Can you stay in someone else s room during confinement, and what happens if you go to someone else s

Can I stay in someone else's house during confinement?

In some places, there is a custom that married daughters or relatives are not allowed to confinement in their own homes, otherwise it will bring bad luck to the family.

A friend, Madoka, has been married for many years and has not had a baby, and the couple checks that everything is normal. Madoka's eldest sister once had confinement in Madoka's newlywed house, so Madoka's mother's family blamed Madoka's eldest sister for not getting pregnant, saying that it was unlucky.

Although it is a superstitious statement, if the other party believes in this, if there is something bad in the family, it will be very bad to blame it on this matter.

If it is an only child, it is normal for the mother to let her daughter go back to her parents' house for confinement out of concern.

Or if the economic conditions do not allow it, I hope to go back to my parents' house for confinement, and it is impossible for my parents to kick their daughter out.

Some people who are not financially well-off have been renting a house to live, and they have the money to buy a house specifically for giving birth to children and confinement? In this case, you can only confinement in a rented house. Renting a house is considered someone else's home, but there is no choice.

Some mothers with good family conditions or no one to take care of them, can't invite a confinement lady who agrees, and feel that the confinement center can take better care of themselves, and there are many people who choose to go to the confinement center for confinement.

There are also some mothers who have close friends, and no one takes care of them in their own homes, so they go to a good friend's house for confinement. Before I gave birth to a baby, my good friend knew that I had no one to take care of my baby after giving birth, so she specially told me that she had packed up a house in her family, and I could go to her house for confinement after giving birth, and she would take care of me, and I could live as long as I wanted. However, I still didn't go because of the fatigue of the journey, but this heart is touching.

My friend didn't think that his house would be any bad luck for me to be confined.

There are also some people who have a relatively small house area and a relative's house that is relatively wide, and they communicate well with their relatives, and if the relatives agree, it is okay to go to the relative's house for confinement. My eldest sister gave birth to a baby in my house for a long time, and I didn't think there was anything wrong with it.

During the confinement period, both the mother and the baby need to be well cared for, and if someone takes care of them, it is more comfortable to have confinement in their own home. After all, it is a familiar environment, and there is no need to worry about getting up in the middle of the night to feed the baby and change diapers will affect other people, and there is no need to worry that the mother will feel troublesome to others and affect people's living habits.

In short, don't go to other people's homes during confinement, the mother's mood is very important, if you are uncomfortable and in a bad mood in other people's homes, you will not only be easy to return to breastfeeding, but also easy to make yourself depressed.

There is such a saying in my country: women can't go to other people's homes when they give birth to children in confinement, because the women in the confinement are weak, the body is heavy, and it is easy to get into unclean things.

Why don't confinements approve of going to someone else's house?

1. Because the woman in confinement is relatively weak and should not move around often, it is not recommended to go to other people's homes to visit relatives.

2. Because confinement is related to the health of a woman's life, the body is relatively weak at this time, and it needs to be well adjusted, and there may be wind in other people's homes, and the mother is easy to catch a cold.

3. Children are prone to crying in the middle of the night, or pooping and peeing, which may dirty other people's houses, and others will not like it.

In fact, the most important thing is that from the perspective of maternal health, it is not that confinement can not go back to the mother's house to sit, you can go to the first confinement, but you can choose a place for confinement, don't run around, or focus on cultivating the body.

As for the taboo in some places, this is just a local custom and superstition, there is no need to take it too seriously, and it doesn't matter if you don't believe it.