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Introduction: In the process of educating children, parents will also consider their own identity and status, after all, every parent will graduate from a different college. Does a parent's educational background directly determine a child's personal development?
Each child is an individual, and there is no obvious correlation between the child's own development and the development of his or her parents. Moreover, there are some family conditions for the noble son from a poor family, although it is not particularly good, there will be some relatively excellent talents. However, there are some families with very good conditions and high educational backgrounds, but there is no way to educate their children to become talents, so there is no direct relationship between the two.
Of course, some people will think that if their parents have a higher educational background, then they may have a better job, a better environment, and a better educational environment for their children. Of course, such an idea is correct, but the education of parents and the influence they exert on their children, and how much children can absorb, also depends entirely on the child's individual abilities and circumstances. If parents give their children a lot of good things, they can't absorb them, and their personal development has no impact on their parents.
Therefore, whether the parent's educational background is high or low will not affect the child's personal development. If the child's personal development is good, it is usually a relatively strong learning ability and can have a certain subjective thing.
In fact, in the process of educating their children, every parent should not regard their children as their own children, but should regard their children as a gradually developing and independent individual. There is no need for parents to feel that their children must surpass themselves because of their own circumstances, or that their children must not surpass themselves. Children will encounter all kinds of things on the road of development, and sometimes even if the child works very hard, but just encounter some unfortunate things, it will limit their own development.
Therefore, there is no need to be overly demanding for the growth of an individual, if the parents' desire to control is too strong, there is no way to respect the child's independence, and the child will go further and further on the road he wants.
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Parents' educational background will not directly affect the child's personal development, the parents' three views, the parents' education style will affect the child's personal development, if the parents' educational background is particularly high, but regardless of the child, the child's personal development is also not good.
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will determine the child's personal development. Because family education is particularly important, it will cultivate children's correct three views and cultivate children's personal abilities.
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This has a certain impact on children's development, but as long as they can be strict with them when they are young and let them develop a good habit, it is also good for children's development, and they will also have good development in the future.
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There is a certain influence, but it cannot be said that the high or low level that determines the educational background of the parents will affect the personal development of the child, but there is no direct determining factor, and the main thing is to look at the child's acquired development.
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A parent's educational background will have a direct impact on the child's personal development. Because your height is the starting point of your child. Parents of Stanford University and Tsinghua University, their children have made Tsinghua University and Peking University their goals.
For example, Gu Ailing has wanted to enter Stanford since she was a child, and if she were an ordinary parent, it would be good to enter 985, or even worse, to be able to go to college, for parents who have not studied in college, it is already a carp jumping the dragon gate.
In addition to affecting the child's long-term goals, what other aspects of the parent's educational background will have a profound impact on the child?
First of all, vision. Parents have higher education, and their children's problems are deeply and thoroughly, and they do not account for the current gains and losses, because they know that they have a better future. It's not that they don't care about the good or bad results for a while, but they have a good mentality and are easy to adjust.
This all comes from the education of parents. An institution in the United States conducted experiments on children from different backgrounds, children from ordinary families and children with high education, who showed very different interests and values when they were young. The former reads Wall Street every day, and the latter children are immersed in the bloody plot in the TV series.
It is conceivable that their future is poor. The difference is at the starting point.
Secondly, behavioral habits. Such children are generally more self-disciplined. What I'm talking about is general, I don't rule out the children of some highly educated parents, because they are more pampered, and their children also need to be supervised by their parents to study.
But it is undeniable that these children, under the influence of their parents, will also have other interests and hobbies. Relatively speaking, highly educated parents are more tolerant and will give their children certain choices.
In addition, children raised by highly educated parents are more methodical and logical. Parents who have gone through the college entrance examination, graduate school or even doctoral examination will always pass on their methods and minds to their children after many years, intentionally or unintentionally. Their behavior, speech and actions, as well as their self-confidence and ability to resist pressure, will become a wealth for children.
When my child introduced me and her father to her university teachers and internship leaders, I knew that the education we had given her over the years also included the confidence and encouragement we had brought her because of our hard work and academic qualifications.
So you say, will highly educated parents not affect the development of their children?
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Does a parent's educational background directly affect a child's personal development? That's for sure. It has a decisive impact on a child's personal development.
A little kid is a little sapling. There are always a lot of branches. Therefore, it must be corrected at any time.
So. If your parents have a high educational background. Kids are natural.
He just adapted or received this high-quality education. Then, his worldview, his style of doing things, will be formed with his parents.
For example, parents often read books at home. Child. When he was young, he was influenced by this, and gradually, he also loved to read.
Parents don't talk much at home. The child is also not very talkative. It can also be said that parents do not communicate with each other often.
When the child grows up, he does not communicate with others very often. In short, everything about parents directly affects the child.
Our children were just starting kindergarten when they were younger. When he returned, his language was not very clear at the time. Because he was only three years old.
Always swearing and swearing, we didn't understand at first. Later I understood. Asked him what he learned from **, he said he learned it from children?
That's when I deliberately observed the kindergarten. Among the parents of kindergarten. There are some people.
The personal quality may be relatively low. Always scolding children. So are their children.
When you encounter a little difficulty, you learn to scold like your parents. Seeing this situation, I immediately decided to transfer my child to kindergarten. After changing kindergartens.
