Why are some urban families reluctant to have children?

The cost of living in the city is too high, relatively speaking, much higher than in the countryside, many ordinary urban families, due to family relations, or due to the elderly, only one person can go out to work because of the child, in this way, the economic income is relatively low, and you have to pay water and electricity bills, the daily cost of living is quite high, the cost of living may be higher when raising a child, the family burden is too great, the child can not live a good life, and then it also affects adults, so they are unwilling to have more children. There is basically only one child in the city, that is, an only child.

On the one hand, the rising cost of education has caused greater economic pressure. With the development of the economy, the concept of education has undergone a huge change, no longer just satisfied with food and clothing, all kinds of specialties, increase knowledge, early education and other hidden competitiveness of the cultivation has become the mainstream of the current concept of education, the more big cities the higher the demand, and these required economic investment is a lot of expenditure.

On the other hand, the increasing demand for education itself has brought a lot of pressure to raise children. Everyone wants to have a perfect child, and hopes that they can raise a "child of someone else's family". However, after all, the children who are favored by God are in the minority, and the feeling of parenting fatigue due to high expectations has become the mainstream of parents' emotions.

This puts a lot of pressure on people who don't have children yet.

When they feel that they do not yet have the ability and financial foundation to raise a child who can meet their requirements, some people will choose not to have children or wait for a while.

Living in a first-tier city with a high standard of living, high prices, and high pressure, almost everyone has a loan, and housing loans and car loans are already a lot of pressure. If you have another baby, you must want to give him a good life and education, then the expenses are a huge amount of money. If the pressure is too great, there will be a kind of life to be crushed, since you can't give the baby the best, then struggle first.

Different cities have different consumption levels, some cities have a high consumption level, correspondingly, the cost of having a child to raise is also very high, for some lower-middle-income people, they are reluctant to have children, because they can't give him a good living environment and educational environment after birth.

I think a big reason why some urban families are reluctant to have children is because their lives are very stressful now, because some cities really have a particularly high consumption, and if they have children, their spending power cannot afford it, and they can't give their children a good living condition, so for them, for their children, so they choose not to have children.

First, it may be because of the pressure of city life, and I feel that I am not ready to give my children a good future, so I have been putting it off; The other may be a family that is more avant-garde in thought, does not want to make children a burden to itself, and prefers a two-person world.

I think the reason why many urban families are reluctant to have children is because life is too stressful. Especially in big cities, sometimes there is little left after removing rent, mortgage, living expenses, etc., so they are not ready to be parents at all. I am also worried that I will not be able to support my children and give them a good life when I become parents.

Some families choose not to have children because the couple's thinking is different from other families.

Perhaps because both of them have special jobs and do not have time to take care of children, they may think that it is unfair to the children to give birth to the children without more companionship, and their careers may not allow them to spend too much time on their families and children.

Although those families who are reluctant to have children after marriage have their own difficulties, I personally feel that since there is a marriage, the marriage is complete when it comes to having children.

The concept is different, as most rural families feel that they must have sons because they have to pass on the family lineage, and it is also related to the concept of young and old.

is like Jiao Junyan's idea and her father's in "My Girl", Jiao Junyan's idea is not to have children, not to raise children and not to use children to care for the elderly, and to go to a nursing home when she is old, and her father's idea is that she must have children, so as to conform to tradition.

Maybe it's because they feel that the two of them are living a very good life, and they want to make the world of the two people longer, so that they will have more memories when they get old, and they will feel that they don't know how to raise children, so they don't want to have children.

Now the pressure of life is much more than before, housing prices are rising, medical insurance is not complete, and there are car loans and various installment loans. Some people say that Huabei and credit cards ruined our generation. But if there is no support for these, according to traditional thinking, it must be all for the sake of the child, and then in the end nothing is enjoyed.

China's consumption index is rising, but the happiness index is declining.

With the continuous improvement of life pressure, if you want to have a child now, you need a lot of money to train from birth to adulthood, money is nothing, and the most important thing is to spend a lot of time and energy to educate children, for them, they have not grown up yet.

Life will always bring stress to people, and these pressures are why urban families are reluctant to have children.

