What is desirable about the education of foreign parents?

Education is really easy to cause disagreements, not only for parents and young people, but also at home and abroad, in the early years, many people felt that foreign education was very good, including the difference between the education methods of foreign parents and the domestic is really very big, but in fact, careful distinction still has its own advantages and disadvantages, so for the education of foreign parents, what are the merits?

1. Foreign countries are more likely to cultivate children's sense of independence, and foreign children are reallyFrom an early age, they will be very independent, and even adults will let them contact the society by themselves and then save money to earn money, and understand the cruelty of society, but the children in China are children in the eyes of their parents, and most of them are reluctant to let him get hurt, and they will stop giving almost after adulthood.

2. I don't know if you have seen a **, it snows, the children are happy to have snowball fights, and they go to play in the water on rainy days, but some parents in China will feel that children will definitely get sick like this, so it is not recommended to take such a wayThey focus on liberating the child's nature, focusing on the child's experience at a very young age, respecting the child, and letting the child make his own choices, and a particularly popular saying in Chinese-style education parents is that this is all for your good. I didn't put myself and my child on the same level, and I didn't give my child enough respect and choice.

3. Foreign countries pay more attention to cultivating children's creativityWhen cultivating children abroad, they will not ask children how they must bePay more attention to what children like, develop their brains, continue to learn in this area, and encourage children moreBut the trend of involution in China in recent years is very serious, what children like is not the most important, what is the choice of most parents in society, there must be a skill, so piano painting has begun, so that children can grow up well according to this framework, and do not pay attention to what children like, let him learn step by step.

The above points are what I think is desirable for foreign parent education, and some friends who may read this will ask if there are no advantages in China? In fact, we only need to realize one thing, children are human beings and have an independent consciousness, so respect him, let him himself participate in the choice, and don't blindly spoil it.

I think it is desirable that you should support what children like, and you should also educate your children in a targeted manner, rather than a large-scale education that makes children achieve nothing, you should educate children according to their psychology, and you should support some of your children's hobbies.

Foreign parents educate their children to strive for what they want, there is no need to be humble, so that education will cultivate children's self-motivation.

The first thing is to respect the child, and don't let the child hit others, and at the same time, don't solve the problem through violence, and be reasonable, and will also cultivate the child's sense of self-reliance and independence from an early age.

These foreign parents often have special respect for their children, and also focus on cultivating their children's independence and sense of independence, and will not interfere too much in their children's decisions, and will not interfere too much in their children's lives after they become adults.

In the United States, from the day the child fell to the ground, he was treated as an independent person. Parents never force their children to do anything, but guide them to do what they should do according to their age. For children under the age of one, parents encourage them to hold their own bottles and drink milk on their own.

After drinking, the parents also thanked the child and praised it. Generally speaking, when a child finishes high school, whether they go to college or go to work, it is time for them to leave their families and live independently. The vast majority of young people leave home and embark on the path of self-struggle.

Parents are also more concerned about education, because parents also want their children to be better, but parents must adopt the right method to cultivate their children when educating their children, and this kind of education method will also make children better. Do you know what is desirable about the education of foreign parents?

Many Chinese parents are very fond of their children, because parents are very afraid that children will be bullied by others, so at this time parents will help children do some things, and parents usually do not let children do what they can in life, so at this time you will find that children will not do anything. But this round of education is not helpful for the child's growth, and at this time, the child will feel that he will not do anything, and the child will become very selfish. However, foreign parents pay more attention to the independence of their children, so everyone must also learn this education model.

And many parents are more pampered to their children, especially many parents see that the children are still young, so at this time parents will not put forward too many requirements for their children, and many parents also think that the children are still relatively young, so the children do not understand anything, so parents will help their children complete some things at this time. But this kind of education does not help the child's growth, but will cause the child to do nothing, so the child will become very self-effaced, and the child will want to retreat when he encounters difficulties in the future, so good behavior habits must be cultivated from an early age.

Everyone is very concerned about children, because everyone wants children to grow up happily. But parents must learn to use the right methods to educate their children, so that their children can become better and happy.

The education of foreign parents is still quite good, and some foreign parents have educated their children very well, focusing on the comprehensive development of children's rotten dates, which will cultivate children's independence and make them more excellent.

Respect the child's privacy, conduct an open education for the child, respect the child's requirements, understand the child's thoughts, and maintain a good relationship with the child.

Foreign parents are more open-minded, they will let their children choose their own interests and hobbies, it is not good for Li Huiyan to force their children's learning, and after the children are adults, they will also require their children to be independent and will not let them rely on the family.

I know. At the same time, the cultivation of independence and self-care ability is very important to children, and they will also create some opportunities for children to exercise, so that children need to face some difficulties and setbacks in the world independently after they become adults.

