constantly improve yourself, so that others can rarely support you, and you can be confident

There must be someone like that.

If everyone is for others.

Then there will be no one to support it.

So... There will always be those who will be supported.

It's right?

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Good grades are the foundation of a student's life. The better your grades, the more some classmates want to support you, for four reasons: 1. Jealousy of you and feeling that you need to find psychological balance; 2. Your age is younger in the class or in the same dormitory, and you think that you are young, so you should be supported; 3. You are usually helpful, and your classmates have formed a habit of unconsciously looking for you; 4. You are usually diligent and conscientious, and there are many reasons why your classmates instruct you to think you can do well.

But you must not feel unhappy or stressed about this, you should face this problem squarely. You should think of: 1. Be stronger than others - only to be supported (served); 2. Helpfulness - only to be favored by others (to help others); 3. Be diligent and able to do things - only then will I be valued by others (I am born to be useful); 4. The old and the young should be - traditional morality (respect for elders).

Conclusion: In the future, you will become the most successful among your classmates.

It's not your fault that you usually get along with people and talk well.

But you know, that's how society is now.

You're too talkative.

People will have to make inches.

So learn to be with people when you get along.

You have to know how to build your authority.

Even if you usually giggle with them.

It doesn't matter if everyone scolds each other.

But make it clear that there is a limit to your tolerance.

When classmates joke too much.

You can try to get serious.

Even say a few heavy words.

Let them know that you mind and get angry.

If not.

Slowly, people are touching your bottom.

Naturally. It's not trying to bully you.

It's not that I look down on you.

It's natural for you.

Therefore, it is necessary to learn how to establish authority.

If you lose your temper often, it's not called prestige.

I would like to conclude with one final remark.

Being a human being is inevitable that someone will gossip behind your back.

Go your own way and let others do the talking.

Do what you have to do.

You don't have to be pushing, you have to be likable.

Isn't it? If you are excellent.

There will be people who know how to appreciate you.

Grades just mean that you study hard, but getting along with your classmates is not so simple, it may be that you are too easy to talk too weak, others will bully you, because you will not resist, although everyone should help each other, but it can't be like that, everyone is equal, as long as others can do what they want you to do, you don't want to do it, he can do it, why do you want to do it, then it's not helping, don't be like that in the future, don't be just like that, they have no reason to do that, you refuse a few times, they will relent, in fact, everyone has no malicious intent Just get used to it.

First of all, people should have self-esteem, self-improvement, self-reliance, and self-respect. Then those who know how to respect others can be respected by others. I don't know what grade you are, but what I'm going to say is that people are born with a kind of inertia, and everyone who is used to being supported will subconsciously support him.

It's one thing for you to help your classmates, it's another thing to be supported by others, you have to learn to refuse, you don't have to do what your classmates can do, as for the people you say who laugh at you, you have to be righteous and strict and criticized, because it is an insult to personality, and it is not a pity to lose such a friend

Do you think you can instruct others if you have good grades?

Sometimes doing more is also a kind of experience and wealth, and good people have good rewards!

But there must be a bottom line, if they bully you and touch your bottom line, do him!

Agree with the statement above, you have to learn to deal with the mode of dealing with people, what can you do if you just learn well? The hardest thing to get out of the social company is interpersonal relationships, you should think carefully about why they support you? After thinking about it, you have to think about a solution.

To learn to live, in addition to good grades, you must also be able to get along with others.

If no one says it to your face, it may be because you are too sensitive, keep a good attitude, watch more humorous jokes, and be liked by everyone.

This is a sign that you are different from other people, so others think you are strange.

Try to talk less, don't act aggressively, and if not, understand the person who is talking about you, because he may be a strange person in the eyes of others.

Then, in the end, you have just experienced a lonely boat and a dream of Nanke.

Congratulations, you're in the spotlight.

Maybe you always have a unique opinion, which is different from other people's ideas.

Maybe it's because you're humorous.

Maybe you don't behave like most people.

He will respect you when you make a result, or when you can reflect something that he admires and admires.

Because he's the boss and you're an employee, it's not negotiable, how many bosses have you seen who would consider the feelings of their employees?

It's normal! Because the society is very dark now.