The lesson of the 29 year old leftover girl The makeshift marriage, I almost got sick, are you willi

1. Older leftover women miss the best childbearing period after the age of 28.

2. Older leftover women have strange personalities and unstable tempers.

3. Older leftover women feel good about themselves, have high requirements and are more demanding.

4. Most of the older leftover women are due to their own family conditions, and they always want to find a large amount of money and get it for nothing.

5 older leftover women are average-looking and always want to find rich and handsome guys.

6. The older leftover girl wants the other party to chase her as if she was an eighteen-year-old girl with her aging face and body, and spoil her as a little princess.

7. Most of the older leftover women have no empathy, and can only share blessings, not weal and woe.

8. The older leftover women think about it farther, and they want a bride price before marriage, ask for the man's house and property, and are fully prepared for divorce, and they will not lose money.

9 The sense of security that older leftover women want is to be rich, the self-motivation is to be rich in the future, and the maturity and stability they want is to always be rich and have to tolerate her without a bottom line.

Note: The above list is not only for older leftover women, but for all women of marriageable age, if there is anything that cannot be summarized, please add [handshake].

I don't want to pass it on, why should I pass it, then I can't suffocate to death.

Being single doesn't need love, and you don't need the other half, after all, I've been alone for almost 30 years, and I've long been used to being alone, and it's good to stay up for another 30 years with my legs stretched

Personally, I don't think you should make do with it for the sake of compromise, because everyone has their own attitude to life, and living happily is the most important thing.

I'm willing to settle for it, because I really can't afford to marry a wife now, and even a second marriage requires a large bride price, and it is not necessarily better than now.

I want others to be capable, and I want others to serve you like a nanny. There is really no man who can match you as standard, which is the reason why older leftover women are left. Marriage is equal, two people work hard together to be happy, if you marry a queen mother and go home, it is better to live alone.

I don't want to settle for it, I think a marriage must be what you and I want, so that a marriage can be happy.

For an unhappy marriage, let's find the reason for it in ourselves first. First, ask yourself if you are careful to manage your marriage. Second, ask yourself whether you choose people carefully.

Third, ask yourself how much you are capable of and what you can do. I'm afraid that you will play double standards with confidence, but the other half will be unable to cooperate, and then you will become a complaining leftover girl.

I think older leftover women should not choose to compromise when facing marriage. Although it may be difficult for older leftover women to encounter the happiness they want in real life, this does not mean that they have to compromise. People at this age can also choose or pursue the person they like.

In my thoughts, I think it's not that no one wants these older leftover women, but because they have higher requirements for the other half in life or for themselves, so they haven't found a suitable partner. And the older leftover women actually belong to the stable period of their careers, they have enough financial ability to support themselves, and there is no need to compromise for the sake of marriage at this time, because they have persisted for so many years, and there is no need to let all their previous persistence be in vain because of this or two years. Girls do not say that they must choose to get married when they reach the age of marriage, whether to get married is completely their own choice, and some girls live happily even if they are not married.

I think older leftover women actually have their own ideas in life or work. And the quality of life is also relatively high, in fact, there is no need for such people to compromise in life for the sake of marriage, and they are already very successful, there is really no need to make indifferent sacrifices. Even if you don't get married, it won't have much impact on your life, and a marriage that compromises in order to get married won't actually make you feel happy, because if the three views between two people are not suitable, you will only feel very difficult to live together.

Since it is not suitable, there is no need to choose to compromise in order to satisfy others, such a life will only make oneself unhappy.

Maybe everyone is not so friendly to older leftover women, and they will feel that they should compromise for the sake of marriage, after all, people should get married and have children at this age, and older leftover women are abandoned by others. But I think older leftover women actually live more freely because they can be their true selves, and sometimes marriage and children are shackles for a person.

There should be no compromise, when an older leftover woman faces marriage, she should have her own principles and her own ideas, and she should not find someone to make do.

No. I think marriage is a major life event, even if you are older, don't compromise because of these problems, otherwise you will regret it.

should not choose to compromise, when facing marriage, should not make do and settle, should have their own ideas and mate selection criteria.

There should be no compromise marriage, such a marriage is not happy, but.

When you meet the right man, just get married, don't delay any longer. Men aren't stupid, don't miss it.

It should be said that a woman's age is really important, the best youth is just a few years, if you don't grasp it well, the relationship will become cheap, and you will really regret it.

Therefore, girls must know how to do the most worthwhile things in the best youth, love, work, and life.

Shouldn't! Marriage is a major event in life, and it cannot be a child's play. Married life is that you are not someone else, think it through and don't compromise anyone. Women should love themselves well, if you don't love yourself, who will love you.

Not necessarily, if you are doing well, why should you compromise? Sometimes, it doesn't necessarily mean that you will be able to live well with each other.

I don't think I should compromise Everyone is born with a yearning for freedom, it's not that I should compromise when I'm older, of course, I can choose not to get married, and spend my time freely alone, isn't it also good?

Compromise ≠ marry casually≠ marry someone who is inferior to himself in all aspects.

Compromise = marry an ordinary person with a comprehensive score similar to your own (take your old age into account).

You think you don't need to work hard to compromise? Many women have to get to know many men very hard before they find a man with a comprehensive score similar to their own to compromise.

