Westerners perception of Chinese women, and the standard of Chinese beauty in the eyes of Westerner

That's a boring question. Chinese women are originally a large group composed of many different personalities, social statuses, and educational backgrounds, and they cannot be summarized by one.

I would like to share my views. First of all, no one around me thinks Chinese girls are easy. Speaking is not good enough, shyness may be the perception of most people (both men and women).

Secondly, I went with a friend to say that the popular easy girl in China was very strange. Because he feels that foreigners are popular because they are exotic. This is common in many countries.

His own girlfriend is also a very warm and lovely girl in South America.

I don't think it's justified for a lot of men to blame women. This phenomenon is not only in China (I only observe it from Zhihu), but also in Western countries. Men who can't find a girlfriend never find reasons from themselves, accusing women of worshipping money, and so on.

I also didn't deny the existence of Easy Girl, and Easy Girl and Easy Boy must have been there in the crowd. Just don't just blame others, sometimes after you get to know someone, it's another story.

In the end, none of my friends think that Chinese girls are easy girls, we think that Chinese girls are as exotic as other Oriental girls, and many girls are very patriotic in the cultural background in which we grew up. This is just a summary of the few Chinese girls I know, and it must not represent everyone's point of view.

Most Westerners like Chinese women, saying they have a feminine sense of being a family, but Chinese women don't necessarily like foreigners.

Westerners' views of Chinese women are the same as how Chinese view Western women, and most people can only say that they look at their appearance.

Like Zhang Ziyi, Liu Yuling, Michelle Yeoh, a bit like the most popular Chinese women in ancient times, because the small nose, small eyes, small mouth have classical beauty and look very different from Europeans and Americans, this is the standard by which Europeans and Americans measure Chinese beauty, too modern but not good, like big eyes and fair **, we Chinese think that beautiful Westerners think that they are not beautiful, because they look a little like Westerners, so they are not beautiful.

Therefore, the oriental beauty in the eyes of Westerners must look a bit like those thin eyebrows and small eyes and subtle maids painted in the murals of the Qin and Han dynasties**, it must not be too white, it must be a healthy and beautiful light yellow, then it is an oriental beauty.

The top ten beauties of China in the eyes of Westerners have different oriental charms.

Seeing you say this, I feel a little different.

It's like comparing two things that are equally incomparable to each other.

You see that camels and sheep are both animals, but they both have strengths and weaknesses for each other. Chinese women, British women, American women, African women, Eskimo women, they themselves speak of different women, believe in different gods, and worship different cultures, how do you say which is good and which is not? A Chinese woman's wedding must have a red dress, or a padded jacket and shoes, and there must definitely be a red happy word.

The emphasis is on prosperity. Festive. What about women in other countries?

Perhaps a scary tattoo on the face will be requested.

You have seen Chinese women and foreign women, may I ask, are Chinese women and foreign women both human? Just like all human beings in the world. It is a human being, no matter whether it is a man or a woman, or any country, that has the good side of a person, and at the same time has his bad nature.

Here, all countries have prisons, which can be explained very directly.

People are compared, but at the same time, they are not compared.

We can only say that we respect your ideas and feelings at a certain moment, we cannot guarantee whether they are accurate or not, the same living creatures on the earth, every life is worthy of appreciation, and it is also burdened with sins that will never be less.

See what you think. It may be a bit off-topic.

Oh, don't think about those vain things, be yourself, no matter who is a foreigner, who respects and who is honored.

There has always been a case of Chinese women marrying white foreigners. Marriage to a black person was rare in the past, but in recent years it has increased.

In the past, white women who married Chinese women were mostly wealthy international students. In recent years, there have been fewer of them.

Let's start with a literal explanation of grace: gentle, respectful, and feminine. Generally speaking, in the context of such a topic and recitation, foreign countries refer to Europe and the United States.

Let's talk about Europe and the United States as I know it. I guess they don't understand it, so they hate it. Because of the different values, I felt that this aesthetic was not "strong" enough, "independent" enough, and "man" enough, so I opposed it.

However, China's current values are based on Europe and the United States, and everything is based on Western trends of thought, so it is natural to actively eliminate some ideas that do not conform to Western values. Therefore, the aesthetic standard of graceful beauty will also become a history in our country. However, there is nothing wrong with this, because one of the conditions of this aesthetic is the masculine perspective.

And one of the essences of our feminist movement is degendering. In a sense, that's a good thing. Search.

Once, in a Spanish class, I had to give words positive and negative meanings. One word is dar vergüenza, and this basic Spanish word has two meanings: make.

Shame makes. Shyness is similar to the English word shameI put the word in the neutral column at the time, shame is dejorative, and shyness can be regarded as praise or neutral.

As a result, my Spanish teacher was puzzled, thinking how could shyness have a positive meaning. In the classroom, except for the Japanese and Korean students, who agreed with me, several German, Italian, American and British students stood on the teacher's side. The price wheel is different in terms of value, and they feel that this aesthetic is not "strong" enough, "independent" enough, and "man" enough, so they oppose it, and everyone begins to discuss the implicit culture of the East.

I searched for some information, including traditional Chinese art in which the female Lacha Xizi covered her face with her sleeve, turned her head and smiled, and lowered her head to avoid the man's gaze. Traditional women are reserved and shy, and in Asian culture, they have a graceful beauty. Western students said that if they saw a woman they liked doing the above actions, they would consciously go back off.

Because it's a hint of rejection, or a sign of not attractive. Later, the same question was asked to many people, and the West still prefers to be cheerful, extroverted, and sexually celebrated, and the beauty is not implicitly in the popular aesthetic standards of the West. This also explains the international popularity of Asian actresses:

Maggie Cheung's temperament is mysterious**, Zhang Ziyi is ruthless (aggresive), Lucy Liu is straightforward and capable, not to mention Maggie Q, independent and tough. In contrast, it will be found that in the aesthetics of Westerners, the public is more inclined to "difficult to submit" and "challenging" women, and men in society are more inclined to chase this challenge. Asian societies and men prefer women to be weak, obedient, naïve, and submissive.