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Other people's families are eating at my house, and I don't think it's good, it's not a good phenomenon. After all, it's not a festive event, and if it's festive, it can be in someone else's house.
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There is nothing wrong with this, now there are usually people in the countryside who have passed away, and they usually set up a lot of tables to eat together, and generally they can't sit in their own house, so they go to the neighbor's house to set up a table, which is very normal.
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If someone from someone else's family dies and wants to set a table at your house to eat, there is no problem, and it will have any impact on your sister.
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This situation is certainly not good. Because there is such a thing at home, it is better not to go to other people's houses. Don't even set a table in someone else's house. Even if it's on the street. Nor can it be placed in someone else's house.
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Well, I feel like there's nothing good about staying at your house at the dinner table, after all, how do you say it? Like rural words, because. There are some people who don't have enough space to buy and will do this, which is understandable, and people won't say it, because someone died or Pepsi, and then they have any opinions on this matter, or they will bring some bad luck to themselves, and so on, it is generally more common.
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If someone else's family dies, it has nothing to do with you putting your family to eat at the dinner table, because you have nothing to do with the deceased's family when you set your family to eat your family's food.
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Someone else's family has passed away, is it okay to set the table at my house for dinner? I think this is very human, and there is no situation in your own home, and it will not affect your feng shui, so you can rest assured.
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Other people's homes are old people's dinner tables, is it good to eat at my house, it's okay, there is no such thing as death in our side, people can eat at other people's homes.
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Someone else's family has passed away, is it okay to set the table at my house for dinner? When someone else's family dies, many of them need to be placed on the dinner table at the neighbor's house, and this has no effect on the neighbor's family.
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There is nothing good about this, but now because there are no restaurants in the countryside, many people are in this situation at home, and there is nothing good or bad.
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This is nothing, don't believe it, it's just eating at your house, we have a lot of this situation here, don't worry about these.
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It's definitely not good. Why put it on your doorstep to eat? You can talk to him. It's a funeral after all.
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In fact, I didn't say anything good or bad, and neighbors should help each other.
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There are no specific rules for this. It's usually up to you. It also has to do with what kind of relatives it is.
If it is an ordinary relative, such as an aunt or aunt, it is only a week. If it's relatively close, such as grandparents and grandparents, it's a month. If it's a parent, it should be more than three months.
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What are the two taboos after the death of a loved one?
During the period of filial piety, relatives and friends cannot be visited.
After the death of a loved one, there will be a period of filial piety, during which although you can work and rest normally, go to work and school, it is best not to go far away, or to visit relatives and friends. You can't invite friends to dinner, the general filial piety period is 7 days, especially some more festive activities, such as weddings, opening ceremonies or other people's full moon banquets, it is best not to participate during the filial piety period, in order not to bring bad emotions to others. During the period of filial piety, we should be pious and remember the deceased with sincerity.
In addition, there are many particularities during the filial piety period, such as the immediate family, can not wear some brightly colored clothes, during the filial piety period to prohibit some entertainment activities, in the first year of the death of the immediate family, the door of the house is also not allowed to paste red couplets.
You can't cry with false feelings.
When a loved one dies, it is very normal to cry, showing grief and regret for the deceased. But only sincere crying can make the deceased nostalgic for the world, and those false cries cannot let the deceased rest in peace, and even disrespect the deceased. When you are in the mourning hall, do not cry loudly, so as not to disturb the soul of the deceased.
As a relative, I hope that the deceased can go more at ease. When entering the funeral, you need to pay more attention not to put tears on the body of the deceased, and it is very unlucky to shed tears on the body.
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Hello, the deceased family of the old man can go to eat in the restaurant. When a loved one dies, the living have to go to eat after all, how can they live without eating? Generally, after the old man is sent away, these relatives who rushed over for the death of the old man are invited to the restaurant or set up a banquet at home, so that they can all have a good meal, in order to express their gratitude for coming here from thousands of miles away, and they will arrange good food and lodging for them, so that the deceased old people will be relieved if they know it, and they will leave peacefully.
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Dream about a deceased loved one eating at homeIt means that there will be good development in the near future, maybe with the help of noble people, you can succeed in what you want to do, and you don't have to worry.
Before going out, I dreamed that my deceased loved one was eating at homeIt means that there is no big problem with traveling, just pay attention to safety, and be careful of the food given by strangers.
A pregnant woman dreams of a deceased loved one eating at homeIt is a sign that you will have a healthy baby, which is the expectation of the whole family, and the family will come to take care of you in the near future.
The patient dreams that a deceased loved one is eating at homeIt means that your body is recovering well, there is no need to worry, you can rest in peace.
The old man dreamed that his deceased relatives were eating at homeIt indicates that your children will often come to take care of you in the near future, and you are still in good physical condition and can go out for a walk more.
Before the exam, I dreamed that a deceased loved one was eating at homeIt means that everything went smoothly during the exam, there is no need to worry, just ensure that you perform at a normal level.
Do's and don'ts when dreaming of a deceased loved one eating at home:
It is advisable to read books, plots, and piano practice.
Don't wash your feet, don't be lazy, and don't get a haircut.
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Why do you want to invite a friend back to dinner after someone in your family has passed away?
After someone in a friend's family passed away, he wanted to invite his friend back to have a hungry dinner, mainly to express his friends' gratitude for coming to mourn Lu. This has no special meaning, just to show that everyone can come to the funeral, this is a kind of sincere gratitude, there was no such behavior before, but in recent years people have gradually developed this poor habit, and now it is more prevalent like this, which also represents a person's grateful heart, there is no particularity, and that's it, it's just <>a kiss
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Summary. Hello, friends, Chinese-style funerals generally have to be tossed for a few days, but also collect money, some people have made efforts, some people have spent money, and the family members do not express their thanks, and it is not polite to get over the face. After the funeral in Western countries, I often have a cocktail party or a cold dinner party or something, and everyone will remember the deceased together.
