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<> response to the question of "the leader begins to dislike you, what are the manifestations or signals", I personally think that if the leader begins to dislike you, there will usually be the following manifestations or signals, specifically:
1. If you don't like it, you are upset, you don't want to see you, in short, as soon as you touch you, you will get angry for no reason, or ignore you; Criticize and teach you a lesson, and embarrass you very much. If a leader doesn't like you, he will definitely show his dislike for you, and the outstanding performance is that he is always dissatisfied with your work, and will tend to always criticize you instead of giving you affirmation;
2. Intentional estrangement, snubbing, neither want to meet with you, but also don't want to deal with you, some leaders begin to dislike a person's words, in fact, they won't say it, then the corresponding performance is to ignore a person. No matter what the person does, the leader is slow to reply, or even does not reply. In the unit, you are always regarded as "there are not many of you, there are not many of your decorations, the work is not reused, the work is not trusted, and you are just arranged in an inconsequential position;
3. Nitpicking, harsh scolding, often counting down your no, and even like to find faults, picking bones in eggs, loving to make a fuss or borrowing the topic to play, and harshly reprimand regardless of the occasion, making you very embarrassed and faceless;
4. Unwarranted punishment, deliberately embarrassing, mainly manifested in abuse of power, differential punishment, and particularly harsh on you. Moreover, not only support at work, but also deliberately make it difficult for you to find faults, making it difficult for you to continue in the unit;
5. When a leader likes you, he can't wait to praise you when he meets people. However, when a leader starts to dislike you, it is too late to criticize you, how can he praise you in public.
In short, although there are few such situations in reality, they are not impossible, and the reasons for this situation are many, including leadership factors and the reasons of the employees themselves. No matter what kind of factors are caused by it, as long as a similar situation occurs, it is necessary to pay close attention, self-reflection and be cautious.
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First of all, no matter whether you do well or not, he will have opinions, and even criticize you in public, making you very shameless and undignified. At the same time, you will always be given some very trivial things, and they are not your job.
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I want to lose my temper with you, ignore you, don't pay you a salary, don't take your opinions at all, and belittle you in front of your colleagues.
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If the leader will always give you small shoes, no matter what kind of opinions you put forward, the leader will not talk about you behind your back, will always find you trouble, and will always criticize you in front of others, then it can prove that he no longer wants to see you.
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No. Having a competitive relationship with a colleague may cause others to resent you and think you're showing off.
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I won't tell my colleagues. Because doing so may affect the relationship between me and my colleagues.
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I won't. Because by doing so is pulling hatred on myself, of course I will not do it.
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I believe that there are many workers who are dissatisfied with their leaders, but not too many people will choose to tell their leaders directly that they are dissatisfied with him. If the leader is dissatisfied with the employee, the leader can say it directly, but if the employee is dissatisfied with the leader, there are many factors that need to be considered, and if he directly expresses his dissatisfaction, it may even cause the leader's dissatisfaction. Therefore, when facing the leader, there are some things that can be said and some things that cannot be said, and employees must remember.
Of course, if the employee doesn't want to continue working at all, then it doesn't matter whether he says it or not, some employees will complain to the leader before resigning, and tell the leader that they have been dissatisfied with the other party for a long time. In fact, this kind of extreme expression should not be, after all, as a leader, their power is still very large, if they are very embarrassed with the leader, then it is likely to have a certain impact on their future work. <>
All in all, when facing the leader, you must have the right way of behaving, if you want to do a good job in this place, don't tell the leader directly about your dissatisfaction. After all, a leader is a leader, so there are some things to say in the face of a leader, and there is no need to say something, after all, there is no point in saying it or not. Leaders will not change their behavior and way of doing things because of a certain employee, and they will only get themselves into trouble if they say these things casually.
If you find something inappropriate about the leader at work, you can remind you appropriately, but if you are dissatisfied with the leader outside of work, you can only complain in private. After all, for leaders, employees are hired by their own salaries, so if the leader is very dissatisfied with an employee, then the leader is likely to choose to let himself be out of sight and out of mind, which will be a bit of a blow to the employee.
