What are the characteristics of parents of bear children?

Bear children are different from bear children, so their parents are also different from parents. But most of the parents of bear children are the kind of people who are more honest and responsible, because they are too doting on their children, so they lead to their children's lawless character, so that their good and bad nature are fully played. Being naughty and mischievous is one thing, and playing cards according to common sense is another, and this kid who really gives people a headache is like Sun Wukong who doesn't have a tight hoop spell.

I can't control it at all. And their mothers are often the Tang monks who only know broken thoughts, but because they don't have a tight spell, they don't work for Sun Wukong at all. And the bear child has always been unable to escape from the palm of the Buddha.

Their mothers are generally gentle, and belong to the type of good wives and mothers. They have no temper and are helpless against their children, so they can only obey them. When the mother takes them at home, they always dare to make a mess of the room at home, run around the room, throw toys everywhere, and lose their temper when they are unhappy.

They are not afraid that their mother's tantrum will clean them up, because they know that their mother will not be punished for such misdeeds.

Although such bear children are lawless at home, usually when their father comes, they don't dare to be presumptuous at all. No matter how the monkey is making trouble, there is no way to turn out the palm of the Buddha's hand. Their fathers are usually the stricter ones, they are usually not smiling, and they don't have so much time to spend with their children every day because of their work.

Therefore, they usually spend less time with their children, so children will be very scared and afraid. There is also a kind of father, who usually prefers children, gets along with children like friends, and plays with them, such a father may not be very majestic, but because he is the head of the family, there is still such majesty.

As the grandparents of the children, because they are separated by a generation, they love their children very much, and they basically spoil their children. They all did their best to give what they thought was the best to the bear children. Give them the best food, the best drink, the best toys, the best clothes.

And grandparents usually have a characteristic, when the father and mother educate the child to want to punish the big one, they are always the first to stand up and protect their little grandchildren behind them, and at the same time blame their parents for being too strict with their children. In such a situation, they are undoubtedly the best talisman for children.

It is precisely because of such a family that the child's personality is developed.

<> say that family education is the first education, and what kind of parents will teach what kind of children. Behind the bear child must be one or more bear parents. Those annoying bear parents have these characteristics:

1. Deprive children of any opportunity to exercise.

Now this kind of parents are very common, and they take care of all aspects of their children's life and learning, and do not give their children any opportunity to exercise, and are always afraid of tiring their children, resulting in children being self-centered from an early age, and developing the habit of being selfish and tolerant of others.

2. Blindly indulge and accommodate children.

When children have wrong and inappropriate words and deeds, they will not point out and tell children the correct concepts, and always use the excuse that the children are still young and ignorant, and let the children lose a good time to grow.

3. Unreasonable and unreasonable parents.

When there is unhappiness between one's children and classmates, there are conflicts, and there is friction, they will always indiscriminately put all the responsibility on others, and they will not listen to any explanations and reasons. How can this kind of parent teach a sensible child? Therefore, as a parent, you should always pay attention to your words and deeds, set a good example for your children, and gain the respect of others.

4. Failure to follow the rules.

Whether it is the traffic rules, or the rules of the child's class group or the rules of any public place, etc., they turn a blind eye, only for their own convenience and temporary happiness, do not respect others, love how to come, in the end it is yourself who suffers.

5. Disrespectful and self-righteous.

Some people feel that they are great when they have a little money and power at home, and they have the virtue of being the best in the world, and they don't take others in their eyes at all.

6. Full of foul language, the exit becomes dirty.

No matter what the occasion, this kind of parent, because he has developed a habit, a sentence is all foul, and he feels good about himself, which makes people uncomfortable to listen to, and the child hears and sees it every day, and unconsciously follows it.

7. Littering.

Some parents will not put the garbage and cigarette butts after eating even if the garbage can is in front of them, and they will save trouble by throwing them away, causing trouble to others and destroying the good environment. The child imitated it in the blink of an eye.

There are really a lot of characteristics of bear parents, I just hope that as parents, we can always pay attention to our words and deeds and raise our fingers to set a good example for our children!

First of all, I think that if there is a parent, there must be a child. The child's growth environment affects the formation of the child's character, and if the growth environment is good, then when the child grows up in the future, her behavior and habits will be different in all aspects.

I've met a student whose behavior is really sometimes incomprehensible to why he would do such a thing. For example, he will always take the initiative to provoke others to beat him, or take the initiative to contradict others.

One time after school, the director came to my office and said that there was a student in my class who had a conflict with other grade students, so I went out to take a look. Later, I learned that this student in our class often had conflicts with students in other grades, and this time this one was not once or twice, and it was he who took the initiative to provoke students from other grades.

After being beaten this time, he used the **watch, called ** to his father, and his father also hit the people from the police station when he came, and asked the people from the police station to come and interfere. It was also the first time I had met his parents, and I couldn't understand why this student was acting so differently.

After meeting his parents, I instantly understood that this child probably couldn't change, because parents are the child's first teachers, and parents have not done a good job, and the child must have learned the same.

Not every child is destined to be a bear child at birth, and it must have something to do with his family education. When you don't understand why this child has become so naughty and willful, when you meet his parents, you may understand.

There was also a student who was very violent. This student is not very rough but very sven, but when she is waiting, other classmates are playing or there is a conflict, her first reaction is to hit someone, and he thinks that nothing can be solved with his fists to get rich.

Later, I did ideological work with him, and I found out that his father was at home, and whenever he couldn't do something, he would start beating him, so he developed such a character. So what are the characteristics of the parents of the children, in fact, you can guess from this bear child. The characteristics of each bear child's parents are different.

