What should we think of the older leftover man view of marriage and love?

1. There is no age to get married, only the feelings that should be married;

2. The five views decide to fall in love, and the three views are the ones who decide to stay together, and taking the other party's appearance as an important criterion for marriage consideration is definitely a stupid thing in the world;

3. Are you ready to "close your heart" for marriage? Marriage is a matter of giving up some of your freedom and self for each other, and if you haven't had enough, don't "hurt each other"!

4. Try to choose a reliable man, respond to everything, and a man with a fall will make your life full of security;

5. Girls who have no sense of security in their hearts, don't marry naked, let go of yourself and let each other go!

6. Emotional stability is the beginning of all good;

7. Never talk about breakups and divorces, otherwise you will look good;

8. Adults must bear the consequences for each decision, so marriage must be cautious;

9. After getting married, don't break off any of your ex's roots, don't do friends, men and women are the same, this is the greatest respect for marriage and lovers;

10. Love is wind and snow, marriage is firewood, rice, oil and salt, you must be able to accept the transformation of roles and the change of communication methods;

11. Before getting married, you can go on several long-distance trips, and it is easier to see the clues if it is suitable or not;

12. Sometimes a short-term cohabitation trial marriage is an opportunity for girls to protect themselves, and cohabitation will make you extremely disappointed men, and after marriage, you can only make you more collapsed and desperate;

13. If you feel that you have no concept of marriage, then let yourself grow and experience it slowly, and marriage must be based on the mature "concept of marriage and love" and "I want to marry him";

14. Respect the privacy of the other party, have a sense of boundaries, do not interfere with the freedom of the other party, and do not abuse the freedom given to you by the other party;

15. Get married and have children, never get the order wrong!

16. When you are not ready to have a child, take contraceptive measures, otherwise whether you are born or not, you will be the one who suffers the most;

17. Sexual harmony is very important, sex and love are the cornerstones of marriage, and they are suitable for both men and women;

Well, probably haven't encountered it yet. Older again. So. I'm in a hurry. Sometimes. Urgency is also of little use. Love requires a certain fate. So.

1. Fear of losing your freedom from now on.

In reality, there are many older leftover men who are like this, they feel carefree and free before they get married, but they are afraid that after they get married, they will be managed by their wives, children, and some trivial things in life. Therefore, when they want to do their own things, they do not have enough personal freedom, and they need to report to their wives to do anything, which will make their original life change greatly in the social circle of friends, so this is not the life they want.

2. No emotional experience.

A man's motivation for love is not love but sex. Driven by sex, men's understanding of love is often very different from that of girls. Especially when that person has good financial conditions, they will have more opportunities to squander the low-quality love provided by the girl, and enjoy it instead of investing in it.

After all, this is the innate nature of men, so men who are overly addicted to sex are more likely to lose themselves than women who are addicted to love, and some older young people do not have a little love experience, so they don't know what love is. Once a man is very slow and shy about love, he will turn his attention to other aspects, and over time, women and life will become a blank in his life.

3. Have a strong defensive mentality.

Human beings are very strange creatures, and the richer their experiences, they tend to want the other person to be more innocent. But, in fact, there are very few very simple women now. If you have money, you feel that girls are coming for your money, and if you don't have money, you are afraid that girls will mock you when you don't have money.

Therefore, little by little, he was repelled by his own defensive psychology, so that he would always get used to living without a woman, especially when his parents took care of his diet and daily life, this feeling would be magnified.

Of course, it should be exquisite, because both parties are already very old, and they have no qualifications to regret it, so they should be more particular and more rigorous, so that they can take on the responsibility of the family and bring happiness to each other.

Whether it is an older leftover man or an older leftover woman, we should pay attention to the issue of marriage, because both parties are not young and should assume the responsibility of the family, and in terms of marriage, there is no room for regret, so when we choose marriage, we must be careful and cautious, and we must find a person who is really suitable for us, so that we can have a happy marriage and family, and we can be more harmonious.

The reason why the older leftover men and women are left is because they are more particular about marriage, so they are particularly serious about marriage, and they have never thought that they will marry others, but in the eyes of many people, they think that the older leftover men and women are because the conditions are too high so they can't find a partner, I can only say that their ideas are too shallow, and their statements are also very irresponsible, because they are not these young people, and they don't know what these young people are thinking, so they make up their minds directly, Saying that the other party has high conditions, such a person is really excessive.

In today's society, people are under a lot of pressure, they are busy with work every day, they don't have time to socialize, and they have less contact with the opposite sex, so their age is getting older and older, as long as they learn to open their social circle and communicate with others, they will definitely be able to meet the other half who is most suitable for themselves, and I also hope that people will also give them more understanding and Zheng Jian and tolerance, don't feel that they are left behind is their fault, they shout and want to have a period of happiness, It's just that they have their own ideas. There is no one in this world who does not want to have happiness, but they have not met the most suitable person for the time being, so they want to wait and see, as long as they meet that person, they will definitely choose to get married.

Older leftover men and women should also have their own thoughts and opinions on the issue of marriage. It should not be on the issue of marriage, but the choice will be. You should be bold enough to speak out about your needs.

If the older leftover men and women want to find another Ming Liang half to marry, I think it is necessary to find a person who attaches importance to the family and has the responsibility to be motivated, and the attitude towards marriage must be serious.

Although it is an older man and a woman, what should be paid attention to in the matter of marriage is still Minqing to pay attention to, not to mention that since he is older, he feels that he has no one to ask for a hasty bridge and a grip to get married and have children, which finally leads to unhappy marriage.

Since it is a transaction, it should be done in accordance with the rules of the transaction, and the bride price must be given the same value as the bride price, giving both parties a guarantee, the bride price is to marry the yellow flower girl, not the second-hand woman, the sick woman, the transfer girl, the girl with the baby, the green house girl ......, but a first-hand woman and an original natural woman, this woman must understand; Once a problem is found, the woman must be asked to return the bride price, and refund one to pay three, and give compensation, and at the same time sue the woman for fraud, and refund all ......the expenses of the woman herself and the childPeishan, now that the world is in turmoil, if there is to be a war, call the women's rights to carry guns and fight.

You must pay attention to it, because you are already an older leftover man and woman, when choosing the other half, it is because you are too harsh, or your own thinking is too unique, so you will not find your other half, what you need is to think about it, what you want is how to sing the life of Shen Bi Zheng, and what your other half looks like to the bottom of the count.

Presumably before here, Kuanye and they all have a certain understanding of marriage rent, so they will also pay more attention to what kind of person the other party is, if it is difficult to meet in the disadvantage stage of Dalin, then it should be more necessary to have a sense of ceremony.

Older women are left with men. It's not called exquisite, they also feast filial piety and have love and true love, if the older men and women want to get married, they are responsible for them, and they are also responsible for their Shenqing family.

Of course, it should go up, the town of stupid marriage is not a child's play, marriage can not be absent travel, the current society, a large number of men and women in their 30s in big cities, I hope you will find your life partner as soon as possible.

It should be exquisite. Because the ruler is scattered for marriage, it is a lifelong thing, and it cannot be improvised, nor can it be compromised. Some people may love later, don't worry, try to pass the Lingzhi clan to tease the current first.

Of course, you should pay attention to it, although you are older, you must not back down on the issue of marriage, after all, marriage is a lifelong thing.

I think you can have your own principles appropriately, but the requirements should not be too high, and it is also not recommended to discount your own standards too much.

It should be exquisite. Because love can't be improvised, and a makemade marriage is destined to make people sad and can't last long.

Older men and women are particular about marriage, and they should be married if they are suitable for them.