Why doesn t Lin Daiyu remember Jia Tanchun s birthday?

First, Lin Daiyu's emotional intelligence is relatively low, which is a feature that runs through the whole book. Because she is weak and sickly, she is more negative and depressed, and she has no parents around her to teach her these things. Let's be reasonable, if you don't mean to please someone, it's really hard to remember someone's birthday.

Take myself as an example, I don't remember my best friend's birthday very much, and I will only know when I talk in the group and discuss what gifts to buy. In other words, even if you are a very good friend, it is difficult to remember what you don't do, let alone a colder person like Daiyu.

Second, Lin Daiyu is still a woman in love, that is, she only had Jia Baoyu in her heart at that time, and she couldn't tolerate anything else. Although Daiyu can be said to have the best relationship with Tanchun in Sanchun, it is far less important in her heart than the little awkward pimple with Baoyu. All day long, I only have my own lonely life experience in my mind, what to do with my marriage with Baoyu in the future, and I can't tolerate anything else.

Judging from the description of the original author, it's not that Daiyu doesn't remember Tanchun's birthday, but Tanchun's birthday has not been a big deal, at most, it's just a simple banquet at home to prepare a table, and make two sets of new clothes. However, when everyone was preparing to compose a poem that day, Mrs. Wang Ziteng came to Jiafu, and everyone had to accompany the guests, so they had no time to compose poems and delayed.

After the poems were delayed by Mrs. Wang Ziteng on the second day of the first month, they did not set the day to open the society, and Daiyu said: "It's unfortunate that my club is open, and I forgot that these two days are his birthdays." Although he doesn't drink and sing, he has to joke with the old lady and his wife for a day, how can he have free time?

Therefore, it was changed to the fifth day of the first month. "I don't think this is to say that Daiyu really forgot Tanchun's birthday, but Daiyu said politely, because she is now the owner, and the poetry club has been shelved halfway through, and unfortunately Yuanchun has given Tanchun a gift, Jiafu should give Tanchun a more grand birthday this time, and Tanchun will not be idle for these two days. Therefore, there is no need to convene everyone to discuss when the company will be opened again, Daiyu can set a date to notify everyone when the time comes, saving time and effort, and not delaying Tanchun to be busy with her birthday, the best of both worlds.

The opening of the club was delayed on the second day of the first month, and if Daiyu didn't say anything at this time, it would seem that the owner of the club was out of order and didn't care about the poetry club. If Daiyu said: "It's a coincidence that my club is open, these two days are his birthday ......."Remove the word "forget", and the context will be very different.

So from the point of view of time, it was something that delayed the birthday of Tanchun and the day of the society collided together, not that Daiyu didn't remember the birthday of Tanchun and arranged the day of the company on the occasion of Tanchun's birthday, so Daiyu said that she forgot to visit the birthday of Tanchun, but it was just Daiyu's polite and thoughtful kind words.

It was Tanchun who didn't remember Daiyu's birthday and said that no one had a birthday in February.

Tanchun is not happy if he has a birthday. It may be Aunt Zhao or Wang Xifeng. Quite scary.

It's a good time, it may be Miaoyu, maybe there is a chance to advance to Daiyu. The former is short-sighted and frightening, and the latter is long-witted. It's like this horizontally and vertically, so it's better to look at it after a while.

Cao Xueqin's cleverness is to hide the ending of the story, so that everyone can go to the perfect reverie, different times and different people come to different endings, and a remnant that can never be written.

Hello, I am very happy to serve you and give you the following answer: Xue Baochai and Jia Baoyu cried before Lin Daiyu's birthday because Lin Daiyu was forced to marry Xue Zhen, and Jia Baoyu was also forced to marry Wang Xifeng. Reason:

1.The social system at that time: The social system at that time stipulated that women could not choose marriage independently, but were decided by their parents, Lin Daiyu and Jia Baoyu were both children of the family, and parents could only arrange their marriage in accordance with the social system at that time.

2.The financial resources of the Jia family: The financial resources of the Jia family are not as good as the Xue family, and the Jia family can only marry Jia Baoyu to Wang Xifeng, while Lin Daiyu is forced to marry Xue Zhen.

Workaround:1Changing the social system:

Change the social system of the time, so that women can choose their own marriage, so that they can love and marry freely. 2.Increase financial resources:

Change the social system: First of all, it is necessary to change the social system of the time, so that women can choose their own marriage, so that they can love and marry freely. 2.

Increase financial resources: Secondly, it is necessary to increase the financial resources of the Jia family, so that they can marry Jia Baoyu to the person they like, and Lin Daiyu can also freely choose their own marriage. Personal Tips:

Changing the town, changing love and marriage is the most important thing for people, and we should respect everyone's choice and not limit him because of social system or financial resources.

Jia Baoyu was born in 1706, and Lin Daiyu's real date of birth was February 12, 1707 (Yiwei Day, Tuesday, March 15 in the Gregorian calendar[7]).

Jia Baoyu is about April 20 and Lin Daiyu is February 12.

In the book "Dream of Red Mansions", many characters are given an accurate date of birthday, such as the third day of August for Jia's mother, the first day of January for Jia Yuanchun, the second day of September for Wang Xifeng, the third day of March for Jia Tanchun, the second day of January for Xue Baochai, the twelfth day for Lin Daiyu and the attacker, the first day of March for Mrs. Wang, and the third day of May for Xue Pan. Although the book focuses on the lively scene of Jia Baoyu's birthday, the date of the core character's birthday is hidden. According to autobiography, many people are convinced that Jia Baoyu's birthday is very likely to be Cao Xueqin's birthday, so many researchers have studied Jia Baoyu's birthday, and the results are:

April 20 or 21 said.