Why do some people just not understand what you re saying?

Hello, because they are stupid and not as smart and understanding as you.

People who are familiar with them have developed a mindset about many aspects of themselves.

So no matter what I say, that person digests what he says according to his own understanding, so I have a headache, I feel that the other party may not understand too much, and when I want to explain again, the other party has no patience to listen, and even says that I don't understand and don't listen, I can't understand what I think, in the final analysis, it's still a mindset, and my ideas are deep-rooted, and my parents are like this.

As an independent individual, it is indeed difficult for one person to fully understand the thoughts of another person, ostensibly, because you can't speak and have a stupid mouth, but in the final analysis, your thinking and logic are confused! Logic is the basis that helps us to speak clearly, and without logical thinking, it is easy to speak unclearly in many cases. This is when you need to improve your eloquence and go to a cram school to learn communication skills.

It is not easy to explain clearly in WeChat, and if you are a little impatient, it will be even more difficult to hear. In order to do a good job, we sometimes have to take the trouble to communicate, don't think that you have communicated this matter clearly, it is likely that others have not heard clearly because of his own problems, although the responsibility is not you, but the work is not done well, everyone is responsible.

It's not a problem of pronunciation, it may be a problem of the speed of your speech, or it may be that the other party is not familiar with the work, so some of the names are not known, and there will be deviations in listening.

It's not that I don't understand, it's that I don't think from your point of view. It is also a person who pretends to be asleep and can never wake up.

Yes, that's for sure! Don't care about that!! Bear with me! Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles!

Soon after I added it, I started to talk about more open topics, and I directly interjected the topic, and said very bluntly that it was not suitable to talk about this.

Later, I mentioned it twice, and I couldn't bear it anymore, so I said that I would block it if I mentioned it again.

Then he kept asking me why I didn't want to get to know him, I said that my first impression of him was very bad, and it was okay to occasionally communicate about work, and it was okay to get to know him in depth, and then this person actually began to count why I was entangled in some of the words he said before, ha, did Lao Tzu force you to say those words with a gun, and now it is said that Lao Tzu is small-minded.

Fuck your uncle.

Summary. Hello kiss, maybe the other party didn't understand what you meant, you can re-express it with the other party.

Someone else says, "I don't understand what you're saying." "What should I do?

Hello kiss, maybe the other party didn't understand what you meant, you can re-express it with the other party.

There are generally only two situations when you say this sentence, one is that people do not have sufficient knowledge and have no way to understand what you are saying, so I hope you can explain further, at this time his tone should be softer, then you can say it again with clearer structure, more popular words, more standard Mandarin and more patience. The second is that others have negative emotions or even hostility towards you for some reason, and do not want to continue the conversation, at this time his tone will appear very hard or impatient or not mountainous, then you have two choices, 1) throw a sentence 'wait until you understand and then talk to me' on his face, instantly improve his aura and change the pattern of jujube ascension; 2) Smile and don't speak.

Summary. Hello dear <>

Kiss, you can't understand people's words, ostensibly it means, you don't understand the meaning of other people's words. <>

But in fact there are different meanings <> different occasions

1. I've told you so many times, and you still do this, you don't understand human language? Here's what it means to complain. Second, don't be like him, it's a thing that doesn't understand human language.

Here is the meaning of accusation and scolding, saying that they do not understand reason and are not close to people. Third, you still have to deal with the baby, he is just a child, you can't understand people's words? This refers to persuasion and stopping.

You don't understand people?

Hello dear <>

Kiss, you can't understand people's words, ostensibly it means, you don't understand the meaning of other people's words. <>

But in fact there are different meanings <> different occasions

1. I've told you so many times, and you still do this, you don't understand human language? Here's what it means to complain. Second, don't be like him, it's a thing that doesn't understand human language.

Here is the meaning of accusation and scolding, saying that they do not understand reason and are not close to people. Third, you still have to deal with the baby, he is just a child, you can't understand people's words? This refers to persuasion and stopping.

Dear, you can't understand human speech Some of them are because the brain is slow or even lagging behind in the development of language. As a result, compared with people of the same age, it seems slightly inferior in terms of language expression. It is also possible to suffer from congenital language disorders, and the lack of language in such patients will lead to the inability to understand others, which is due to the slow development or even lag of the brain in the language module.

As a result, compared with people of the same age, it seems slightly inferior in terms of language expression. It is also possible to have a congenital language disorder, in which the lack of language can lead to inability to understand others. <>

Kissing, we often encounter can't understand what others say, or don't understand the correct meaning of their words, which makes many professionals deeply distressed, can't understand the words is not conducive to communication, let alone can not identify people's hearts are good or bad, and even counterproductive. <>

In life, sometimes you can't understand what other people's words can say?

1. It's your own insufficiency.

I really don't understand, if it's not professional knowledge, but it's closely related to my work or life, and it proves that I'm lagging behind in some aspects. Thinking and learning are not keeping up, and communicating with others is decreasing.

2. It's swollen and can't listen.

This is the one I encounter the most, I can't listen to the people around me, and I don't have patience.

This is especially necessary to reflect on the fact that such mistakes have been made to relatives, colleagues, and customers. Sometimes the purpose of what you want to achieve is very purposeful and direct. So this is also where misunderstandings arise, and I feel my fault every time.

For this, we need to reflect often, and when I chatted with my colleagues today, I took the initiative to let my colleagues give some observation feedback. I do admit that I have to correct the mistakes that have been made.

But fundamental changes still need to be tempered by oneself.

The first is to focus on the current work and make performance and contributions that exceed the team's expectations, and the second is to carry out inner cultivation, temper yourself to live in the moment, interact with the life of your family, and interact with colleagues and customers need to be summarized and reflected on a daily basis. The third is to communicate, find more excellent people to communicate.