Out of an embarrassing situation, do the older leftover women in China really want to die alone?

Updated on society 2024-08-12
38 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-15

    Older leftover women are actually more independent in their own money, so they don't want to be attached to the existence of men, and want to find a favorite object. If you want to get married, you actually lower your requirements and get married casually. If you don't want to settle, it doesn't matter if you are lonely and old, as long as you can endure loneliness and loneliness.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-14

    I don't think they will die alone, they must have thought about their future a long time ago, maybe when they reach a certain age, they will find someone to marry casually, and then spend their lives in peace.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    No, it's because these girls themselves are relatively good, so their love has not yet come, and when facing feelings, don't compromise.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    No, although there are more older leftover women now, they will eventually find their other half and will not die alone.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Of course, it is not to die alone, everyone has their own way of life, like older leftover women, they should also be brave to find their own love and get out of loneliness as soon as possible.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    34-year-old leftover women, does not have to be lonely for life, if you lower the criteria for mate selection, very active to find the other half, is able to find your favorite object, and will happily get married, have children, live a happy life, 34 years old age is not too big, you can still find your other half, talk about loneliness, it's a little early, as long as you work hard, you can find the other half.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    There are a lot of people lining up in the back for as long as you want.

    As far as our village in a small place is concerned, there are seven or eight unmarried older leftover men, and some of them have good personal conditions, but they just don't know why they don't get married.

    A few of them also work in state-owned enterprises and central enterprises, and they have bought houses and cars in the city, but they have been single and have not understood.

    For a 34-year-old young woman, the age is really not too old, you can find a person in your 40s or so, and you can find a person in your early 30s to marry, there are still quite a lot of choices, and you don't have to worry about marrying at all.

    If you want to choose a like-minded person to live with, you must follow the principle of "chicken with chicken, duck with duck, turtle with king".

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    A 34-year-old leftover woman will not die alone, in today's era, there are many older young men and women, and there are many older young men, many for the career, for the future, there are many single men in their thirties to forties, as long as you grasp the opportunity and find a boyfriend you like, it is still easy to find, don't be discouraged, have self-confidence, a good boyfriend is waiting for you!!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    No, you may not have met your heart. You need to lower your eyes appropriately, consider the problem from the other party's point of view, the relationship needs two people to run in together, not love at first sight, so don't always look at each other with critical eyes, appreciate each other more, and you will quickly find the person you love.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    A 34-year-old woman, does she really have to be lonely for the rest of her life? No, he hasn't met his confidant yet, as the saying goes, he hasn't gotten married yet, once he meets his confidant, he will get married, the current woman, 34 years old is not too old, because they are all ambitious, do work, and before you know it, you will be 34 years old, and once you meet your confidant, you will get married immediately.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Even if she is a thirty-four-year-old leftover woman, she will not be lonely for the rest of her life, she just hasn't found her true love yet, if she finds true love, then she will immediately get rid of the single, and now the ratio of men and women is serious, only there are men left and there are no women left.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Does a 34-year-old leftover girl really want to die alone? No, because fate arrives, you will find his other half of fate, not to force it, and you can't ask for it, and you can't ask for a girl 34 years old is not very old, so you must dress yourself, you are dressed up beautifully, and your work is smooth, so that you can be confident and find your other half.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    A 34-year-old leftover woman, who is still very young, should find someone she likes to stay with, and should not be lonely for the rest of her life.

  14. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Older leftover women will not be lonely and old, as long as you take the time to fall in love, put down a little bit of your body when you go on a blind date, don't be too ambitious, unrealistic requirements, your Prince Charming will come soon.

  15. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    A 34-year-old leftover girl is not necessarily. Lonely and old, but his fate has not arrived. If he meets someone he likes, then he will still get married, and he will not be alone.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    A 34-year-old girl must be looking for a partner, how is it easy to find? The best way is to find a person who likes it more and can vote for it, and that is the kind of person that two people can talk to better, and if they are together, they will be more comfortable.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    A 34-year-old leftover girl, does she really want to die alone? No, now people generally get married late, and at the age of 34, you can find a man who matches you, and you can accompany you for life.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    A 34-year-old leftover girl. It's not about growing old alone, for a woman, 34 years old. There's still a lot of time.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    A 34-year-old leftover girl will not die alone. Because the ratio of men and women is much different nowadays, it is easy for a woman to get married.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    The age of a 34-year-old girl is okay! If you are a girl who loves life, is gentle and virtuous, has a successful career, and is kind and filial, she will not be lonely and old.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Say no to widows and orphans.

    The reason why there is beauty, money, a house, a car and no object is just that fate is still on the way, and the circle is not big enough.

    Among the passive skills, there is Jiang Taigong fishing for the bait, since he doesn't like to take the initiative, then let's talk about the passive method.

    The first is to find a fish pond, which can attract good company without bait.

    If you are good enough, you already have the ability to bloom and butterflies.

    1.You can take a look at a companion's marriage and love, real-name authentication, you need to provide a real person** upload, and after the manual review is passed, it will be displayed as an avatar on the platform. If you have a good face, you will naturally attract the attention of others.

    2.There is also only marriage and love, based on the conditions that you want the other party to be, select the screening function, and select your ideal type through education, income, height, education, etc., there will be a lot. Then slowly choose the one that meets your own aesthetics, as well as the expected time and daily dynamics of people's marriage, the display of real people and real information, and rest assured to make friends and fall in love.

