Do you think that your child is the most beautiful when you become a mother?

As a mother, I am justified, of course yes, even if I don't think it's the most beautiful, I will feel the cutest, I can't see it enough, I can't love enough, it's all because of love.

Many people complain about the circle of friends or Weibo Some people show their babies every day, obviously the baby is not good-looking, or a variety of angles, all kinds of times are tireless, sometimes others can't stand it, and some people even say meanly, I don't know if my baby looks ugly, and I still show it!

People who talk like this, I think, have not been parents yet, and people who have been parents, especially mothers, will automatically block the shortcomings of their children's appearance, and at the same time magnify the advantages. There is a saying in China that children are their own good, and their wives are other people's good.

Loving their cubs is not exclusive to humans, and many animals will also love their children very much, which is manifested in protection, feeding, emotional attachment, etc. This is the result of evolution, enough love will take care of and care for the offspring, so that the child can grow up smoothly, complete reproduction, and realize the continuation of genes.

In addition to the instinct of love, people also have a more advanced function, that is, aesthetics, children are round, fleshy, clear-eyed, innocent, delicate, and very cute, so they are very cute, not to mention being a mother, others can't help but want to hug and kiss when they see it.

Yang Jiang returned to China for the first time after sketching her daughter in "We Together", and on the steamer, foreigners gathered around to see the "Chinese dolls". A famous writer also wrote in his own book that it is rare for foreigners to have Chinese children, especially children in Beijing, who wear thick cotton pants and cotton jackets in winter, and are chubby and round, which is very cute.

But some people don't like children, and Caitou is against showing the baby, especially the little doll that can't stand the meat of the elephant worm in the circle of friends, and also issued a warning that the baby may be in danger.

It's understandable to like your baby, but you really should be restrained, even if you think your baby is the most beautiful.

Three cases:1Obviously, their children are ugly, but parents don't think that their children are the most beautiful!

2.I know that my child is the way to look, but I think my child is very good-looking, beautiful, and cute, I just want to be sunny, I have to be brave to be myself, that is, to pollute your circle of friends.

3.Lao Niang, I have a child, and I want to force you to share with me the baby's (actually your own) daily life! It is called because of love, recording the growth of the baby, and so on.

Enlightened Sectarianism: Genes don't lie, unless there is a small probability of genetic mutations, the appearance of a child largely depends on the genes of the parents. Most adults are self-conscious creatures, and asking them to admit that their children are ugly is tantamount to making them admit that their genes (the appearance part) are not good.

Not only does it deny the genes of the parents, but it can also be counted up to the eighteenth generation of the ancestors. No one wants to face the harsh reality that their own family and their own personal genes (the appearance part) are of low quality. <>

Some people, you tell him that there are many beautiful children in our neighborhood, and he says that there are no beautiful children in our neighborhood who are more beautiful than mine. You tell him that there are many beautiful children in our kindergarten, and he says that his children are the most beautiful in their kindergarten. You tell him that so-and-so Internet celebrity child is too cute, and he says, no, it's not as good-looking as my child.

You can't tell him that other children are good-looking, and he will turn his head and tell others that this person has a problem with his vision, why do you say that such an ugly child is good-looking. In the long run, his children are really good-looking, and others will deliberately find shortcomings. If you like someone, you will think she is good-looking.

Ma Ma likes children, so he thinks she is good-looking. But it still doesn't lose its mind. Even if it's not numbness, but getting along day and night, because your existence makes people happy or valuable, and the other party will think you look good.

You are very familiar, and you can tell whether these friends are telling the truth or not. <>

First, the child is born by himself, and if the child is ugly, wouldn't it mean that he is ugly, and the woman in the world will say that he is ugly.

Second, mothers want their children to look better and better, so they naturally feel good-looking in their hearts, even if they look good for a long time.

Third, after giving birth, when relatives and friends go back to see the child, they will compliment the mother, such as "the child is so beautiful, the same as the mother", etc., which increases the mother's self-confidence...

In fact, in the eyes of every parent, their children are the best and most beautiful, and if you are not a mother, you don't have to care too much about what other mothers say, and put your heart and love on the baby.

Because love children are the hearts of parents, of course they will feel very precious, although there are few who will complain about the ugliness of children, but most of them will feel particularly cute because of the mood of being a mother and father.

This can only show that most people's attitude towards things is not objective. I also have a friend, who is obviously her biological child and looks average, so she has said many times: "My daughter is average-looking, not ugly or beautiful."

Who's a child is really beautiful." But she also said that she could give everything and even her life for her daughter, which shows that she loves her daughter very much, but she will not think that her daughter is beautiful because she loves her. My friend has a happy marriage and a successful career, and her daughter is also well trained, and I think it has a lot to do with her objective attitude towards the things around her.

Isn't this nonsense, it's not good-looking, you can still return it and throw it away?

Because, those who think that their children are not good genes, those children who are disliked by their parents, have slowly disappeared from history.

The current reality is but one consequence of the endless possibilities.

Because there is a selfish mentality.

This phenomenon is very common in the growth of children.

For example, if there is something delicious to eat, the mother will stand in front of the child to help the child make excuses.

Because they see the cutest side of their children.

Because it is your own child, the bad things are also acceptable or automatically ignored.

Obviously, there are also people who dislike their children for being ugly.。。 Just accepted.

It's really simple because it's your own child, no matter what. When you have a child, you will also think that your child is the best-looking.

Crazy share of sunshine time shipment where the space of the Buddha is.

Because it's the flesh and bones that fell from my body

The weasel raises a child and says that it is fragrant, and the hedgehog raises a child that it is light (slippery), which is the so-called love house and black, which are all psychological tricks, hehe.

The uglier you look, the uglier it gets, it must not be biological.

Because they gave birth to it themselves, of course they think it looks good.