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No, because of the identity of the other party, you can't directly express your dissatisfaction to the other party, because the relationship between the two is not equal, so it is very inappropriate to say it directly.
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No, I will be more tactful, I will not say it to my face, this will make the leaders not come to power, and there will be some contradictions.
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I shouldn't tell the leader directly, mainly because after telling the leader, maybe we will directly dismiss you.
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1.There are no requirements for you.
This is very scary, and there will be many people who are not aware of it, and they think that they have done a good job, so the leader does not have any requirements for you. In fact, at this time, I must play a twelve-point spirit, think about whether it is the best performance that is not good, learn to check and fill in the gaps, and be responsible for my own work.
Sometimes it may be because of the tasks arranged by the leader, you have not done a good job, or you always complain that the work has to work overtime, the leader heard, so the leader has no expectations for you, at this time you must think about what you have done before, whether there is anything that offends the leader.
If you really don't know what offends the leader, you can learn from the people that the leader values, do your best work, and exceed the leader's expectations, so that the leader may trust you again.
2.Less work.
Some people will always feel that the leader arranges some easier work for him, or even does not arrange work for him, which is the leader helping him to reduce his workload, and thank the leader very much, in fact, this is a wrong idea.
Some jobs are easy but worthless, and if the job assigned to you by the boss is significantly lower than the ability of the position you are applying for, it means that he has been very disappointed in you. This is a hint that you are going to change jobs, and this is the leader's distrust of you, so those important jobs will not be handed over to you.
If the leader reduces your work, this is more important, not because the leader wants to make it easier for you, but because he doesn't trust you. Especially in that kind of sales-oriented company, this kind of company relies on performance to eat, if the leader hands over important tasks to others, but never gives them to you, you can only get a basic salary. But in sales companies, most of the salary depends on commissions, so your salary will only get less and less.
3.It's up to you to decide everything.
This point also makes many people scratch their heads, and they may feel that the leader is magnifying his own power. Because I trust myself, I let myself be the master of everything, in fact, it still depends on the situation.
In the company, as a leader, if it is a more important matter, no matter how busy he is, he still has to make decisions for the employees. If the leader suddenly puts you in charge, you have to think about how risky it is to do it.
If you don't report it to the leader, it means that the leader doesn't know, and in the end, if something goes wrong, the leader will also blame all the mistakes on you, so that you can bear this black pot, in fact, this is the most terrible way that the leader wants to target you.
Many people are still complacent when the leader tells him that he can make decisions about everything. I feel that it is because of my own ability that the leader trusts me. In fact, he didn't know that he had fallen into the trap of the leader.
If you still ignore you after communicating with the leader, you must do a good job in your work, try not to make mistakes, and work hard to do this job, and the leader may trust you again later.
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The performance of the leader giving up on you is: ignoring it, pushing it to others, and not having a good face.
1. Ignore it.
If your boss is at work and has been ignoring you, I believe many people are unhappy about this situation. Because you will feel that the leader doesn't care about you anymore and has lost a lot of confidence in you.
And work is all about promotion, in order to earn more money, if your boss ignores you, it means that you have no possibility of progress in your work. Therefore, when leaders ignore their work, they must pay attention to it.
2. Push it to others.
When this happens, in fact, the boss has already shown that he has pushed your business to others to do, and at this time he has already made up his mind to give up on you.
The reason why I blame you on others is because I don't want to be called a bad guy, but in fact, he has already been explained by others, and he is basically waiting for you to resign with him.
3. There is no good face.
Some leaders may not like to hide their thoughts and preferences, and generally greet employees with a smile if they like them, and sharp words when they don't like them.
If such a leader has not been kind to you, if you do things well, he will not say a good word and take you for granted; If you do a little bit poorly, they will lose their temper and criticize you, or even add up bad words.
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If you are dissatisfied with your work and leadership, 9 words of workplace cheats will show you 3 paths.
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Always pointing at you with trivial things, looking at you with cold eyes, full of hate and hatred.