    Blind date, there is a ** certification area, the certification information includes houses, vehicles, academic certification, everything you want to know, has been arranged in advance, and you can also filter by age. You can also post multiple updates and share your daily life. Or go to the precise recommendation to see what those people with a high matching rate are like, quietly make a heartbeat, and wait for a return visit.

    Show yourself on multiple platforms.

    Of course, there will be more stories when you are active, and you can also meet your lover when you are passive.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    You are 34 years old this year, and it can be regarded as the best time for career development, not too old leftover women, there are good male colleagues, for the development of their careers, to solve personal problems, they are all in their 30s, there are good boys waiting for you, you can't die alone.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    A 34-year-old leftover girl, does she really want to die alone? Not necessarily. It's just that fate hasn't arrived. Besides, if you want to open a person, there's nothing. Feel at ease.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    In this case, no, I haven't met my true destiny yet, I won't be lonely at this age, don't be too pessimistic, I will find my true love.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    is also a 34-year-old leftover girl. But not necessarily. Lonely and old. In the long run. life. You're sure to meet someone you like. It's just not yet. Just be patient. Just be patient and search.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    This is not necessarily, fate is destined, maybe one day you will meet the true son of destiny, or you have to go out and contact the opposite sex more.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    If you are three or four years old, you don't have to be lonely for the rest of your life, he is likely to meet a more reliable person in the second half of his life, so that they can also be together, but most of the time it is difficult.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    34 years old is really the best period of life, although it is a little late to get married, but it will not be lonely for a lifetime, and now many people in their 50s are still giving birth to children.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    That's not necessarily, it's just that fate hasn't arrived, and I haven't met the right one yet, so I will work hard, I will definitely find the right one, and I won't be lonely and old.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    How can you say that you are scrapped so easily when you are only 31 years old? This age is the maturity of people's mental energy, etc., and I personally think that older girls who have been single either do not have too many choices around them, or they are demanding, and they always feel that they will meet better, and they will lose the fate around them. Actually, if there is someone in life who can be pampered and cared for, it is very good.

    If the subject is one of the above situations, then you can try to make the following changes:

    Broaden your social circle so that you have more choices, and now there are many very reliable blind date software, such as a partner marriage, only marriage, etc. You can use these platforms to meet all kinds of strangers, both of which are real-name apps. It is not a mobile phone number that can be registered, and it must pass ID card authentication or face authentication.

    After successful registration, the system will match you with an exclusive group of people,A companion page adopts interactive design, the overall style is more serious,The main black tone,The first impression is that the people who come here are for the purpose of marriage,The overall interface looks more comfortable。 Note that if someone takes the initiative to talk to you, don't be embarrassed or can't let go, be sure to seize the opportunity to communicate, show enthusiasm for making friends, and treat others with sincerity.

    According to your own conditions, you should reposition your mate selection criteria, the previous mate selection criteria may be too high, which will cause many people of the opposite sex to stop.

    A positive and optimistic mindset is particularly important. Even if you are an older single, if you want to get rid of singleness, then you must have a good mentality. Positive and optimistic people are like a warm sun that infects those around them. Such a person is willing to be friends with you

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    There shouldn't be anything wrong with that, but there is something wrong with what you said earlier.

    What is the age of 31 is basically wasted, it should be a good year, how can it be wasted, the most comfortable time of life is the best time.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    It's not good to be so pessimistic, 31 years old is still very young, you can make a difference, as long as you work hard, even if you don't have achievements, at least you can support yourself and your family, in terms of personal issues, 31 years old is indeed a bit old, but it's not too late, you should think about personal life events, the conditions are not so high, don't be picky when you meet the right one.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    At that time, there were always many people who said to her: "Women don't worry about marrying at all, so they can choose at will", and it was precisely because she naively believed this sentence that she became an older leftover woman. Xiaomei really realized that she was wrong when she was 31 years old, because a man she was dating on a blind date said to her

    I'd rather marry a second-married woman, too.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    There is nothing wrong with each other, and everyone has the right to pursue the life they want.

    Go your own way and let others say go!

    It's a choice worthy of yourself.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    There's nothing wrong with how to do it? It's your own choice.

    If a woman doesn't get married, we may regret it when we are old, which cannot be changed, and if we get married, he will regret it, then she has met the love she should have as a woman.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    It's a person's free choice, as long as they're comfortable.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    There's nothing wrong with that, it's just that everyone chooses differently.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    First: Feelings are experienced a lot.

    First of all, one thing we can be sure of is that most of the older "leftover women" have had love experience, or even marriage experience, and they have a certain understanding of their feelings.

    However, there are still a small number of women, who are at the right age to fall in love, and spend all their energy on their studies or careers, so they have no time to fall in love, so they are not very interested in relationships.

    Therefore, such women have no emotional experience in the first 30 or 40 years of their lives, resulting in no recognition of their own emotions. Therefore, such women have long been accustomed to living alone, and the longer they go, the more they don't want to get married.

    This situation is easier to understand, and people who have lived alone for a long time should understand that living alone, although it is inevitable that sometimes they will be more lonely, but in more aspects, especially in terms of economy and entertainment, the quality of life will be higher than that of people who have a family, and this kind of life is actually very comfortable. Second: the conflict between traditional concepts and self-consciousness.

    The above-mentioned emotional experience is one aspect, in addition, the society's views and opinions on women's marriage also seriously affect women to become "leftover women".

    In China's traditional culture and thought, the status of women in the family is relatively low, and most families are dominated by men. In modern times, most women are expected to obey the arrangement as much as possible when playing the role of daughter in the home.

    When their status is transformed into that of wives, they also want to be their husband's helper and obey their husband's various arrangements.

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