Friendship. What a heart wrenching word. 20

You have a psychological problem.

Friendship shouldn't be so heavy.

1. You treat friendship too utilitarianly. Raise friends like children, I haven't heard of it.

2. If you make your friends obey, this is not friendship in itself.

3. My friend has a girlfriend, and you seem to be jealous, which is not normal (I didn't mean to make fun of you).

The problem is with yourself. You are not a mature person per se. You may be harming by doing so.

That's because I care about him too much, in fact, sometimes it's not necessary to make just one friend when you know him. Can you divide happiness equally?

Is it that complicated? I'm so good, but I don't have a real friend, I think it's normal. I'm 25 years old, everyone still treats me as a child, I don't worry about anything, I don't check the big things or the small things, in fact, they don't know that I also have my own goals.

I didn't feel at ease, I used to make a friend who was quite bad quality, so to speak: he was not confident. He is not filial, he steals things without self-respect, he destroys, gives up on himself, relies on others, and other bad shortcomings that he can say, which he was not like this when he was a child.

But he was lucky enough to have my only true friend, and I tried to change him, and even I was hurt. had to break up with him. I didn't really think about your question.

I can only say that when you mature. or after 3 months. You'll feel like normal.

Nothing surprising.

Dogs can't change eating, friendship is betrayed by friendship, and love is hurt by love.

Hello, friend.

As an experience in life, there are also some very regrettable friendships. I'm still very apprehensive.

Originally, I was a very cheerful and lively person, I went to a boarding school in junior high school, and I deeply experienced the feeling of being left out in a small group of girls, obviously I didn't do anything, that is, someone looked at you unpleasantly, and I was already trying hard to have a good relationship with others, but there were people who were unwilling to accept your kindness, and would always encounter rejection and cold reception, it was in these three years that my personality became sensitive and inferior little by little, but fortunately, three years passed quickly, and finally graduated from junior high school, Away from the group of scheming girls.

When I first entered high school, I maintained a sense of distance and proportion from everyone, because I didn't believe that there was still sincere friendship in this world, but fortunately I met a few very kind girls in the same dormitory, they would take care of my sensitivity, and they cared about me very much in many small things in life, they never held together, and they never had their own little secrets, they knew how to respect each of their friends.

In our dormitory, there will never be any conflicts and quarrels, because we all know how to understand and tolerate each other, our dormitory is almost the most popular dormitory in the same grade, and many girls from other classes especially like to visit our dormitory, because they like the happy atmosphere of our dormitory.

Three years passed quickly, and we have always gotten along very well together, although there have been times of quarrels and conflicts, but we will solve them perfectly in the end. It is also because of the presence of this group of people that I become more cheerful and confident day by day, and find my presence in the crowd.

From the time we recognized graduation to the full decade now, we still keep in close contact and come out to party at regular times.

The only regret of this friendship for me is that we were together for too short, and in just three years, we graduated and had our own lives.