What do you think is the most distressing thing about life for young people today?

One is mortgage pressure. Whether it is in a prosperous metropolis such as Beijing, Shanghai and Guangzhou, or in a small county in a corner, the house has always been a small problem, many young people facing marriage to buy a house rigidly must face, relying only on the savings of both parties is far from enough, which requires the support and help of both parents, barely pay the down payment, the follow-up mortgage has also become a small couple tighten their belts to live a poor life "supervisor", no money marriage natural contradictions will be highlighted, quarrels will follow, endless quarrels can only go to the end of divorce. Therefore, it is proposed that since the house has become the "number one seed" that plagues contemporary young people, it is hoped that the state will introduce more supportive policies and appropriately adjust housing prices, so that the house will no longer become a mountain that young people strive to climb; In addition, young couples who take out loans to buy houses, since they choose to face each other together, they will face it bravely hand in hand, and after the wind and rain, they will eventually usher in a beautiful rainbow.

The second is the pressure of choosing a mate. Today's young people, it is common to get married around the age of 30, it is rare to get married in their 20s, but the age at which they should be married is struggling for a career, and late marriage and late childbearing have become the status quo of today's society. It is difficult to choose a mate and become a headache for the younger generation, "I can't meet the right one", "get married in a few years", "fight for my career first" These words have become a weapon to prevaricate and not want to get married, analysis, young people can pursue careers, but love marriage and struggle for the cause is not contradictory, but between them is a catalyst relationship, with a loved person, naturally a little more motivation to get up, and become the one who is loved, naturally a little more warm, therefore, young us, meet a good person must not be wrong fate, do a career can still get love.

The third is work pressure. In today's workplace, with the influx of young people, the pressure of competition is inevitable; In addition, external expectations have also become part of the pressure of work; Look at the competitors around you and then look at yourself who is still standing still year after year, the pressure is like a torrent of release, diluting the hairline of the forehead and the dark circles of staying up late in an instant, thinking that we must learn to adjust the mentality, healthy competition will improve the ability to work self, not reaching the ideal level is because we could be better, young we must learn to "mean" and "free", properly adjust the way of working, properly adjust the mentality, we will find that work pressure will also become motivation.

1) Employment. Employment has become the primary problem of contemporary young people, most of the young people who have just graduated want to find good welfare, less working hours, no overtime, good jobs with both hands, but these good jobs naturally have to match high-quality talents, which is also the place where contemporary young people are entangled. The number of unemployed young people who have just graduated from college is increasing due to the fact that they are not at a high level or at a low level, and they do not want to settle down.

After all, good jobs are limited, and people with outstanding abilities are also a minority, so face the reality and live less in ideals.

2) Marriage. Women's independence meant that they were no longer dependent on men, and the conditions for marriage were becoming more and more stringent, while men were always deterred. Especially for men with average family background, average ability, and average economy, this is a relatively serious problem, after all, the gap between men and women is in the first place.

It is necessary to recognize the struggle between men, and now there are frighteningly high housing prices and rising bride prices that are bound to put pressure on young men. But these are also pressures and motivations, inspiring young people to continue to strive for a double harvest of career and love.

3) Family. Child raising is a big problem for young people after marriage, and children are affected by good educational resources in their later lives. On the one hand, it is necessary to take care of the children's daily life, study and education, and care for and serve the elders.

At the same time, I have to take care of work, which is really tiring, if a child is sick or an elder has an accident, I have to run both the hospital and the company, and in any case the work must be as usual, and the family survives on their own income. Therefore, no matter what difficulties you encounter, you must persevere, have the spirit of not admitting defeat, turn these troubles into your own motivation, and protect and manage a beautiful family.

I think that contemporary young people should have a good attitude to face life, although there is a lot of pressure in life, but also know how to live to change their life status, life will become more meaningful. Always be smiling. It's like that saying:

People who love to laugh are never too lucky. Be sure to drink plenty of water every day, water is the source of life and health, you must sleep for 8 hours a day, stay up late = disfigurement = obesity = hair loss.

A good life starts with eating well. To eat well is to love yourself well.

Learn to read more and read good books. It's still too late!

No matter how busy you are, don't forget to jog and keep jogging!

Set aside at least 1 minute a day to meditate, because a person's growth is inseparable from solitude, and only solitude can allow you to see your own heart.

Keep trying new things, and even if you encounter difficulties, you will win incomparable rewards.

Learn to be tolerant, learn to forgive, and don't forget to forgive yourself while forgiving others.

Life is short, don't waste your life to worry about other people's trivial things. Although there are difficulties and pressures in life, it is not a problem for young people, because they are young, they have time to solve many problems in life, and they must face these pressures with a good attitude and constantly enrich themselves. in order to make life more meaningful.

The most distressing thing is that the word poverty is too great, and the economic pressure is too great. No house, no car, no deposit, not even love.

1. Persistently not wanting to go to work.

There are always 30 days a month when I don't want to go to work. Especially when I wake up in the morning, I have a million thoughts in my mind that I don't want to go to work. But in the end, I struggled to get up, forced by life, and pretended to volunteer to go to work.

2. Intermittent crashes.

Comparing goods has to be thrown, and people have to die more than people. When comparing myself with others, I often feel that I have nothing and are worthless. Whether it's career, love, or family life, they can't catch up with others.

Intermittent extreme low self-esteem, leading to self-collapse. This is actually something that many people will once in a while.

3. Stay up late in a life-giving style.

Whether it's going out to eat, drink, or play games, or play on your phone, you can play until late at night. Even overnight! This is actually very bad for the body. The older you get, the more you realize that good health is the most important thing.