Because rich urban people are ambitious, with limited energy, their careers are in the entrepreneurial period or peak, and they have no time to have children and take care of children, once they consider having children, it will affect their work and career, so they miss the time to have children, and they are not willing to have children.

Because rich urban people are enterprising, their careers are in the entrepreneurial period or peak, and they have no time to have children and take care of children, once they consider having children, it will affect their work and career, so they miss the time to have children, and they are not willing to have children.

On the contrary, the poorer you are, the less willing you are to have children. Because children are not only born, but also raised, I don't know if you have money, but also have leisure, there is no time and energy to raise children, it is better not to give birth. Children are not about many, but about fine.

However, in some particularly backward places, the ideology is still stuck in the old concept of needing children to pass on the family lineage and provide for the elderly. In fact, if you have money, you can provide for the elderly, and if you don't have money, even if you have more children, you may not be able to provide for your retirement. Do you have money but still lack children?

If you have money, there are more people who will treat you as sons and grandsons.

Rich people in the city are generally Kochi, that is, literate people, this kind of people have money, they want to be comfortable and enjoy themselves, and they don't want to be occupied by children for a lot of time. I want to enjoy life on my own, so I generally don't want to have too many children.

Actually, I can't say that I don't want to.

First of all, people living in cities have higher daily living expenses, and the budget for having a child will be higher.

Secondly, the richer people are, the more they know how to plan and manage their money, and the expenses of having children will naturally be calculated, so they are more cautious.

Those who don't want to have children are not very rich, they don't have much money in their pockets, but they are still living a good life, and when they have children, life begins to be difficult!

For example, I watched a news today, a primary school in Shandong requires that children with an area of less than 60 square meters in their parents' houses will not be allowed to enroll. That is to say, if you have a house, you can't do it, the house has to be big.

Because the richer you are, the more you know that it costs a lot to take care of children, and how difficult it is to take care of children. And when you have money, you have high requirements for educating children. Moreover, people are now open-minded, do not think that people have to have children in their lifetime, and are more willing to spend money on themselves to enjoy life.

Having a child takes up a lot of time and energy, and the richer the person, the more he knows how to enjoy life, and uses his own advantages to realize his personal value at work, and he has no time to think about having a child.

Maybe I'm afraid of trouble! One person is more comfortable. No worries and so on. So. I don't want to add to the trouble. Wait a minute.

Nowadays, people want to enjoy life, and having a child requires a lot of time and energy to take care of it, and having more children has no time and life of their own.

I don't think I'm like that, whether to have children or not and whether you have money or not is not a sexual relationship, it mainly depends on your own wishes.

Rich people know how to enjoy life, having children is a burden, the law of smart people.

Actually, I really haven't seen that you don't have children if you have money. Maybe they don't have many children, but at least one will have to give birth to them. Being rich is actually an open attitude towards having children, after all, you don't need to spend too much energy on your own, because he has money.

It is a very unfortunate idea to think that the more you look in front of you in the city, the less you look like hi, because it is very expensive to raise a child in society now, and you don't like to raise a child, because children are very mental and laborious.

I don't think what you said is right, I haven't heard that the richer you are, the more reluctant you are to have children, it should be that the richer you are, the more you want to have children, you look at Zhang Yimou in the past, he was fined so much money in order to have a second child.

It may be that they live very transparently. Everyone has a different way of living.

Because they are too busy earning money to have children.

I'm not very rich, and I still don't want to have children. I want to learn from other people in the West, and not having children is a kind of freedom and happiness.

The richer you are, the more you will enjoy life, it is enough to have a child to continue the emotion and sustenance, and one more child will have a lot more things.

They think it's tiring and cumbersome to have children, especially in the city.

The difference in spiritual realm is not determined by economic conditions.

It's not easy to make money, the work pressure is high, and psychologically I've already seen it.

I want to open and like to enjoy, but also more selfish.

Maybe I'm busy earning money to socialize.

In fact, it is not necessarily that not all rich people are unwilling to have children.

It's too tiring to take care of kids now.

It's because they're selfish and stupid!