My boyfriend always ignores me, is it normal for such a boyfriend?

Updated on psychology 2024-07-22
15 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    What do you say: What is it to ignore and ignore anything? Or do you sometimes ignore it?

    There is such a saying: No one is perfect without gold! Everyone has their own way of getting along with their significant other!

    And that approach won't be the same as anyone else's! As the saying goes, no two leaves in the world are the same! Even if it's a pair of twins, they get along differently with their girlfriends!

    Since you already feel that your boyfriend is always ignoring you, you might as well find out why. The reason may be: you have done something that makes him feel that you are not worth asking him everything; Or is your boyfriend having a change of heart, thinking that you are not as good as he was at the beginning, and there is nothing worth asking him, which is what he often says:

    The novelty is over; or whether your boyfriend has a favorite girl and gives all the good to you to others; Or maybe you also often ignore your boyfriend, so that he feels that there is no need to ask you everything......These are worth thinking about as a girl!

    If you still like your boyfriend and are reluctant to let go. Then you go to talk to him, exchange ideas with each other, and see what your boyfriend thinks. Look at him again, do you want you to care more about you and take more care of you, so that you will not have that kind of mentality.

    Actually, I think it's normal for your boyfriend to ignore you and not say anything wrong! Now you feel that he ignores you, and you don't look for a reason in yourself? Do you care about your boyfriend?

    You will always bring him ...... of thoughtfulness, forgiveness, and companionshipAnd love? If one party has a problem, it's not just one person's fault, it may be a lack of communication between two people!

    Finally, you are the most happy: happy life, sweet love!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    If he's been like this since the first day you know him, that's normal.

    Obviously, your boyfriend belongs to the man who is a man of few words, although he always ignores you, but at least he has you in his heart, and he actually sees your words and deeds. It's just that you didn't notice it if you were careless. He will be the first to arrive when you are sick, and if you have difficulties, he will also be obligated to help you solve them as quickly as possible.

    You say, isn't it normal to have such a boyfriend?

    If you're in a relationship with what he's doing to you now, there's something wrong with that. This requires you to communicate with the other party, is the other party too busy recently? Stressed at work?

    Or is it no longer that enthusiasm for you? If it's a stressful job, it needs your understanding and, if necessary, comfort. And if it's the latter, you should think about what you're going to do next.

    If you are not willing to give up with the other party, then find out where your problems lie and correct yourself. Otherwise, you can weigh it yourself and make a choice.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    A boyfriend who really loves you will not ignore you, and if you ignore him, he will think that you are not a little dissatisfied with him. He will find a way to make you happy with him. No one who loves you can ignore you. Unless he just doesn't love you.

    My boyfriend, no matter what, asks me about anything, he buys clothes, I buy clothes. If a man talks to me on my QQ, he will be jealous and ask, and if someone wants me to reconcile with my ex-boyfriend, he immediately deleted that person's QQ number. It's a bit extreme, and sometimes it makes me embarrassed, but you can know that he cares about me a lot.

    In the same way, if your boyfriend loves you, he won't ignore you, and he won't care about you if you go out drinking and come back late? He doesn't care about you when you go out to eat with other men? Why don't you ask him clearly, why are you so relieved and ignore you, if you have no feelings for you at all, no tension, then don't be together, it's useless for such a boyfriend to ask him.

    Maybe he wanted to break up a long time ago, but he was embarrassed to bring it up and wanted you to say break up, so he didn't need to be empathetic at this time. Because it's simply impossible to be empathetic. Because if you don't love, you don't love, and when one person does something, the other person can feel it.

    I think you should be able to feel your boyfriend's attitude towards you, that is, he doesn't love you anymore, but he doesn't want to believe it and doesn't want to admit it. Accept it. A breakup is good for both of you, and it's much better to find someone who loves you than to stay with that kind of person.

    Give yourself a chance, and give someone else a chance?

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    The answer is definitely not.

    First of all, if the other person really loves you, they definitely put you first, care about you and love you. If love is not to make each other fall into sweetness and add a joy to life, then such love will be meaningless. What does a boyfriend who ignores you mean other than not loving you?

    He doesn't love you, is that normal as your boyfriend?

    Perhaps, some people are naturally more introverted or don't talk much, but they ignore their girlfriends, is this a sign of introverted?

    I think love is a divine arrangement, God let two people meet, nothing more than to let each other perceive the beauty of the world, and even the other party can transform each other because of love, a person who does not like to express will be more and more likely to express his thoughts to his boyfriend and girlfriend, a person who loves to be noisy by nature will curl up on the sofa like a kitten when his boyfriend and girlfriend are napping. The power of love is great, your every move will touch his heart, your smiling face and tears will make him happy or sad, amuse you because you are sad, and accompany you because you are happy.

    If you really love, maybe you should ask him why he has such an attitude towards you, lovers must be honest with each other, otherwise all the roads they have traveled are in vain, and two hearts that can't go together will be very tired.

    I hope that all girls in the world can have their own beautiful love, whether it is adolescence, or after the age of twenty, we should be loyal to love and longing, find the most suitable person for yourself, and become the happiest person in the world.

    For those we love, but don't love us, give up.

    We're going to keep moving forward.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    The relationship between men and women, although it will become ordinary over time. But in my opinion, ordinary does not equal indifference. If your boyfriend is ignoring you, be sure to find out why.

    First of all, you can see the problem from your point of view. Ask yourself if you are too willful, for example, the requirements may be high. Or maybe your behavior has seriously damaged your boyfriend's self-esteem, etc.

    These are all explainable. When a contradiction occurs, you must first find it from yourself, and then you can understand the root of the matter. Remember, not every guy can put up with a girl's unreasonable demands as always.