4. Dream like you want to get rich.

Always thinking about buying a lottery ticket and winning the jackpot, or getting rich overnight. It's like a dream, and there's everything in the dream. There are even a lot of unrealistic ideas about wanting to get rich.

5. Habitual self-healing.

Although sometimes I feel depressed, even to the verge of collapse. But as time passed, he quickly changed back. It's like a habit, and after a while, your bad mood can regulate and heal itself.

The first is the pressure of the mortgage, whether it is in a prosperous metropolis such as Beijing, Shanghai and Guangzhou, or in a small county, the house has always been a lot of problems, young people facing marriage, buying a house is a must face, close to the time of both parties is far from enough, which requires the support and help of both parents to go all out, in order to be able to barely pay the down payment, the follow-up mortgage will also make the two people tighten their belts, and the natural contradictions of the marriage without money will be highlighted, and quarrels will follow.

The second is the pressure of choosing a mate, today's young people around them are about 30 years old, and it is rare to get married in their 20s, but the age at which they should be married is struggling for their careers, late marriage and late childbearing have become the status quo of today's society, and the difficulty of choosing a mate has become a headache for the younger generation.

In addition, coupled with the epidemic in the past two years, the number of recruits in many companies has decreased, and many young people are facing employment difficulties at a young age.

There is no sense of happiness! Since birth, I have had various expectations, I have started to go to school for all kinds of supplementary classes, and I have worked for all kinds of intrigues! When you are older, it is the pressure of marriage, mortgage, physical pressure, and children's education!

Pension problems! Medical Issues! So sometimes I run around all my life, and I feel like I'm doing too much, but I'm not really for myself.

The most distressing thing about life for contemporary young people is that they have no money, and the pressure is too great.

In addition to being single, the most troublesome thing for contemporary people is work and life.

Work pressure and life pressure are far more than single, girlfriends are easy to find, good jobs are not easy to find, and it is more difficult to live a better quality of life, mainly because modern people's pursuit of material things far exceeds the spiritual level, and too much material makes the spirit troubled.

Therefore, the main trouble is still work and life, as the saying goes, "life is easy, life is easy, life is not easy", this is the truth.

insomnia, can't sleep, so annoying", "was urged to get married", "drunk at night" and a series of circle of friends complained, complained, and lost. Negative energy becomes overwhelming. Of course, there will be positive energy as well. But obviously there is more negative energy than positive energy.

Why do young people today have so much negative energy? As one of the young people, I may seem happy and have no worries, but in fact, I just don't want to spread some negative energy. I also hope that I can be a person with positive energy in my whole body.

But the reality made me stunned. With this platform. Express your feelings.

It's probably really that sentence: "There is no easy word in the adult world". When I was a child, I was always looking forward to the long hall, and when I used to study, I could always hear the teacher say:

Cherish the life of your student days, and if you miss it, you won't have it", well. Now that I've grown up, I can gradually understand the feeling of the teacher saying that at that time. But you get it, you can't go back.

This is probably a different idea at each stage.

Maybe now we young people will have a lot of troubles, love, family affection, work. But when you get old, everything you did when you were young is in the past!

The collapsed servants do not spread negative energy. Troubles will always be solved slowly, as the saying goes, as long as the mind does not slip, there are always more solutions than difficulties. So there may be a lot of troubles, but you also have to quarrel and be the little sun in your heart.

Most of the reasons for the anxiety of young people are caused by economic pressure, high work pressure, high unemployment rate, difficult employment, high cost of living, high housing costs, and high education costs for the next generation, which makes young people in a state of anxiety.

It is difficult to find employment. At present, China's economy is stable and continues to rise, but the requirements for innovation-driven development are becoming more and more severe, and the overall employment situation is not optimistic. New data released by the Ministry of Education expects 9 million college graduates this year, an increase of 200,000 from the year before, another record figure that has certainly exacerbated structural unemployment within the industry.

In addition to this, even if the work goes smoothly, it is necessary to face the psychosocial pressures of job competition.

It's hard to buy a house. Because of the influence of traditional concepts, most people believe that they must buy a suite when they get married, and in addition, the house must come with a series of benefits, such as education, hospitals, community services, etc., which makes it more difficult to buy a house. In recent years, although the state has always adhered to the policy of "not using houses for speculation", many places have adopted the housing policy of "restricting purchases and loans".

According to international practice, the income of housing is generally reasonable within 3 to 6 years, but in some first-tier cities, provincial capitals, and economically developed cities, housing is generally high, and the income ratio of housing prices is between 20 and 30. The high cost of living has increased the burden on young people.

It is difficult for children to go to school. Knowledge can change destiny, and allowing children to receive a high-level quality education is the goal of parents all over China to achieve a leap in social class. In recent years, the country's investment in education has been increasing, but it is undeniable that there is a gap in the distribution of educational resources between cities, towns, and schools.

Taking pre-school education as an example, the enrollment rate of kindergartens in China is 79%. Some children are still facing the problem of difficulty in entering kindergarten. In addition, the issue of nine-year compulsory education has also become the focus of parents' attention.

Children can go to the best kindergarten, the best elementary school, the best secondary school, and in the face of this series of problems, young people are already exhausted. It can be said that a high level of education for children will bring more pressure to the lives of young parents.

The main reason is that the price has been in the first place, and the pressure on them is also very great, especially now that they are not paying much salary, but working less and less, which has caused very serious pressure on their bodies and living economy.

This is mainly due to the pressure at work, as well as the pressure of buying a house and a car, so the pressure of contemporary young people is a little greater, and they are more anxious about life.