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All kinds of prickly and sneering, all kinds of opportunities for others to empty you, all kinds of things to do, all kinds of chores are given to you.
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Looking for your illness everywhere, asking you to do this and that, and even calling your name during meetings, always targeting you everywhere.
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The leader is dissatisfied with you. He'll give you an example. Examples are about certain behaviors of you.
Or something you've done at work. I usually don't have a good face for you. It's not your turn to have good things in the unit.
Sometimes, they will talk about you behind your back in front of other colleagues.
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for thou hast not seen mountains, nor thou hast seen water. I didn't have any outstanding achievements, mediocre and mediocre, so the leader didn't take you in his eyes and didn't look at you, which means that he didn't pay attention to you.
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The dean chats with only one of your colleagues, including work, and never looks at you. It shows that the dean and your colleagues are relatively close.
It is advisable to stay away. Regardless of whether the leader annoys you or not, as long as he doesn't talk to you, don't take the initiative to interject. You just have to do your thing quietly.
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If you dare to just make a big mistake, he doesn't look at you, it's annoying.
If you're a girl and the boss is a man, he's probably going to like you. But most people are still in control. It won't be.
Either way, you just have to behave like a professional. Don't think that if you're an employee, you won't influence others.
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If this happens, it may be that your boss doesn't particularly like you, or is disappointed in you, so he doesn't like to look at you now, or your boss feels very embarrassed to look at you.
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At this time, the leader should be chasing you, and he doesn't value you very much, so he doesn't respect you, so it means that the other party still has a big opinion about you.
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If your boss doesn't see you anymore, he'll be very critical of your work. He will constantly deny your approach and constantly look for your mistakes in your work. Or they will praise you too much, tell you that you are very good at the age of lack of liquid, and keep praising you in front of other colleagues.
Then open your eyes and let other people exclude you.
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I think the first thing is that he will arrange very difficult limb work for you to make it impossible for you to get off the stage a few times, that is, whatever he may say to you is through his colleagues in the potato bureau, and he doesn't want to see you. Calendar shirts.
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If the leader doesn't want to see you, he won't give you anything particularly important when he arranges work in the company, he won't praise you when you're doing a good job, and he won't give you more opportunities for development. Finah.
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Decentralization of your work, it is clear that one person can do a good job, but the leader has sent you an assistant. Ostensibly cooperating with your work, but actually coming to spy on you. The main task of such a person is to immediately report your work to the leader.
Or when your job is not going well, reach out in time to take over your work and go undercover. If your leader does this, in fact, to be honest, he doesn't believe you and looks down on you. Alienating you, the leader always puts the staff he thinks is the most trusted and reliable by his side, and does not take the people he hates in his eyes.
When the leader doesn't like you, he will only warn you to put you away from yourself, to work hard, and to fire if you don't work hard. At this time, don't think that the leader is just to train you. In fact, the leader is fooling you.
You've been alienated, and you don't have to deliberately pander to the leader anymore at this time. I like to compare with you. If you find that your leader likes to do this to you, you don't have to doubt it.
He must have an opinion about you. I hate you so much.
Faced with this situation, you should communicate with the leader privately to see if there is any misunderstanding between you. If your boss refuses to communicate with you, you may want to consider changing jobs. After all, the leader has a bad relationship with you.
The influence is definitely your business, and the leader may give you small shoes. Don't care at all: if your boss never supports your work, whether you are right or wrong, only criticizes you, belittles your work, and suppresses your motivation, the only communication between you is to arrange work, but is always dissatisfied with your work and often points out your shortcomings in public.
Then your boss looks down on you, and only those you despise very much will receive all kinds of blows. Sometimes people have to be ruthless, don't blindly worship the leader, don't trust the leader too much. This will only hurt you.
The relationship between the leader and us is of course important. What we have to do is not to make the leaders hate themselves. Leaders can dislike us, but they can't hate me.
Otherwise, life will be very difficult, and everyone should pay more attention to getting along with the leaders. What else do you do when the leader starts to hate you?
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