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This statement is quite vague in the first place, I don't know what you mean by being too selfish? I think there may be two types: one is the borderline personality disorder that is stubborn and extreme, regardless of other people's feelings and insists on acting, this kind of person is actually not assertive, and his ego is a defense mechanism formed in reverse, which is likely to defend against inner inferiority complex and incompetence; The other is self-nature, he knows what he wants, he has a clear goal, clear thinking, mental health, and good empathy ability, it can be said that he can understand everyone but is above others, and is not dominated by others.
The latter type of person is often referred to as "too egos" and "a little crazy", but his ego is a healthy and powerful self that ultimately leads to happiness and success.
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All things are mutually reinforcing, existing, and interconnected.
In fact, our existence, between people, is interdependent.
Recognize with the help of the other person, and feel your presence with the help of the other person.
It is precisely because people are imperfect that they need each other.
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Nonsensical: You won't understand something missing.
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What people need is a stable life, and stability and plainness are the best.
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Love is actually very simple and simple! Love doesn't need to be out of the blue, it's true! For love, we don't expect its fulfillment, but we can make it true...
Today's society is a society where feelings are overflowing, love has long become fast food, not for eternity, but for what once had... What will happen in the future, who thinks so far? So love becomes a pillow when you are lonely, a traveling companion when you are lonely; It becomes an excuse for some people to achieve their goals, and even becomes a slave to money ...
At this time, love has lost its beautiful aura and has become realistic and worldly... Is there still true love in this society? Yes, but very little, modern people do not know how to cherish love, when they have it, they will suck the essence of love recklessly, do not water, do not fertilize, so the flower of love will not be long before it withers...
When love went away, I found that the beautiful love I was striving for was once so close to me, but unfortunately there is no regret medicine in this world... So when you have a good love, cherish it ... To love someone is to care about him and want him to be happy, and his joys, sorrows and sorrows also affect my emotions, but I just want him to be happy.
If you love someone just to make him love you, then you are misinterpreting the meaning of love. If he could live happier without you, then you should be happy, shouldn't you? Your fulfillment may make it a lot easier for each other, friend, why bother so much, there are many unfair things in the world.
The fate is determined by heaven, and the share is artificial, maybe you are not suitable to be together. Bury that love deep in your heart, as long as you silently bless him, one day you will also be blessed by God and meet your real him. Now if you have the same mindset as I do, you will be happy.
It's okay to love someone, it's just that we love the wrong person.
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The first sentence seems to be from "Joan", but I didn't see it there!! The author seems to be: The following sentence comes from:
The full text of Shui Yuehua's "Drunk and Lying in the Red Dust" is: In the depths of my soul, time is dead. The black butterfly perched under the petals of the white rose, countless reincarnations, if God really pities me and gives me another chance to survive in this world, then I want to be a person, a person on a person.
And in this life, I want to taste the joys and sorrows of life, see the prosperity of Hongchen, and in this life, I want to return Yang Zheng, a tear ......
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"Qiong Yu" by: As long as you want it, as long as I have it.
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This sentence is very beautiful、Most of them are circulating on the Internet.、I guess I can't find the source.
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But any conscious person, his consciousness determines that he has to experience, that is, to feel, this is a particularly natural situation, just as if there is soil, plants will grow, and there are recesses that can store water.
The difference between different people is that they themselves experience and feel more positive or negative, and this is different, and people will have different creative behaviors and different experiences through different subjectivity, and so on. Therefore, a person who is too selfish will be collided with a lot, and he must not feel good in his heart. People who are more objective and rational are more comfortable in doing things, and their hearts are more tolerant and peaceful、、、
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Because human creativity is driven by subjectivity.
Human creativity is naturally very powerful.
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Because human beings are well educated, human beings with advanced information are strong.
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Is there a big difference in the economic strength of the two of you? Are you rich, and are they poor?
If the economic strength is about the same. It is recommended that you have a long pain rather than a short pain, leave for a while, let the other party feel what the days of losing you are like, and give yourself a little time to re-examine your inner desires and answers, a life is not very long, but the days of torture are not very short. When you really get married and have children, more bitter water is waiting for you, and you don't have the confidence to stick to something, don't hurt innocent children at that time.
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For your experience, I sympathize with you, and when I meet such a man's family, I am also wronged by you, and I know from the text that you think about him everywhere, but his family has repeatedly made inches, such a person, even if you marry in the future, your life is not easy, and you are not happy, you will always quarrel in the future.
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Well, you're right. You can't make friends with people who are too selfish. Before making friends, you must look at what kind of person you are. It's okay to be selfish, but it's okay to be too selfish.
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After years of rendering and the ups and downs of the sea of people, I know that only by letting go can we relax, letting go can we be free, and whoever is relieved first will be happy. Those who know others are wise, and those who know themselves know that in those intentional or unintentional things, everyone has the ability to discern and should be able to distinguish what is a normal feeling.
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Judging from your narrative, their family doesn't take you seriously, whether they have money or not, the key is to be good to you, and they are willing to spend it on you, so forget it.
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As the saying goes, buying and selling on the pole is not buying and selling.
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When you decide, you will decide, otherwise you will always be the one who suffers.
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Please don't bring personal feelings to the narrative, judging from your expression, the typical good news is not bad.
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I have an interest in him.
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Sometimes attraction is won by temperament, haha.
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Hehe, how to say it, everyone has a sense of self-respect, and the source wants to be recognized and respected by others.
I guess some of the aspects of your du make your roommate unhappy. In fact, young people are still relatively easy to get along with, scatter cigarettes, and get drunk.
Directly say that you don't understand much, maybe some things make you uncomfortable, but I still like you very much, and I hope to be happy together.
In addition, pay more attention to others and care about others, so that you can get the care and respect of others.
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