The second is that relatives and friends sit together to eat, chat, and drink two cups, chat about the past, talk about family life, and comfort each other, which can be regarded as a kind of psychological intervention after experiencing the pain of the death of relatives and friends.
Hello, friends, Chinese-style funerals generally have to be tossed for a few days, but also collect money, some people have made efforts, some people have spent money, and the family members do not express their thanks, and it is not polite to get over the face. After the funeral in Western countries, I often have a cocktail party or a cold dinner party or something, and everyone will remember the deceased together. The second is that relatives and friends sit together to eat, chat, drink two trillion Zheng leather cups, talk about the past of Cong Annihilation, and comfort each other, which can be regarded as a kind of psychological intervention after experiencing the pain of the death of relatives and friends.
In terms of funeral, most of them take two or three days, the old man has several generations of grandchildren, when he brings filial piety, he also has to divide the generations, if it is a grandson to add a green cloth, a great-grandson to increase the red slow stuffy cloth, a heavy grandson to add a yellow cloth, etc., relatives and friends disturb the situation and friends are to hang filial piety to see off, and there are many busy La, therefore, after the funeral needs to invite guests to eat, to show gratitude.
After all, someone in Tanyin's family has passed away, and it is certain to believe and argue that the sadness is certain, but everyone comes to help you, and you have to entertain a meal despite your grief, this meal is the most important part of this funeral. That is to say, as the saying goes, in a person's life, he will eat one meal at birth and one meal when he dies.
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Hello, it is a custom to invite relatives and friends to dinner after the funeral. There are two reasons for this. First of all, funerals generally have to be tossed for a few days, and silk money is also collected, and some people have contributed to the Lu Jieji people who have made a lot of money, and the family members do not express their thanks, and it is not polite to get over the face.
Secondly, relatives and friends sit together to eat, chat, and drink two glasses, talk about the past, talk about the past, and comfort each other, which can be regarded as a kind of psychological intervention after experiencing the pain of the death of relatives and friends.
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Death is the destiny of life. If life ends in a hurry or is broken in the middle of the way, it is a terrible and sad thing, and it is always a simple end; If the deceased long-lived person dies or dies, it is an auspicious funeral, a joy, but a "white joy" compared to the marriage "red joy". Most funerals and banquets are held to not only pay tribute to the dead, but also to comfort the living, and to wish the living a long life.
Funerals in old China were complicated and simple. The funeral of the eunuch's house is extremely cumbersome, and there are more than 10 kinds of banquets, including the list of finished clothes, the list of memorial seats, the list of sending the chief official Manchu Han, the list of funeral breakfast, the list of ancestral hall guests, the list of Fushan seats, etc. Later, the funeral banquet was gradually simplified, and some places held the funeral with the "Seven Star Banquet" to entertain guests, only six dishes and one soup, less meat, more tofu cabbage, somen and clear soup, and the tableware was also plain, and the atmosphere was gloomy.
There are also corresponding rituals for the deceased, first of all, a feast for sake, vegetarian snacks, fruits, etc.; To fasting.
On the 7th and 100th Days, Death Anniversary and Qingming Festival, the food that the deceased loved to eat during his lifetime is often enshrined. It can be seen that people not only wish a person good health by eating and drinking during his lifetime, but also drink after a person's death.
After the death of a person, what kind of food do friends serve when they invite their family to eat and drink?
If life ends in a hurry or is broken in the middle of the way, it is a terrible and sad thing, and it is always a simple end; If the deceased long-lived person dies or dies, it is an auspicious funeral, a joy, but a "white joy" compared to the marriage "red joy". Most funerals and banquets are held to not only pay tribute to the dead, but also to comfort the living, and to wish the living a long life. Funerals in old China were complicated and simple.
The funeral of the eunuch's house is extremely cumbersome, and there are more than 10 kinds of banquets for all kinds of sales, including the list of finished clothes, the list of memorial seats, the list of sending the main official Manhan table, the funeral breakfast list, the ancestral hall guest table, the Fushan table and so on. Later, the funeral banquet was gradually simplified, and some places held the funeral with the "Seven Star Banquet" to entertain guests, only six dishes and one soup, less meat, more tofu cabbage, somen and clear soup, and the tableware was also plain, and the atmosphere was gloomy. There are also corresponding rituals for the deceased, first of all, a feast for sake, vegetarian snacks, fruits, etc.; To fasting.
Seven and 100 days, the anniversary of the death of the macro and the Qing Dynasty, it is often offered to the food that the deceased loved to eat during his lifetime. It can be seen that people not only eat and drink to wish health for a person who has lost his life during his lifetime, but also drink it even after a person's death.
Moreover, after the death of a person, food and drink are still used as a ritual, that is, mourning the deceased and comforting the living, and wishing the living, including themselves, health and longevity.
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According to the old people in the past, if there is an old man in the family who has died, it is best not to go to someone else's house, the old man in your family has died, as a junior, the luck of this year is very low, and going to someone else's house will bring bad luck to others, so don't go to someone's house.
The death of the old man in the family is not allowed to go to other people's homes, because the death of the old man must wait until three years before going to other people's homes, even the New Year can not go to their parents' house, you go to other people's homes will bring evil spirits to others, no matter who is taboo this, you go to other people's homes may not let people into the door, so you better not go, you go to other people's homes will bring them ominous things.