What strange operations have you seen with a baby?

1. Give salt to babies under one year old.

Babies start to eat complementary foods from six months, some parents will take the initiative to add salt to the food, absolutely this way to eat taste, and they think that eating salt can make the baby strong, these are wrong concepts. Babies under one year old do not need salt, and the sodium content contained in ordinary complementary foods is enough for the baby's physical development.

2. Do not brush baby teeth.

Some parents think that the baby's baby teeth need to be replaced anyway, so there is no need to brush them, and it is not too late to brush them after changing the permanent teeth. This notion is wrong, if the baby teeth rot and hurt the tooth root, it will also affect the eruption of the permanent teeth, so the baby teeth also need to be protected.

3. Use a pillow for babies under one year old.

Some parents think that sleeping without a pillow is uncomfortable. Then the baby will be given an adult's pillow, thinking that this will be very comfortable for the baby. This view is wrong, babies under six months of age do not need pillows at all, because the cervical spine is flat and does not need support.

6 12 months, only need to pillow one centimeter high, and only after one year old do you officially use the pillow.

4. Cover your sweat after fever.

The baby has a fever, and the parents quickly cover the baby with a thick quilt, hoping that the baby can sweat, so that the body temperature will drop. This view is very wrong, the baby's thermoregulatory center is not perfectly developed, if you sweat when you have a fever, it is easy to hurt the nervous system, and in severe cases, it is life-threatening. Remember, when your baby has a fever, you should dissipate heat, not cover it.

In recent years, the post-90s and post-00s have gradually become the mainstream of society, and the post-80s have gradually retreated into the background, and there have been many new and different phenomena with babies.

1.Reverse with the baby has become the best way to use after 90 and 00, and now Bao Ma is not around the baby, no longer directly on the children's tricks, but with the baby to play Lai, to see who compromises first, this flip operation will be the baby is confused, but the baby first comforted the mother, I have to say that Jiang is still old and spicy.

2.Some mothers for the baby's vexatious trouble, always comfort first or have to meet the baby's needs, but now the mother is no longer like before, the baby in the unreasonable trouble, splashing and rolling, will not directly go up to comfort or meet the baby's requirements, first take out the mobile phone to record, silently wait for the child to make enough trouble to stop and then educate the child, will not compromise for the child's vexatious trouble.

3.Some mothers are holding the baby outside, pushing the stroller, and suddenly a brain circuit finds that the baby is not in the stroller, so they are anxious to find the baby, and they do not react for a while.

Bao Ma these wonderful operations with babies, in fact, are also through another way to educate children, but also Cong side reflects the hard work of Bao Ma with a baby, the world pity parents, Bao Ma is also a mother for the first time, there are many things that do not understand, I hope that the child will be able to understand and understand the mother in the future.

My wife is a Ma Daha, she has many wonderful operations with her baby, many of which amaze me, mainly the following:

First, let my two-year-old daughter chop vegetables. One day, my wife was cooking in the kitchen, and my two-year-old daughter ran over to learn from her mother to cut vegetables, and my wife handed her an electrician's knife, and the daughter cut off a large piece of meat from her thumb after a while, and then sent it to the hospital to stop the bleeding.

Second, expose your 5-year-old daughter to the sun. I don't know who my wife heard about basking in the sun can supplement calcium, so I let my daughter bask in the sun outside for an hour at noon every day, it was a big summer, and the skin was tanned in a few days, and my face was tanned, and I almost had a heat stroke once.

Third, let your child run 2 kilometers every day. As long as it doesn't rain, my wife insists on letting her daughter run 2 kilometers every day, saying that it is to exercise her daughter's endurance. Not to mention that this trick is really useful, when her daughter was 13 years old, her mother couldn't keep up with running, and later her daughter won many awards in high school and college long-distance running.

Fourth, my daughter is sick herself**. My wife is from the countryside, and there are many ways to deal with illness, and when my daughter catches a cold, my wife will scrape her, and her neck and back will be shaved red, and she will make ginger soup for her daughter. My wife also knows a lot of herbs, and often takes her daughter to the mountains to collect herbs, which also allows her to learn a lot of knowledge.

1. Threat immunity.

For example, in the same scene, a child passes by a shopping mall and likes the dolls inside, so he asks the adults in the family to buy them.

The normal practice of the older generation: either scold or beat in public, and finally the child is more and more fierce, should buy or have to buy, lose people and spend money, not to mention, in fact, let the child seize the handle, the child will subconsciously think that adults are afraid of being embarrassed and afraid that they will cry and be injured, etc., this threat is useful, and the next time they want to achieve a certain goal, they will still habitually use this method to threaten their parents and will always work, and finally the child will only become more and more willful.

