Why don t you raise your husband to be a giant baby ?

We often think that the harder we work, the luckier we get, and the more we give, the more love we get. But the reality is just the opposite, in an intimate relationship, the more you give, the more disappointments you will have, and the relationship will get worse and worse.

One of my female visitors was so unconsciously caught up in it. When I first got married, men were very family-oriented, reluctant, reluctant to let girls do it, girls were very moved, and began to pay silently, for example, they would clean up the house every day, and always give priority to their husband's taste when cooking. Sometimes, in order to let my husband concentrate on work, I even took the initiative to go to the sick prenatal checkup and did not let my husband accompany me.

At the beginning, my husband said how good my wife is, he is the person who understands me in the world. Later, as the girl's belly got bigger and bigger, her movements were no longer as sharp as before. Once my husband came home and saw a room that he hadn't had time to clean up, so he casually said, "You're empty, let's clean up the room."

Such a sentence poked the girl's heart, and she was extremely aggrieved, and he complained to me that my belly was so big. Why can't he even be considerate of me? I also think that I should clean up the room, I used to clean up well, but he had an opinion if he didn't do it well.

This is true in the relationship, if we compromise because of the other party, to lose the most important self, in the end we will find that when we are disappointed and have to retreat, we know that we have nothing, and many people retreat to the original game and continue to lose.

As the saying goes, a bucket of rice raises a benefactor, and a load of rice raises an enemy. Li Ronghao told such a story in the song anesthesia, for your warmth, I broke my wings, I suffered those hardships, but you sat idly by, what a big complaint? I gave you the wings, but you didn't care about me.

But that's the true story that happens in countless intimate relationships every day.

Because if you raise her to be a giant baby, then he will be very dependent on you for everything, and he will become very lazy, and if you ask him to do something, he will be very angry, and he will become very irresponsible.

Because you are his wife, not his mother, don't let your husband become a giant baby, you must make your husband a responsible man.

Once you raise your husband to be a giant baby, then everything will depend on you very much, and you are like taking care of a child.

It must be caused by my husband's parents, that is, my parents-in-law, because they are not willing to let their children be independent at all.

I think it is caused by his parents, and the education of parents is very important for children, so we must establish correct values and outlook on life for children.

It's not created by his family, and his parents are too tired of loving their children and don't let him do anything, so he doesn't even know how to live a basic life.

It is caused by their parents, this kind of person is pampered at home, and their parents have been doting on them and have not entered the correct values into them, so it will lead to this result.

It must be caused by the wife and the parents-in-law, especially the parents-in-law, who may have always been accustomed to their sons, so this situation arises.

Husbands like this, the most important thing is caused by their parents, and one of their parents' education methods is incorrect, which causes the husband to be a giant baby.