What does a man s reluctance to have children mean?

Hello, your question has been sorted out. The woman thinks that the child belongs to the man, so if the man dies, the child does not have to be born. Or think that you have to have a house to be worth living.

But the question is, isn't the child also hers? This is the result of the utilitarian thinking that "the child is a man's", "the surname of a man is a man's", and "marriage is a man making money and a woman exchanging children". However, from a woman's point of view, we still have to believe first that it is for ourselves to have children, not for men, nor for the family behind men.

In the chat with Lele, I found that she has no self at all, and the focus of her life is all on her husband and children. I feel that giving birth to a child is for a man, and I want to tie up my husband with a child, so that my husband's heart will be more at home. I want a man to look at the face of his children, so that he can have a stable family and marriage.

3 A woman can have children, but a man cannot have children. Being able to have children is a woman's greatest advantage. Only by giving birth to children can mankind be passed on to all generations.

This is an advantage that women are proud of. Another point is that women can reproduce autologously. That is to say, women can extract their own stem cells to have children, but men cannot.

First of all, a man has to have a uterus, doesn't he? Some netizens said: "Don't say that you have children for men, men can have several children after remarriage, this woman is born for herself, and her behavior is very selfish, the child is born without a mother, and it is likely to be abused by the stepmother, making it difficult for a man to drag a baby to remarry."

Is a marriage without children doomed to be unhappy? If a married woman can't have children, does she have to divorce? If the wife can't have children, many married men may choose to divorce because they both want their own biological flesh and blood and do not accept adoption.

It shows that he is not yet able to raise the next generation, and it is difficult to even support himself, let alone support a family!

There are so many reasons for this, you don't give any information, so you can only guess. For example, the burden is too heavy, and I don't want to give birth, and I have to raise a child after giving birth. Another example is that he is not in good health and is not suitable to have children recently. Or he has too many children and is reluctant to have more.

Nowadays, people are under great pressure in life, especially the price paid for raising a child is too high, resulting in many young people who want to have children but dare not give birth, and men are unwilling to have children, indicating that he is not ready to accumulate wealth, and is not ready to raise a child, and is afraid that he will not be able to raise a child after giving birth and delay the happiness of the child's life.

The main reason is that life pressure is high, economic conditions do not allow it, and other reasons. Today's young people, both male and female, are under a lot of pressure, and they have a panic mentality about having children. After all, it takes a lot of money to have a child, from the time you conceive the child to the time the child grows up.

Men don't want to have children, it may also be that he is really annoying to children, and the pressure is great Now there are many young people who do the Dink family and don't want children, which doesn't mean anything, if you want it, don't play if you don't want it, and some men are just because of children, it's not so important, you can want it or not.

If a man is unwilling to have children, it can only mean that the man is not responsible, and he does not have a certain sense of responsibility and responsibility for the wife of the family.

There is now a significant proportion of men who are reluctant to have children. Life is stressful. It's enough to live on your own. There are old and young, and how to maintain a pitiful monthly salary to have another child is simply out of breath.

If I am a man who is reluctant to have children, then it may be caused by economic conditions, and it may be that economic conditions are not enough to give children a good life. So I don't have the idea of having children for the time being.

There are many reasons why a man is reluctant to use children, it may be that he does not like children, or it may be that he does not have the energy and ability to use children now.

Some men feel that the time is not yet ripe. If you add a child to the family, then it will be more difficult, and you want to have a child after you have done a good job in the family, so that there will be no burden.

Men want to be free. I don't want to be tied down by my children, and I don't want to be tied down by my family.

It means that having a baby is stressful and unaffordable.

The cost of having a child is high, the pressure of life is too great, and the financial conditions are not good, etc.

It shows that the man has a fertility disorder but doesn't want me to be found out.

When a man gives birth to a child, he is tied up by the child's mother, and generally the relationship is not serious.

What does a man's reluctance to have children mean? This is a physiological phenomenon, a law of nature.

The reason why you don't want children is nothing more than 1I feel like I'm still like a child and haven't grown up, and I don't want to have children for the time being.

2.Due to economic conditions, I feel that it will be very stressful to have a child, so I don't want children.

Answer: Because of raising children, men do not have as much as women, they do not have a deep understanding, and they do not cherish if they do not lose, so men are relatively light.

One of the biggest reasons why men don't want children after marriage is because of too much stress. Men who feel the pressure to have children are very strict with themselves and the next generation, they always want to give their children the best educational environment and living environment, and they will be willing to have children as long as they have the ability to provide them. Men can see this as an important reason, but it can also be seen as an excuse.

In fact, children are more suitable to grow up in a simple living environment, which is also the best educational environment.

Not loving his wife enough after marriage is also a reason that cannot be ignored. Some men are married, but their wives are not the ones they love the most. These men usually still have their ex-girlfriends or ex-girlfriends in their minds. How could such a man want to have children?

The third reason that makes men not want children is the inability to adapt to the change of roles. Some men get married in their early twenties, they are still big children, they are very playful, and they believe that they can be good husbands. But for good fathers, they will feel that they are not qualified enough and do not have the courage to challenge.

According to relevant data, about 10% of couples of childbearing age in China are not ready to have children.

The average education level of these Dink couples is generally above the college level. In these families, 60% of these families are asked not to have children by men, and Dink thinking is the third reason why men do not want to have children. Dink is an attitude to life, some men really don't like children, they prefer a two-person world.

The reason why the last man doesn't want to have children is that they are leaving a way for themselves.

Not all marriages can grow old together, and not every couple can go to the end together. In the data released last year, there are 10,000 couples across the country, and an average of 5,000 couples divorce every day, and the divorce rate is. Some men are already so disappointed with their marriage that they believe that divorce after having multiple children adds an extra resistance.

I often see many women complaining that they are tired of taking care of children after marriage, their husbands don't care if they are hungry, and widowhood makes many women physically and mentally exhausted, and they don't have a little time for themselves every day. Even many women say that they regret getting married, knowing that they can live alone, and say that marriage has led to a decline in the quality of life. Faced with such a situation, what about men?

Many of them go out early and return late only to earn family expenses. Many men are under more pressure after marriage, and they are miserable in the face of mortgages, car loans, children's milk powder, etc. And because the pressure of life has become greater, you and me, who were in love before, have become firewood, rice, oil and salt, and there are a lot more quarrels.

In fact, many of the reasons for this situation are that men and women do not have a clear understanding of marriage. In the past, the two of them would be the same as when they were in love, shopping and watching movies after work, and taking a short trip on the weekend.

The first thing that brings pressure to marriage is the house, which does not need to be majority, Chinese understand it. This has also become a stumbling block for many Chinese people to get married.

In fact, it is a child, and many people will choose to have a child after marriage. Once you have a child, the pressure is even greater, and the child is also known as the gold-swallowing beast! From pregnancy, pregnancy test, hospitalization, back milk powder diapers, kindergarten, interest classes.

Whichever one is not emptying the parents' wallets. Many young parents have doubted life at this time, obviously they can grow up when they were a child, and their parents have raised so many children, why is it so hard to raise a child when they come here?