Uncompromising people should not sit still, but should have a life strategy.

Most people just want to wait a little longer, wait for me to raise my comprehensive score, and wait for a man with a comprehensive score higher than themselves to protect the rest of their lives.

Do you want to be a bachelor for the rest of your life if you don't get married? It's better to face reality. Hope.

A woman's time is too short, after all, it's only a few years, and there is no time for trial and error. If you have a long enough time to get in touch with any type of man, and talk about a few more objects, you will naturally know which type is most suitable for you and the most suitable for you to get along with, however, time is not allowed.

People like to be in contact with people who are beneficial to them, however, this experience does not apply when it comes to marriage. Your life is ultimately responsible for yourself, so since you think that marrying the other party is a promise, it doesn't matter if you are not responsible for yourself, anyway, you will bear the result. But it is irresponsible for the other party to do this, so please break up after talking to the other party, and then continue to wait and don't waste your time.

At this time, there is no rule that it is important to get married at what age you must meet, and it is important to meet the right one and talk about it. I think material conditions are a basic guarantee. If you don't have high material requirements, at least you have to meet your basic needs.

Be sure to find yourself on this basis, at least one thing that you appreciate. It can't be useless. Anyway, I think two people have to talk about it together.

If it was before, I would tell you to follow your heart and find someone you like to marry. But now, I will tell you that it is very important to be suitable, as long as you have a good feeling and two people are in harmony in all aspects, you can step out of the same frequency, and that feeling is better and happier than the feeling you originally thought you liked.

Marriage and love are really not the same thing. Love can be fearless, it can be fearless and selfless, but compared with fiery love, marriage needs the same values and its own sense of responsibility. There is no formula, in general, it seems that living happily is actually very simple, that is, down-to-earth.

Try to correct your mentality, try to integrate into real life, participate in more outdoor activities, make more friends, learn to tolerate, learn to compromise, and believe that I will meet the right one for me. There is nothing particular about and compromise, just keep learning and let yourself grow. I hope you can be happy.

That's all for that, I hope it will be helpful to your questions!

I don't think there should be compromise, marriage is a major event in life, and the object to choose is to be with you for the rest of your life, and you must not compromise because of age.

You shouldn't choose to compromise, because compromise will cost you the rest of your life.

Twenty-nine years old is in the prime of youth, and when the judgment is good, the old saying is good, there is a fate to meet thousands of miles, but it is difficult to hold hands on the other side. You go out with your girlfriends to participate in more activities and meet more people. I believe that one day you will always meet the only one destined in this life.

You have to wait quietly for an unexpected encounter with him.

If you want to find a boyfriend, Guan Xiaojing is to find someone who suits you, so it doesn't have much to do with your age, and you can be cautious when you slowly look for someone you like.

You can look at fate, don't be too anxious.

Leftover women have become a hot topic in society, and many people are curious about whether older leftover women are in a hurry to get married. Which woman is not pregnant, which woman is not in love, which woman does not want to find a good man, which woman does not want to have children. Leftover women are also left behind for various reasons, some are too demanding, some are introverted and withdrawn, and some have work and family reasons.

So what do the leftover women think, listen to what these few say.

1. Ms. Wang, aged 36.

Leftover women, who are older, are unwilling to face up to anyone. It has come to this point, it is false to say that there is no hurry, the best age for a woman to give birth is here, after the right age, she can't have children, it is sad for women, everyone wants a child of their own, so that their lives can be continued. It's harder to meet the right one when you're older, and sometimes it's especially difficult to think about it.

2. Ms. Zhao, 32 years old.

How can you not be in a hurry when you are older, women are obviously not as energetic as before after 30, they will be tired the next day when they sleep late, and they no longer like a noisy environment. Sometimes I can't sleep at night when I think about my marriage, and I worry about whether I will never be able to get married, and if I can't get married, I won't be able to have children. Bad mood affects the body and affects work.

A best friend of mine used to be like me, and after getting married a few months ago, she said that she didn't have a lot of anxiety about getting married, and it was a lot more relaxed. She often says that older girls still have to expand their circle, maybe that person has been waiting for you in that circle, to put it bluntly, she intends to expand her social circle, and it also depends on fate.

3. Ms. Zhou, 34 years old.

I have been running for three years because of schooling, and now it is difficult to go home and find someone to talk to, because it is difficult to find someone with the same education as me and can have a common topic. At first, I was not in a hurry to get married, but then I wanted to get married, and I found it really difficult to find a suitable partner.

Now the family is anxious, and I am also anxious, but the things of fate are unattainable, if I really can't meet the right one, I'd rather be single than compromised, maybe it's really because I'd rather lack than abuse, and I'm just left.

4. Ms. Wu, 31 years old.

Of course, older leftover women will be anxious about their marriage, after all, no one wants to be called "older leftover women", no one wants to be alone, how good it would be to have someone by your side to share the rent, water, electricity, joys and sorrows. Now I'm a little anxious, and the topic of chatting with friends is to search for unmarried boys around me, and I can't wait to go on a blind date.

I don't think any girl will take the initiative to want to be single, those older single women who advertise that they want to be single for the rest of their lives have either been hurt emotionally, or they can't find a suitable boy and are unwilling to wronged themselves, but whenever they meet the right person, they will definitely get married in a flash.