Are people who don t get angry scary? People who never lose their temper are the most terrible

Not being angry, generally speaking, is a kind of self-cultivation, city-government, calm personality, calm and rational performance. The vast majority of people think it is a good quality and are striving for it.

As for whether it is afraid or not, it depends on the angle from which it is judged.

If it is an enemy of such a person, it is terrible because the other party rarely has the opportunity to make mistakes.

If you are friends with them, it is easy to get along with.

In addition, whether it is terrible or not depends mainly on whether the other party is kind or not.

I am most afraid of two kinds of people, smiling and very indifferent all day long, and when they explode, they directly fight with others. So don't provoke others just because they don't get angry!

Because anger can damage health, it can also affect one's thinking and judgment, which can lead to making mistakes.

In fact, people can be angry, and emotions are one of the basic attributes of human beings. Often people feel angry or angry when they are being treated unfairly, lose control, or are frustrated. However, proper venting and control is very serious.

Excessive, unjustified anger can have a negative impact on physical and mental health. For example, long-term anger can lead to health problems such as anxiety, depression, and high blood pressure. Therefore, it is very important to vent and manage emotions.

When faced with frustration or unfairness, people can vent their emotions in healthy ways, such as playing sports, meditating, journaling, or communicating with friends and family. In addition, seeking professional help, such as through psychological counseling or**, can help people take control of their emotions and maintain their physical and mental health.

It is difficult to succeed, so you must control your temper and not easily impose your emotions on others! Losing your temper hurts others, losing your temper will make everything go wrong, losing your temper will make your appearance worse and worse, losing your temper will make you lose your financial luck, and losing your temper will make you unpopular!

Love to lose your temper is the most loss-making thing, if you have too much temper, your popularity will be gone, if you have too much temper, your fortune will be scattered, your good fortune will be gone, and if you have too much temper, you will become ugly, and your appearance will become bad and noisy, so don't lose your temper!

Do you consider yourself a temperamental person? Or rather, do you have anyone around you who has a particularly big temper?

When it comes to "big temper", many people's first reaction is to resist, but in fact, it is good to associate with people who love to lose their temper.

1 Anyone who loses his temper will be very honest.

The more tantrums people have, the more honest and simple they have. They seem to be easily angry, but in fact, they are simply and directly maintaining their inner order and principles.

Yes, whether a person is worthy of deep friendship depends on whether he is sincere enough.

Every time you lose your temper, in fact, it is to show your bottom line and principles, if you interact with a person, he never reveals his principles, never maintains his bottom line, it may only be suitable for a general acquaintance who meets and laughs, but it is not suitable for in-depth communication.

2 He who loses his temper is less sophisticated.

Wilde said: We can always be gentle with those whom we do not care about.

I deeply believe that when we want to pretend to be a "good-tempered" person, it is good to be sophisticated and indifferent.

Just like now, there are many people around us who greet each other with smiling faces, after all, maintaining a superficial harmony and maintaining the image of a "good person" is what adults are best at.

However, as Lu Xun said: "The world is really a difficult place, and it is not a good thing to say that a person is 'not sophisticated', but it is not a good word to say that he is 'deep in the world'." ”

You can seek the world with people who are "more sophisticated than the world", and you can't share this life with people who are silent.

In contrast, I would rather have a deep relationship with someone who would reveal his temper than with someone who always wore a beautiful mask and never put his heart into account.

3 will lose his temper, and the relationship will be clear and long-lasting.

Yataro Matsuura said in the book "Live Your Life with Your Heart Today".

I tend to keep using things that are broken, and even think that the moment something breaks is when your relationship really begins, don't rush to throw away the new one right away, but make up your mind to fix it.

It's the same with people, after collision, friction, rupture to create a disagreement, and then slowly repair it, this is the real beginning of your deep relationship.

There is no instant soul in this world, and tantrums are just a run-in process. Rather than not saying a word, it is better to solve it on the spot every time an impulse occurs.

Really attach importance to a relationship, really want to have a deep relationship with a person, will not bury a lot of thunder in this relationship, two people come and go, and solve all the contradictions and conflicts on the spot, so that whether it is a friend, a colleague, or a partner, the relationship can last for a long time.

There is a saying: "The more people I know, the more I like dogs", because dogs are simple enough, like is like, dislike is dislike.

The same is true with people, don't be afraid of tantrums, deep friendship requires a moderate exposure of each other's emotions, both sides of the relationship in the process of emotional exchange to understand the real each other, the first step of heart-to-heart communication, is to let people see your sincerity.