    You may say that he doesn't love you enough. So let me ask, does he have such an obligation? There are so many peach blossoms in the world, if you are unreasonable, he may go to pick other peach blossoms.

    Of course, I don't mean to say that the boy will abandon you as soon as there is a contradiction, but to think more from the other person's point of view and consider for him, so that there will be no overly extreme behavior, such as ignoring it.

    If you don't have a reason for him to ignore you, you can try to calm down and talk to him. Spread out the problem. It's clear where the problem is.

    But you don't have to be unforgiving, because even if it's you, you don't want to sit down and have a good talk. It's not that boys have self-esteem, but girls also have self-esteem, to see if your boyfriend will respect each other and understand each other. Nothing is unpassable.

    Once you've found the problem, if it's really your boyfriend's problem, you can try to take action and add some lubricant to the relationship between the two people, such as going out for a walk, or choosing sports that match his interests and accompany him. In this way, your relationship will slowly recover.

    If there is a problem in the relationship, there is usually a person who is willing to be tolerant, and that is the best ending. And learn to manage feelings!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Your boyfriend doesn't care about you. This is absolutely abnormal. If you love someone, you will care about everything about him.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    1. It's not that he doesn't love you anymore, and love is transformed into family affection.

    Second, feelings also have a shelf life.

    III. Concluding remarks.

    Two people in a relationship should not be too selfish, and should think more about each other. If you want to keep your life full of vitality, you need to communicate more with each other, and you can prepare some small surprises for each other. But don't force the other person to do something they don't want to do, otherwise it will cause some problems in the relationship between the two people.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Yes. This kind of man is very bad, he may have changed his mind and is tired of you, but he hasn't found his next girlfriend yet, so he drags you and doesn't want to treat you well.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Yes, if the other party ignores himself at all in life, and does not care about his own life, and will not ask about his own life, it means that the other party is no longer interested in himself, and he also does not love himself.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Maybe, the boyfriend has such a performance in life, which means that the boyfriend wants to end the relationship and wants to break up the two of them through cold violence.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Did you get into a fight with your man? After a fight, your boyfriend doesn't answer you**, doesn't reply to your text messages, doesn't ignore you? Are you feeling frustrated because you don't understand that ignoring someone after an argument can solve the problem?

    Ignoring someone certainly won't end your bad image, but all common sense is usually thrown out of the way when a loud argument begins. While this can be painful for you, it's not uncommon to lose contact after an argument. "Now that he doesn't talk to me, how can I talk to him about our quarrel?

    Is it over between us because we had a fight? These thoughts may have crossed your mind so many times that you can't help but wonder why your man ignored you after a fight. Chances are, there is nothing to worry about.

    Let's take a closer look at what it means for men to ignore you after an argument.

    Why do men ignore you when they get into a fight? Being ignored by someone you love is one of the hardest things to deal with. Cold violence is more destructive, especially after a heated argument.

    There is a feeling that the days are like years. Not being in touch for a few days can make you think, "I had a fight with my boyfriend and haven't spoken to me in a week!" Some people don't talk much, and their coping mechanism after an argument is usually prevarication.

    Understandably, it's hard to deal with for a long-distance relationship. However, it is quite normal that both you and him need time to calm down after an argument because the mood swings within you can cause you to be extremely angry towards the other person.

    Maybe it's his need for space that makes him ignore you after an argument. He may take longer to respond to your messages or not answer your ** or messages at all. At first, he may seem busy, but if your boyfriend hasn't been back to you for a day or so, you might bite your own nails.

    Don't let someone ask you, "Is he going to break up with me?" Or, "Doesn't he care about me?" "Disturb your peace of mind.

    Have you ever thought that your boyfriend might ignore you after a fight because he wants to make sure he doesn't hurt you? Maybe he's waiting for the right moment to approach you and get things back on track. Maybe it doesn't seem like that way now, but it might be good for you to cut off contact after a fight.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    This may be because the relationship between your boyfriend and you is becoming weaker and weaker, and the two people do not adjust their relationship mode in time when they are together, and the two people are tired of each other, so he will ignore you after the quarrel.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I don't care about you because I don't care about you, I don't bother to take care of your emotions, and I don't bother to coax you after a fight, knowing that you will heal yourself.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It's because your boyfriend doesn't care about you at all and doesn't want to quarrel with you, it's likely that the two of you have entered a burnout period.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Whether a man loves you or not, don't look at how he usually treats you, just look at whether he is willing to give in to you when you quarrel. Someone once told me that when I quarreled with my husband, he was "whatever you want, if you want to think like that, I can't help it", he never won the quarrel, and every time I went to him to reconcile, this kind of relationship is too tiring. No couple doesn't quarrel, and the closer the relationship, the easier it is to quarrel.

    Maybe it's a small thing, or maybe it's an unintentional word, it can become a reason for a quarrel. But the quarrel shows that you care, the real dead heart is silent, and all your other party doesn't care or care, so you don't even bother to quarrel.

    It is a very magical thing for couples to quarrel, some of them become more affectionate the more they quarrel, and some of them go their separate ways after the quarrel. A man who ignores you when he is angry, not only will he not coax you, but he will not even give you the most basic explanation, which always makes people feel lost. It is clear that he loves himself more.

    What kind of quarrel will become more and more affectionate? After the noisy blushing and thick neck said "I don't care about you anymore", he slammed the door and left, and came back ten minutes later with the other party's favorite food. At this time, the two people often look at each other and smile, forgetting all the unhappiness.

    After the rain and the sky clears, the relationship will only get better and better. For a good relationship, quarreling will only deepen the relationship, as long as the hearts are together, no matter how much they quarrel, they will not be separated. The person who gives in first in the quarrel is not really wrong, but compared to you, right and wrong are not so important.

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