Why, you always can t let go, the one who doesn t cherish you?

Updated on psychology 2024-08-05
21 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-15

    Personally, I think that the reason why I can't let go of the person who doesn't cherish me is because I still have a very high evaluation of him in my heart.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-14

    Personally, I think that if you can't let go of the person who doesn't cherish you, it actually means that you still love him very much. Because only when you still love each other will you remember and can't let go. But personal advice, for people who don't value you, there really is no need to reminisce.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    Because often such people, they will create a false impression that girls love each other very much, so that girls plunge into love, and it is difficult to get out when they are finally broken up.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Can give a chance! It's not easy for the two to come together, if you don't regret it, you can change the angle! Distance yourself from him for a while, and he will come to you on his own initiative.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    It's time to leave, otherwise you won't be happy!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    If you can't accept it, then change, and if you can't change, leave.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    You should leave, don't romance your feelings.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Hello, I don't know how old the one who doesn't cherish is, if it's not old, it should be understandable, not everyone can be mature and single-minded on emotional issues. In terms of everyone's personality, some people are outgoing and have their own strengths in some aspects, such as being favored at home, good looks, and very opposite-sex relationships. And so on, which will lead to a state of mind in which he feels superior to others.

    In such a state of mind, the sense of superiority will become stronger and stronger after living for a long time, so that the love given to him by others is taken for granted, and he doesn't care! Such people are just mentally immature and have not really been psychologically hurt. But that doesn't mean he doesn't like you or doesn't care about you.

    If you want to know whether you should leave or not, I think you should try to separate, even if he has a sense of superiority to break up, he will agree to it, whether he will come back to you after calming down, and his position in your heart depends on whether you can last long in the future. If you come back to him, you should give him a chance and clarify your feelings! I believe that he will slowly change!

    If not, then you should be glad that you are not true love to him!

    Hope it helps!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Of course, why should you be sentimental.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I think, how do you know that he doesn't cherish you, maybe he's just not good at words, and just say leave if you ask.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I think such a person is a person who doesn't know how to cherish, and at the same time, such a person is also a person we don't deserve to cherish. Sometimes we can't fall in love for the sake of falling in love, but because of love, we choose to be together, so we must recognize the essence of falling in love.

    If you meet such a person who neither loves you, but also does not want to lose you, does not cherish and does not let go of you, I think you should decisively give up such a person, because being with him is simply a waste of your time, a waste of your energy, and at the same time you will not be able to gain anything. Although everyone has the right to choose love, I think we should look at feelings correctly, so that we can find our own emotions.

    And it is not easy to cultivate every emotion, no matter what, we should not pester others casually. Everyone has the right to choose love or not to choose love, we don't force others, since others don't like it, since others have chosen to give up, then we don't want to force others.

    Of course, none of us want to meet such a person in our own relationship, because we all want that person to truly love us, but not all of us are like this. If we are unfortunate enough to meet such a person, then we must recognize the reality and make the right choice, without procrastinating, hesitating and not being able to judge, the more you are like this, the more the other party will not let go. This kind of emotion should be broken, this is the most correct choice, we should not blindly always be soft-hearted, unable to make up their minds, soft-hearted people are always bullied and suffered by others, so we must make up our minds to make decisions, do not put their time on a person who is not worth paying.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    This kind of person just treats others as spare tires, doesn't love you but is afraid of losing you, has no better object to replace, and doesn't know how to cherish and look down on you when he has you.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Such a person is completely a selfish person, even if he doesn't like it, he won't let him have freedom, so when he encounters such a person, he must stay away, otherwise he can only be hurt.

  14. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Such a person is a kind of person who has no opinions, he is not sure about what he thinks in his heart, he is always hesitant, and he will definitely live a very poor life with such a person.

  15. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I think such people are particularly selfish, because most of them are to satisfy that little tsundere, and they don't love each other and pester, that is, under the guise of love, and then satisfy their selfishness.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I think such a person is a garbage, a waste of people's feelings, a waste of people's time, just satisfy yourself, never care about what others think, to put it bluntly, you are a scumbag or a scumbag.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    , scum. It's too contrived. This kind of person is selfish, arrogant, only thinking about himself and not paying attention to the feelings of others.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    This type of person is generally very indecisive in real life and has a hard time making choices. If you have a relationship with this kind of person, you will feel very sad in life.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    To deliberately forget is to forget. Because I care about whether I still remember, I often remind myself to forget, but in fact, every reminder is to let me remember him at a deeper level. So don't try to forget the person you don't want to forget.

    One day, when you don't care if you forget it, you really forget it.

    If you can't forget it, bury him and this feeling deep in your own heart, hidden in a place that can't even be reached by the smoke of the city. That's a beautiful place in your heart......What do you think it will be to give up, is it so easy to give up someone, and is it still called true love? Love will make you happy, and thinking of her "him" will be very happy and powerful.

    But you know how you'll feel when you don't get her? Do you feel that the sky is falling, people are tired, and your heart is tired? I'm sure you've encountered it, because I've also encountered it now in trouble, in pain.

    I can understand your feelings. I want to love so much, I give love, but she wants you to give up on her, I said I will, but is it really okay? When I was lonely, when I was lonely, I quietly thought of her, her voice, and every word she said, it was so unforgettable and heart-wrenching.

    I really want to love, but I get a lot of pain, and my body and mind are haggard. Is this called abandonment? Therefore, it is impossible to give up a person you really love, you can only cry and remind yourself that you want to forget, to escape, although you don't want to, you are very unwilling, but what else can you do besides escaping?

    I'm like that now, and I can understand your mood somewhat. If you want to let go, I think the best thing to do is to change your focus. Turn your attention to something else.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Love is mutual, not the infinite contribution of one party, and people who don't know how to cherish you mean that they don't have you in their hearts.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Because you have to believe that no matter what kind of person you are, there will always be people who value yourself more than yourself, so if you meet those people you cherish but don't value yourself, you must let go as soon as possible.

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