Generally naughty, uncertain, emotional, easy to talk back to parents. and often have conflicts with friends and after conflicts, they do not take the initiative to solve them. Parents should do to guide them in time, give their children psychological dredging in time, communicate and communicate with their children more, and avoid psychological problems caused by such situations.

Such children are generally more naughty, and like to work against their parents, and at the same time their personalities are more cheerful, so parents should be friends with their children and have their own majesty.

Children may be due to their own ideas, adults do not understand, adults have been disciplined and taught so that children have a business psychology, so it will lead to rebellion; When we educate our children, we should set a good example first, communicate with our children as a friend, understand the problems and difficulties faced by our children, and patiently help them solve them.

It is because of the education of parents, excessive spoiling of children, not paying attention to children's cultivation, in life must be correct guidance children, so that children know right and wrong.

First of all, it is because parents are overly spoiled and very satisfied with any requirements of their children. Therefore, children are relatively willful. It is still necessary to go to strict discipline.

In fact, some of the actions of children when they are young will make people angry, but do not rise to the height of personality at every turn. A child's conduct is the result of acquired education, and if you plant a melon, you will get a melon, and if you plant a bean, you will get a bean.

In fact, the "bear child" itself is not terrible, but the terrible parent who does not educate the child, cannot control his emotions in case of trouble, and does not play a good role model for the child.

In Xinyang, Henan Province, a girl was trying on clothes in the fitting room of a clothing store, and when she was only wearing autumn clothes, two children suddenly came over to push the curtain of the fitting room and wanted to drill into it.

The woman reminded the two children not to enter the wild language, but the children did not listen to Bi Lu at all. The woman shouted loudly, "No one's children care, there are people in there to try on clothes!" ”

As a result, the woman was waiting for someone to stop the child, but to be scolded for being "unqualified". The woman looked for the person who was scolding, and the mother of one of the children responded by scolding herself, and while talking, she came up to the other mother and got into a verbal argument with the woman, accusing her of scheming with her 2-year-old child.

The woman was scolded and was very angry, and raised her mobile phone to take pictures of the evidence, but the two mothers rushed over and snatched the mobile phone and scolded her for doing a special profession.

The clerk realized that the situation was wrong, came over to persuade her, apologized to the woman, and helped her get her phone back. There were more people on the other side, and the male parents were present, and the woman didn't talk back, but she didn't get their apology from beginning to end.

The woman said that she understood the child and would not maliciously speculate about the child, they may be making trouble, but the attitude of the parents is too bad.

This woman's position is very correct, and she does not directly characterize the child as a "bear child" like others, but it is clearly the responsibility of the parents, which is very objective.

The child is at fault, but not hopelessly.

The reason why you want to try on clothes in the fitting room is to create a private space where you can try them on without outsiders getting in the way. Being disturbed or intruded by outsiders can be a feeling of being violated. Regardless of whether the intruder is a child or an adult, the feelings given to the person concerned are much the same.

The child's behavior does cause inconvenience and discomfort to the person, is a wrong behavior and should be stopped. But it is also understandable to take into account the age characteristics of the child.

1. Bear children, often described as naughty children, young and ignorant, lawless, and have not received a good family education for the time being. For example, when you see a child doing something unreasonable and destructive, you can sigh, "This bear child."

Bear children have a derogatory connotation, this title ** in the north, generally refers to those annoying children, and also has the meaning of nickname, indicating the love of naughty children.

2. Bear children are defined by netizens as those children who turn things around, engage in destruction, unruly, and lawlessness. He may delete your archives, smash your models, smash your screen, make a mess of your home, and even steal your beloved comics, games, and dolls for nothing. Their shouts echoed in every restaurant and every carriage.

According to Chinese law, minors under the age of 10 are incapacitated for civil conduct, and in many cases, "bear children" are also victims of the failed education of "bear parents". Therefore, when we gnash our teeth at the hateful behavior of the "bear children", we cannot let their "bear parents" go.

According to relevant laws, if a person who lacks or has limited capacity for civil conduct causes harm to others, the guardian shall bear civil liability. Some "bear parents" have always been unconscious, and even think that their children have some "small disasters" are nothing more than "money can be settled", at most they will go back and reprimand their children or beat them, even if they have "fulfilled their responsibilities" externally and internally. It is this kind of parents who let their children go further and further on the road of "bears", so in addition to bearing civil liability, they should also receive some spiritual baptism and learn how to be parents.

In 2014, more than 10,000 parents were taken to court for their children not attending school properly, of which more than 10,000 parents were found guilty by the court, more than 9,000 parents were fined £172, and 18 parents were even sentenced to imprisonment. Of course, such a provision for parents to "sit together" is still up for debate, and the British believe that "punishing parents is a last resort", but fines and imprisonment can make parents fully aware of the seriousness of their children's truancy. So, when children become perpetrators of school violence, become destroyers of public order and good customs such as public rules and moral norms, and when children violate the rights and interests of others without fear or repentance, should they also be fully aware of the seriousness of these behaviors?

Behind every "bear child", there is almost a problem family or "problem tutoring style". Some parents are not upright, their children are like this, and parents turn a blind eye to the problem; There are also parents who use the wrong way of tutoring, although they find that their children's growth is not in the right direction, but they do not know what to do. Regardless of whether they are active or passive, it is necessary for these parents to make up the lessons, which is also their responsibility and obligation as parents.

How to make up for the class is another topic, which requires the brainstorming of relevant departments and experts such as law, in the author's opinion, even if it is just a mandatory "bear parent"** related education propaganda film, it is better than nothing. In addition to the punishment, reparation and reflection after the "bear child" caused trouble, calling on the whole society to abide by and maintain public morality and law and discipline, establish and inherit a good family style, and imperceptibly and spring breeze and rain, may be a slow but more fundamental solution.