The strange practice of the post-90s: find a place to sit, do not let the child leave his sight, sit at the safe distance of the child, watch the child cry, watch the child make trouble, the same is a shame, but the child has become the object of everyone's guidance, and the parents are not tired and just wait, and in the end, the only thing that is embarrassing is that the child cries and makes trouble, and the things that should not be bought are not bought. Wait for the next time to experience the same situation, the child will not threaten his parents because of his selfish desires and willful crying, because one thing has been proved through one fact:

Crying and embarrassing is only yourself, crying in a hoarse voice, turning around and losing the adult, whether you should buy it or not, so that the child will become more and more reasonable, and if you really want something useful, you will only be reasonable and explain its usefulness, rather than threatening your parents to achieve the goal.

Second, coquettish, the road with children makes the child have no way out.

Now that the social experience is huge, many people have embarked on the road of no return, and the traffickers are even more numerable, and the helpless children are the most targeted, so you must protect the children when you go out with your children.

The normal practice of the older generation: tell the children that they can't run around, that they are easy to meet bad people if they run around, etc. You must know that children don't understand this, especially children are curious and lively about the world, and even the more adults don't let them do anything, the more children do something, the result is that children still run around, and parents follow everywhere and become children's personal bodyguards.

Strange practice after 90s: tell the child that he is timid, must not run around must protect his parents, the child is far away from the parents in time to cry in time, I have to say that the hard work of the parents can be seen in the eyes, and the heart also knows that the parents are the closest people in the world, at this time the child will make himself particularly majestic and particularly responsible from the heart, and will do his best to protect his "dangerous and timid parents" when he goes out, and the child will protect his parents because of love, because the responsibility will be the umbrella of the parents, In this way, it will be safer, although the coquettish object is changed, the goal of the child not leaving his parents will be achieved.

The post-90s generation is "too lazy" to bring a baby

I swiped Weibo before and saw a mother complaining about herself, "I'm lazy because my mother is diligent, and I want to cultivate a diligent baby, so I want to continue to be lazy." ”

Compared with the older generation who take care of all aspects of their babies, post-90s parents like to let their children bear the burden themselves.

It seems that the post-90s generation is "too lazy" to bring a baby, but it is actually starting the trend of new parents.

"Lazy" parents, children have stronger self-care and independence.

Under the care of "lazy" parents, children will continue to improve their living abilities and develop good habits.

At a young age, he dressed himself and even took the initiative to ask for housework.

Such children will have a strong ability to take care of themselves and live independently after entering the society.

Although some parents may think that their children will lose their innocence and innocence, the facts tell you that children with strong self-care ability and independent ability are more likely to adapt to various environments and problems in society in the future, and their character will be more resilient.

took his three-month-old son to fight the king, the key is that the son doesn't cry yet.

In the first snow of winter, my father took the child downstairs to play, and when I came back, I saw my husband come back alone and closed the door, I asked him eagerly: "Where is the child?" My husband unzipped his clothes very calmly, his son's head was slowly exposed, his hair was messy, and my husband said very happily

Am I smart? "I took the child down and beat my husband indiscriminately.

There is a one-and-a-half-year-old baby at home, and when my father takes the baby and is not funny, every time I break through the limit of my mother's heart....For example....Dressed in colorful clothes unkempt for the child, and being recognized as a human trafficker when he goes out, you can't imagine how I felt when I went to the police station to take people home!

Husband has a relatively small beard! As for me, it may be that the pressure is too much, the endocrine is a little out of balance, the hair on the upper corner of the mouth is darker and thicker, and when it is serious, it looks like a mustache! So the difference between the daughter and the father and the mother is:

The one with more beard is the dad, and the one with less is the mom. But when the husband coaxes the child to sleep, the daughter is in a daze and doesn't need to open her eyes and touch the beard on her face, she knows that it is not her mother, and she will directly push and kick him under the bed!

My child's father has not taken the baby alone, and when I was still working in the unit before, he was busy, and he took it a few times. But at that time, the baby was still young, as long as she played with it, and then someone accompanied her. Basically, Dad can still do it, of course, it doesn't take long, sometimes it's a few hours.

Until one time, when the baby was more than two years old, I had quit my job to take care of the baby full-time at home. That time the child did not see his father for a long time, and his father had just come back to visit his grandmother, and at that time my grandfather was sick and I had to take care of him, and the child took the initiative to go with his father for the first time. It was also the first time she left me.

As a result, when they returned, I was shocked to see that the children were painted with colored pens from head to toe, all over their clothes, all over their bodies, and on the glass of the car, and on the back seat of the car. I couldn't wear my clothes anymore, and I wiped them for a long time in the car. The first thought at the time was that they could no longer be allowed to go out alone.

My dad dresses his baby, and he often wears his pants backwards. Comb the child's hair, and when the child arrives at school, the teacher's first words are: "Baby, didn't you comb your hair today?"

The child eats next to him, and all the time he eats white rice. I took my children to an interest class, and when I came back, I didn't find that I didn't hand in my homework.