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I have a lot of good friends to make friends with, and in my experience, you can be too introverted, too cautious, afraid to show your true feelings, and too close to others for fear of being hurt (maybe it has something to do with your childhood and past experiences or personality). In fact, if you carefully observe and analyze, you will find that people who are cheerful, speak directly, and do not hide are more likely to make friends. Making friends is sincere, don't ask others to do anything, you pay your sincerity first, and then it is your harvest A sincere friendship.

If you are hurt, don't be afraid, people's injuries can be used in time. Polishing your eyes a little bit, distinguishing the people around you, which ones can be made and which ones are not, not just by observation, you must take the initiative to contact each other.

It depends on the people around you, which ones you are willing to give him your trust completely,,, trust can't be given casually, but if you want to give it, you meet the right person, be a transparent person in front of him, and then if he also thinks you can trust, you will feel very happy, it is a kind of luck to meet each other,,, premise is to try to trust others,

One depends on whether you trust them, the other depends on how familiar you are with the people around you, but most importantly, it depends on how you understand the word "heart-to-heart", whether you are heart-to-heart with them or they are heart-to-heart with you. In fact, unilateral communication is very good, you can try, the relationship of this thing (not refers to the love between men and women!) According to one author, it's not a market to buy vegetables, you give ten yuan, and he gives you a pound of meat.

If you're looking for someone to confide in, Khan, that's ...... confidantIt's good to have a confidant in life, but I don't have a confidant, maybe you'll meet it in the future.

Trust others, open your heart, in fact, very happy, I don't believe you try - the above is purely a personal idea, maybe you think I'm a little white Hehe......

First of all, if you don't like to socialize with people, and the person is someone you don't like or someone you really hate, it's definitely not a neurosis.

If you don't like socializing with everyone, you can't say you're sick or insane.

But it can be said that your personality is neurotic.

Or morbid, but easily emotional.

There is no need to discuss personality, because whether you are introverted or extroverted, as long as you have neurotic characteristics, people will have a stage or long-term dislike of socializing with others or doing some things with others, because neurotic people are generally independent, hot and cold, often have abnormal emotions, are not easy to be controlled by others, have a strong sense of self-isolation, and have a sense of security.

Poor is not caused by the people around you or the environment. It's the emotional contrast of the self. Once you close yourself off for a while, you don't want to have too much interaction with other people or social groups.

Instead, he likes to be closed and lonely.

But once you let go of your emotions, your heat will increase greatly and you will be able to live in harmony with others. Your own sensitivity is relatively large, and your perception of external things, especially some environments that you think can be moderately intense, is very stable. In addition, you don't like to socialize with others because of a lot of your own events or family work, which is also a prominent characteristic of neurotic people.

External sensibilities seem normal to people, but the inner distance from others is relatively long, and it is difficult to conform to the opinions and intentions of others.

Neurotic people are independent, but emotionally fragile and often present in their thinking. Fantasy also exists, but the content of fantasy is basically related to one's own future and other people's emotions or one's own goals, especially the realistic sensory fantasy content. Secondly, nervousness tends to appear unusually frequently when interacting with people.

It cannot be said that everyone is considered a person of disharmony, at least the person with whom he gets along does not make himself feel dangerous. Although I don't want to communicate with others, and I don't want to have deep communication, I also have my own interests, interests, and hobbies to accompany me, which still gives me a good attitude towards the outside world.

If we get along well with a lot of people, but don't like to get along with people, it's also a normal manifestation. Everyone's personality is different, some people prefer to be around others, and some people prefer to have their own space and enjoy living alone. We can choose the lifestyle we like within the limits of society and not feel that we are abnormal.

I think it's normal. It shows that you have an easy-going personality and can get along well with people. But it is not contradictory that you are a lonely person at heart, and you are not very willing to socialize and get along with people.

It's normal, because it's an instinct of self-preservation, which means that although you get along well with others, you don't trust them.

It's very normal, because everyone's personality is different, and they have different ways of getting along with other people.

Getting along well refers to ordinary work communication with people, and getting along with people is a common phenomenon in daily communication. You should actively participate in outdoor sports, communicate with others and stay cheerful, and I believe that there will be great changes soon and get more friends.