This is not the case for children. Because in this kindergarten, I observed the parents, and they are all relatively civilized. There are no those who often speak with colloquial words.
Therefore, the growth of the little ones and the parents. Words and deeds, as well as life style, work style, etc., have a direct impact. Parents can even say what children will learn.
Especially from three to six years old, this stage. Basically. It's a critical time.
His worldview. It all began to form at this time.
If the child's mother is a resentful woman. I often feel that many things are unfair. Then talk about these things in front of the child and express your indignation about it.
It won't take long for you to find out that this kid is the same, always feeling like this world. It's all unfair, including the fact that he asks his parents when he comes back from kindergarten. Today's dinner, the teacher served a child more food, why didn't he serve it to me?
This is unreasonable. In fact, the formation of these worldviews of children is not necessarily formed in kindergarten, but in the words and deeds of parents.
So in the education of the child. The educational background of the parents. For children.
plays a decisive role. It can even play a decisive role in the development of a child in the future life. Therefore, I hope that every parent can pay attention to their words and deeds.
Give your child a head start. Let children become truly useful people in society in the future.
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Hello, I think that the level of parental education background will not directly affect the child's personal development, of course, it will have a significant impact on the child's personal development, which is beyond doubt.
Now parents pay special attention to their children's education, which has nothing to do with the educational background of the parents, only in the hope that the son will become a dragon, the daughter will become a phoenix, in order to provide better learning conditions for the child, every parent will try their best to do. And this standard, everyone will have a scale in their hearts.
Of course, the level of academic qualifications affects people's vision to a certain extent, that is, the height and breadth of looking at problems. In a certain place or in a certain aspect, when encountering some similar problems, the ability to analyze and solve problems at different times and stages must be different.
In the early stages of growth, children may not have the ability to make independent judgments and choices, and even many people are the same when they reach college. Therefore, at several key points in life, the vision of parents will determine the development of children to a certain extent.
Sometimes, the education of children can be a little more Buddhist. In the early years, children can be encouraged to learn knowledge and skills, but more importantly, they must learn to be confident, learn to persevere, and have the courage and perseverance to pursue their goals. Maybe you weren't so outstanding and eye-catching when you were young, but when you reach junior high school, high school, or even college, you will eventually accumulate and shine with your own brilliance!
In fact, it is possible to fail in the right thing, but it is never acceptable for the child to give up. The essence of higher education is not to teach those dead knowledge, but to make people wise, tolerant, and rational, and parents with such qualities can provide a better environment for their children to grow up.
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The background of the parents has a great influence on the child, because the parent's educational background has a great influence on the child, and the parents with a high educational background do have a very big impact on the success of the child. However, there are many stories of "sparrows turning into phoenixes" on the Internet. This is because most people are in favor of this case of "survivorship bias", when the truth is that parents with high educational backgrounds can really help their children succeed.
One of the reasons why I say this is because parents with high educational backgrounds tend to have more solid family backgrounds, and a strong family background can indeed improve more and better educational resources for children, so as to help children succeed. The second is because of the phrase "learning changes destiny", parents with a high educational background will help and guide their children to learn. Parents with low educational backgrounds can only blindly ask their children to achieve good grades, and it is obvious that children with high educational backgrounds are more likely to succeed.
The third is because parents with high educational background have enough funds and resources to pay for their children's dreams, while parents with low educational background have to give up their hobbies due to financial and other constraints, which is undoubtedly the child with high educational background is easy to succeed. Family background is crucial to a child's growth and development. It is mainly manifested in education, employment and promotion, and also has a positive effect on marriage.
If a child is born into a well-to-do family, at least he is free from poverty and hardship, and his material conditions can ensure that he has no worries about food and clothing. When they reach the age of enrollment, their parents will choose schools with strong teachers and education. This alone gives them an advantage over those poor students at the starting point, not to mention the future secondary school and university, which those who lack backgrounds do not have.
Now it is difficult to produce a noble son from a poor family, to a large extent, it is because of the elbow of the family background, and the crushing of people under the straw hat is a powerful proof.
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Children with better family conditions, they can receive high-quality teaching resources, and they will also have a good educational environment, if parents have a better education level, they can also tutor their children to study, and they can also let their children have some good family education when they are young.
Therefore, it is believed that family conditions and the education level of parents have a great impact on the development of children.
I feel that family conditions have a great impact on the development of children, for example, some children with better family conditions, they have not taken Kai to school, they have been arranged by their parents to have some good family education, and the invited tutors are also very powerful, when the children start to go to school, parents will also choose some good quality schools for them, and at the same time, they can also give their children some good educational conditions. Not only in terms of children's learning, but also in terms of children's hobbies, parents will also do their best to meet their children's needs, such as letting their children learn piano and violin.
Or dancing and so on. They don't care about money when they sign up for tutoring classes for their children, they only care about whether the child can learn something. If the parents have a higher level of education, they can also let their children receive a good family education before they go to school, and there will be many good ways to educate their children.
Family conditions and the education level of parents do have a great impact on the development of children, and at the same time, the children's own subjective initiative.
It also has a great impact on his development, some children have strong self-restraint ability, they will actively integrate into the learning process, and will be good at cultivating their own interests and hobbies, but some children even if the family conditions are very good, and the parents are more educated, but the children themselves are more rebellious and have poor subjective initiative, and they cannot restrain their behavior well, and may not have a good development in the future.
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