If you get used to it, you will feel good-looking, and even if your children are really ugly, they won't feel ugly.

Maybe you've seen a better-looking child.

Because it represents hope, the hope for the rest of your life.

Because of your own child, you will feel that he is cute and smart.

It is also a kind of self-confidence for children, when others tell you that your mother is beautiful, you will be very happy in your heart, and your mother will become beautiful herself.

If there is a gentle, beautiful and charming mother, it will have a great impact on the child, which can give the child self-confidence and let the child grow better.

The first is the issue of genetic inheritance, if the mother is beautiful, the child is very likely to be beautiful too. The second is that the child will become very confident, especially when his mother is praised by others, the child will feel very proud.

It has a great impact, if the mother is beautiful, then it will affect the child when she is young, and she will slowly do the same from a young age, asking herself to be beautiful and managing her figure. Even better than mom does.

It can make children have a clearer understanding of beauty, the mother is beautiful, and the child will not be bad, and in daily life, they will face others with a positive and confident face.

It may make the child more confident, make him more face-saving among children, and since the mother is beautiful, she will definitely inherit it to the child, and the child should not be ugly.

Generally, mothers are not bad for their children to be beautiful, and at the same time, they will make their children more proud. The mother is gentle, and the child must have a good personality.

If your mother has always been very good at dressing up and reading fashion magazines a lot, then you will also be influenced by this, and you will have your own opinions and opinions about beauty from an early age.

Of course, when they are older, the child will be very confident, and can show off to the children that his mother is beautiful, which can make the child grow up happily.

If the mother is good-looking, there are many benefits, which will change a lot from the inside to the outside. Who wouldn't want to have a beautiful mom themselves? Although appearance is not the most important thing, it can help a lot.

01, my mother is beautiful, and I don't think I'm going to be ugly. No matter how you say it, mother and daughter are mother and daughter after all. Although many people say:

Boys will be more like their mothers, and girls will be more like their fathers. As a girl, I may have more dad genes, but it's not the same with boys. Boys will have more of their mother's genes, so if their mother is good-looking, the child will definitely not be as good as **.

Isn't this an indirect addition to your appearance?

02. A beautiful mother will make you feel happy. Who doesn't love to look at beautiful women? If you see other good-looking people outside, you will feel happy, so wouldn't that person be happier if they become your mother?

You can see beautiful people every day, and the other person is still your own mother, so you can stick together all day long. Mom will still call you "baby" and give you a lot of love. Oh my God, this is undoubtedly the happiest child in the world.

03, my mother will win the envy of others if she is beautiful. Although such envy is not a proud thing, Nengou gives himself a sense of superiority. This sense of superiority is not manifested at the level of looking down on others, but you can't wait to show off your treasure to others.

Mom comes to give you a parent-teacher meeting or something, or usually takes you shopping, you will feel very happy. Because my mother is good-looking, it seems to bring you a lot of face.

Moms are one of our closest people, and we love them no matter what they look like. Of course, if you look good, you will naturally be much happier. After all, in today's society, Yan Dog is too real, and he is also a proper Yan Dog.

Everyone must be very envious of those good-looking children, right?

It was a very proud experience. Growing up, I went out with my mother, and I was often praised by others, and the mother and daughter were very beautiful.

The mother is beautiful, and she will definitely be proud of it as a child, she must feel very face-saving, and maybe she can show off in front of her classmates, who doesn't like people who are beautiful?

My mom is very beautiful, and I ask my mom to go to every parent-teacher conference, and all my classmates around me will praise my mom for being beautiful, and I will feel very happy at that time.

It's a show-off experience, because mom is beautiful and has a light on her face, after all, they will envy themselves.

I feel very proud, proud, and have a beautiful mother, which is enviable.

It's really beautiful, and it must have a high return rate on the street, right? Sorry for you.

I feel very proud, proud, and have a beautiful mother, which is enviable. The rate of turning heads on the street must be high, right? Others will think it's my sister, haha.

We have an old saying here, "Your own children, other people's crops" means that you always look at your own crops as good as others, and always look at other people's children as beautiful as your own. People are inertia, commonality, habit becomes natural, and people and things that are used to seeing them feel pleasing to the eye, and they are comfortable no matter how they look. When I usually have nothing to do, I also like to play cards and mahjong, maybe everyone knows that sometimes there are not only four people playing in the place where I play cards, but also many people watching, especially with children.

Once, playing mahjong at my house, my neighbor Ah Fang led his two-year-old son, and just sat down to code cards, my brother and daughter-in-law spoke to me: second sister-in-law, look at it, Ah Fang's son's eyes look like he can't see people, and he looks like he is standing up. When Ah Fang heard this, her face turned crimson, and she said to me embarrassedly, Second aunt, you see that my son doesn't look like this, I look at my eyes quite brightly!!

I glanced at my brother and daughter-in-law, and said to the embarrassed Ah Fang, what kind of eyes is your aunt's eyes, how can there be! Although the eyes are not big, they have a lot of energy!

Because of the bond of blood relationship, parents will feel that their children have inherited their excellent bloodline, and they must be the most beautiful and lovely.

Don't say that girls are cute and beautiful, that's actually harming him, if a girl is beautiful, it will attract the attention of the opposite sex, which will lead to his own lack of study, thinking about getting something for nothing all day long, and in the end he will get nothing when he is old, but those girls who are not beautiful since childhood, no one pays attention, you can study hard when you are young, and finally when you grow up, you can also earn money, and then buy cosmetics to maintain, it is also okay, if a girl is too beautiful when she is a child, it will lead to serious expansion of self-esteem, As a result, he became vain, he wouldn't study hard at that time, and when he grew up, he could only find a rich man to marry, because no one would fancy such a girl, why, because the root is useless.