How to meet excellent girls Zhihu

It depends on how you personally define 'good girl', everyone understands it differently. Is it defined by gentleness and kindness, or is it defined by highly educated senior white-collar workers?

I think it's most likely your personal social circle to decide. For example, if you are a primary school student, surrounded by elementary school students, how can you meet a Ph.D. with a high chance?You have to study hard, go through elementary school, middle school, high school, college students, graduate students, PhDs, and when you get to the PhD stage, you're surrounded by a whole bunch of PhDs.

In the same way, if you are a stall holder, the women you know around you are most likely also stall girls, and it is estimated that it will be difficult for you to get in touch with the kind of senior white-collar girls in high-educated and high-income companies. Even if you meet one by chance, it is difficult for you to integrate into each other's lives, because your work, life and consumption circles are different, and the way of thinking about problems is also different. Two people with completely different views, what can you ???do if you know each other?

So only if you are good enough, you can meet girls who you think are good enough.

How to meet excellent girls. First of all, you have to become excellent yourself, only if you become excellent yourself, then naturally the people around you are excellent people. Then it's easy to meet a girl who is excellent and you like.

What are you going to say, you want to meet excellent girls if you are not good yourself. This is unrealistic.

How it works:

If you want to chase girls, you must first learn to chat, and the first thing you should pay attention to when chatting with girls is not what you should say, but if girls learn to listen when they speak, girls may mention some of their interests or some things they hate when they speak.

Then the otaku must first see himself clearly and recognize himself when he goes out, know himself and know his opponent, recognize himself and the enemy, and recognize himself first: What is my personality?What are my interests?

What is my outlook on life?What about values?Then recognize the object:

What is the personality of the object of pursuit?What are her interests?What is her outlook on life?

What about values?You must understand these first, so that you can find a topic for the next step, and judge whether it is suitable for you, so as not to waste time and energy and delay others.

Don't enter the tiger's den to get the tiger bold and careful, bravely rush forward, after making a decision in your heart, you must rest assured and bold, actively offensive, love her, you must be brave to take the first step, pay attention to the chat, find a topic must try to find the girl is interested, you can understand it when you are at home, don't be too, you must be natural, so that you can have a good contact.

In fact, if you can determine the type of girl, everything is much easier. To judge the classification of girls, one core psychological skill is used: cold reading.

It is a way to get to know others in a short period of time and thus communicate better. Cold reading is divided into four steps: 1 Observe cold reading, 2. Listen to each other, 3. Create intersections.

How to chase girlsSometimes in the relationship between men and women, I want to pursue the girl in my mind? What type of girl is the first thing to look at? Or is it to see what the girl likes and say something she likes, so that you can see it?