I don t know when my boyfriend was cautious about me

It may be that your strength has caused your boyfriend to be submissive. If you really love him and don't want him to be in such a state of relationship with you, then you can choose to be less aggressive, a little woman, and it is better to talk about things and discuss them. Give him a little more confidence and dignity as a man.

A man, in order to love a woman, has done it like thin ice.

The state, do you feel good?

There is also a possibility that your boyfriend is a more emotional man, so he is more careful and sensitive, and as soon as you get angry, he thinks that you will no longer love him, and your love will come to an end. So there is no way to open such a man. If you like it, just deal with it, one thing down one thing, maybe he likes you like this kind of strength.

1. Your boyfriend is basically cautious in doing things, and he expects to be thoughtful (pursuing a more perfect plan).

2. When your boyfriend encounters a choice, he may be more inclined to get answers from you and from the outside world. (will be affected by many objective factors).

3. Your boyfriend expects others to be satisfied more than he is satisfied.

4. When something goes wrong, your boyfriend is more inclined to be silent and look for the reason in himself.

All in all, in the process of getting along with your boyfriend, your boyfriend may lack the courage and confidence to express his true intentions, and he cares more about you, or other people's opinions!Prefer to find the right answer in life from you or other people!

On the one hand, he cares more about other people's feelings and opinions, and can even ignore himself!

On the other hand, your boyfriend is more perfectionist, but the criteria for perfection come from you or someone else!(and not himself).

I think it may be that you like your boyfriend very much, so you are so nervous about your boyfriend, I think it may be that you care about your boyfriend to be so nervous, I suggest you should take it easy.

Since you can't find him, when, I personally suggest that you should have a good chat with your boyfriend, after all, two people need to be honest with each other when they fall in love, and you have to ask why he is not safe for you like this?Or do you feel humbled or what?There is nothing that cannot be solved by being honest with two people, and this can make your relationship better than ever.

If this happens to your boyfriend, it may be that your boyfriend is not as intimate with the woman anymore, or he doesn't feel that way about you anymore.

It may be that what you said in your previous tantrum hurt him and made him feel inferior, you have to reflect on what you did wrong, and let him relax.

I think this should be the boyfriend's insecurity about the relationship between you. That's why I'm careful.

A man is cautious of you, maybe you often get angry with him, quarrel, and in the end you win, he needs to apologize or blame himself, if this means that he loves you very much, but is afraid of making you angry, because he doesn't know how to make you angry.

Maybe two people will be like this for a long time, and if you don't feel the need to expose this, be cautious and separate, because two people don't need to be cautious together, it's too tiring.

Maybe it's your sense of superiority that makes him feel inferior, but he loves you and is afraid that you will be disgusted, so he will be cautious of you.

Caring too much, maybe worrying about losing.

There was no you before, but now I have you and I am afraid of losing you, there is a good saying, the more you care, the more humble you are.

That's what society looks like, taking us from having you and having feet. Personality can become very sleek and sophisticated. Talking to others and doing things has changed from being spontaneous to thinking a lot.

Maybe it's from the beginning of life, from the moment you grow up, you gradually become cautious.

Some people are afraid of being hated so they are cautious, some people are afraid of hurting others so they are cautious, some people are cautious because they are not confident enough, they can't rely on and trust themselves, and some people care too much, they are afraid of change, they can't accept it and they are cautious, all kinds of things will make a person become cautious.

Then we will find that we cannot say everything because we are not children. Even if it may be a simple word, it becomes different when it spreads. Fear of gossip, fear of distraction, and even distrust.

I'm like this, I used to be very free, and now I'm cautious and cautious, I can find something in the supermarket outside and never trouble the salesperson, as if I'm particularly afraid of personal communication, and then you say it's social fear, I'm actually not afraid of seeing people, but I don't want to ask for help, I can do it myself, maybe this is inferiority.

I wanted to record something, but I had nothing to say, I didn't know when I started interacting with people, and I became more and more careful, probably for fear of losing.

With the increase of age and social experience, everyone's social interactions are not as competitive as when they were young, so many things, especially those that have nothing to do with themselves, are more careful, and don't say it when it's time to say, this is also a sign of people's maturity, if you want to record something, you can record this psychology and thoughts, which is also a summary of life experience, and you have to stick to it when you develop habits, which is a good habit.

The manager has a lot of things to do, and when he is mature, he will think a lot and take it easy, which is not bad, at least he will not do impulsive things, because impulsiveness is the devil.

Mostly introverted with too little activity. Oh, I used to do the same, and then it's okay to participate in more activities, so you can participate in more social activities. If you don't think about so many messy things in your heart, natural people will become sunny and optimistic.

Sometimes I have this mentality, which is actually very normal, try to make myself not think too much, just be happy.

Follow the elders, and your path will not be so tortuous.

People grow up. I can't afford to lose. That's going to happen. Normal.

Took away recklessness, not real courage.

This is when you were growing up.

I learned some principles of doing things

It may be that you have developed feelings for each other, so you will become cautious! Fear of losing!

Since when did I become cautious when I spoke to you, I remember that I was very arrogant before!

Which city are you in, which love song are you humming, what kind of hairstyle do you have, how many night buses you have taken, are you drinking iced cola or hot coffee, maybe you are answering **, or your mobile phone has been turned off, I don't know if you are in **, but I firmly believe that you and I will eventually meet, accompany me to watch the scenery in silence, accompany me to hum love songs, you are fine in **, as long as you are still waiting for me.

It's just because you really care about it, and you really can't let go of this relationship. If you are sure that he loves you and deserves your love, then don't hesitate to continue to love him. Because it is not easy to fall in love with someone......

Love him and he cares so much about what to do.