Hello, parents in any country have expectations for their children, but not as obvious and urgent as we in China.

1. The hope of the family is in the children. For many people, after getting married and having children, they are busy going to work every day to earn money to support their families and raise children. In order for children to give their all, such as enrolling in various interest classes and cram schools for children, etc., I hope that children can win at the starting line, mainly because the pressure of social competition is too great now, and no rock shirt family wants their children to lose at the starting line.

2. Pinning hope on children also includes parents' own regrets and empty hopes. Whether you admit it or not, your parents' expectations of you include their own expectations, maybe they have not reached that height, so they want their children to have the opportunity to have the ability to reach that height. But sometimes it will cause trouble to children, because everyone has their own ideas, and if they impose their own ideas on children, children may not be able to accept them, or even resolutely oppose them.

3. Don't pin all your hopes on your children. On the one hand, it is related to the child's own learning, on the other hand, the child may not like the road taken by his parents, and wants to go his own way, but he is blocked by his parents, and the rebellious psychology makes them work against their parents, but they end up in a situation where their parents are disappointed and frustrated.

Have expectations for your children, create good conditions for them, but don't impose your own ideas on your children, everyone has their own ideas and their own lives.

The "natural parenting method" is popular in Korea

Korean parents have begun to pay attention to natural parenting, which focuses on returning their children's life, education, and play to nature, so that children can grow up in a natural state to the greatest extent.

Article **21, let children sleep alone from an early age.

No matter how old the child is, it is customary in Korea to let children sleep alone. This not only strengthens the sense of closeness between parents and children, but also promotes health and independence from an early age.

2. Do not restrain children from playing with mud and sand.

It doesn't matter if your child is playing with mud, sand or water, as long as they have a good time, even if they get their clothes dirty. Doctors also suggest that getting children dirty is not only good for their mood, but also can improve children's resistance. It is beneficial for them to fight bacteria and viruses and prevent various diseases.

3. Breastfeed and use a cloth as a diaper.

Breastfeeding is a natural and honorable thing in Korea.

The number of parents who use cloth to make diapers is gradually increasing. Although it can be a bit tricky to make diapers and breastfeed with cloth, it is good for your baby.

4. Don't let your child take medicine casually.

90% of a child's illness is caused by a virus, so even if you don't take medicine, it will be natural after a while**. This also prevents other adverse effects caused by the drug.

Some parents are worried because their children eat less, in fact, the amount of children need is certain, we can not only pursue quantity, but need to pay more attention to quality. Even if you eat less, as long as the body has all kinds of nutritional values, it is fine.

5. Let the child grow up slowly.

Parents need to wait until their children want to learn before they start learning, and if they find that their children are curious about some things, they can encourage them to do it, so that they can grow faster.

6. Encourage your child to participate in adventurous activities.

Encouraging children to do some meaningful adventure activities can cultivate and exercise children's strong will and courageous spirit.

7. Cultivate sentiment in nature.

Only nature is the richest and most comprehensive textbook for educating children. Nature and Absolute Energy broaden children's horizons and enrich their knowledge. Let the children slowly learn to analyze and compare various things, find out the relationship between different things, so as to enlighten their wisdom.

Although the foreign education method is not completely suitable for the domestic society, it also has many merits. For example, foreign education methods are more focused on cultivating children's independence, and many netizens actually know the importance of independence, but most Chinese parents are more distressed about their children. Therefore, Chinese parents do not like to let their children become independent too early, and some parents even feel that if they let their children become independent too early, it is equivalent to a kind of behavior away from themselves, so such parents are completely unacceptable to their children's independence.

In fact, this educational concept is very wrong, and it also has a lot of bad influence on the development of children, parents should learn about foreign education methods, and cultivate children's sense of independence earlier, when children are independent, they will be able to better face some blows in society, in addition to the future after entering the society, there will be better development, all of which is what parents want to see, so parents must not hinder the development of their children.

In addition, most of the children in foreign countries are free-range, and compared with China's strict education, foreign education is more free. Therefore, many children can harvest more joy abroad, and foreign children will also learn more extracurricular knowledge, and most of China's education is exam-oriented education. Moreover, Chinese education is all about cultivating children with better grades, but foreign education is different from foreign education that can cultivate more well-rounded children.

Foreign education is more likely to cultivate some children with all-round development of morality, intelligence, physical fitness, aesthetics, and labor, and such children are more popular in society. Mom and dad should also try to raise children when educating their children, and it is very meaningful to raise children. In addition, it is also necessary to learn to support the child's interests, and do not always let the child devote all his time to learning, otherwise the child's development is destined to be incomplete.