My colleague asked me to buy cigarettes for him, and what did my friend mean when I was eating

Just because you just went, he will treat you like this, in fact, this is also a common thing in China, and it can be said that this is almost the unspoken rule of some Chinese enterprises. This reflects the problems in enterprise management, and the quality of the bottom managers is not up, which affects the work enthusiasm of the bottom personnel. If you want to be respected in the future, you need to endure it now, and use your efforts to climb to the top of your career, as long as you stand on a high place, others will respect you.

I hope you can get what you want at work and have smooth sailing.

You have to be careful to see if it doesn't mean anything bad to you. Such a person is either a good person, or has a good relationship with his colleagues, and can eat up and down. Either it's very hypocritical, and you should be able to see the former, and you can see the relationship with other colleagues.

If not, be careful, such people are psychologically unhealthy and hypocritical. But don't overthink it. After a long time, you will learn how to deal with such people.

This society is very big, and there will be people and everything. Maybe it feels like only the people and things in the story are running in real life. It's been more than two years since I graduated.

It feels like bringing the story to life. It's impatient, but it makes me grow and I feel like I'm growing up. Bless you ...

Beautiful little princess. May your life be as beautiful as a fairy tale...

Has he ever called someone else like that? I don't think it's a matter of your stinginess, it's that he's too lazy, or a bully. The solution, if he is a straightforward person, you can tell him directly, but from your statement, I don't think he will be such a person, hehe......You can use work as an excuse not to buy it for him or politely shirk it, and then make up your mind that you must work hard and call him in the future!

Good luck with your work!

He's gone too far! Don't buy it for him.

Endure it, do it, but hold back a force in your heart, you must surpass him, and then gracefully stab his pride.

Colleagues should respect each other's 、、、

You're not stingy, you tell him: I'd better buy it for you after work, right?

A friend may mean the following when you ask you to buy cigarettes at this time:

1. Break you off: Friends may have some personal topics, sensitive topics, or plans that they want to discuss when you go to buy cigarettes, and don't want you to be there. This may be because they feel that you are not comfortable with the feast or that you don't need to understand the feast or participate in it.

2. Surprise: A friend may plan to surprise you or arrange something special, and they need you to leave for a while to prepare or arrange. Buying cigarettes is just a pre-burn excuse that allows you to get away for a while and allow them to complete their preparations.

It is important to note that a friend's specific intentions may vary depending on the situation and the relationship. If you're confused or unsure, it's best to communicate directly with a friend and ask about their intentions and purpose. This avoids misunderstandings and gives you a better understanding of the other party's intentions.

First of all, there is nothing you can't ask for, and it doesn't hurt to take money under any circumstances, because his request is for you to help run errands.

Secondly, if you consider the positive effect of not taking this service money, it depends on the leadership level and the nature of the work, generally speaking, if it is a small section of the workshop or something, more greedy and cheap, the pattern is not big People may care more, if it reaches a certain level, or is engaged in a leadership position in a regular company, it will not have much positive effect, because I don't like to let others think that I am a person who loves to take advantage of small advantages, especially in the workplace, this image is very important. Even if I receive your money this time, I am embarrassed to let you run errands again next time, but I lose the opportunity to get closer.

If you have a master-apprentice relationship, (generally in the sales office in the company or in the technical position in the factory), you should also do the same in private, because in this relationship your leader will be more receptive and willing to accept, and feel that "the child can be taught", which is conducive to your later learning. It's a mindset that's been passed down over the years.

Or rather, bad habits.

Summary. Dear, if a male colleague asks you to buy cigarettes for him, he can't tell that he wants to sleep with you, and he can't tell that he wants to test you, it should be a normal interaction between colleagues!

My male colleague asked me to buy cigarettes for him, and he said that he didn't give me money, and I could feel that he wanted to sleep with me, did he ask me to buy cigarettes to test me? Because he asked me to send him a red envelope on his birthday two days ago, my birthday was two days earlier than his, and he didn't even say happy birthday to the code source.

Dear, if a male colleague asks you to buy cigarettes for him, he can't tell that he wants to sleep with you, and he can't tell that he wants to test you, it should be a normal interaction between colleagues!

He used to ask me to borrow money, but I scolded him back.

Dear, what do you think now?

I'm just asking you, what does he mean? Is it trying to test whether I like him or not, he deliberately said in front of the guests that he has a girlfriend, I think he is deliberately testing my reaction. I asked him if you don't have a girlfriend at all, and he said what, you want to be my girlfriend, Qi Leak?

And then I said you're too high, and that's a rotten heart?He said how is it possible, I said you are younger than me, he said age is a problem?

I'm not interested in him, but I don't want to be with him because I know he's a scumbag and a liar.

Dear, I think I think I have the same idea as you, I think he just relies on you to be his colleague, let you help him.

Summary. My friend asked me to bring cigarettes to his house for dinner, if someone has something to do and you buy cigarettes out of your own pocket, it stands to reason that you are a loser"rules. If the owner does not prepare cigarettes, it may be that he does not advocate smoking.

Distributing cigarettes on your behalf can be seen as bullying or provoking the master. If it were me, I would ask the owner behind my back for the reason and respect the master's intentions.

My friend asked me to bring cigarettes to his house for dinner, and if someone else has a change of book, you have to buy cigarettes out of your own pocket"rules. If the owner does not prepare cigarettes, it may be that he does not advocate smoking. You divide the cigarette on behalf of the master, and you can regard Zen Annihilation Cong as a bully or a suspicion of picking on the master's reason.

If it were me, I would ask the owner behind my back for the reason and respect the master's intentions.

I sent the stupid to his house for dinner for the first time, I bought something to take with me, he asked me to bring a pack of cigarettes, I bought two macro leather bags, I saw that there were cigarettes in his house when I left, I took the cigarettes away, and in the middle of the night the third watch sent a message to my dust companion saying that you took the cigarettes away. I said, don't you have smoke in your house?Don't get back to me!

Maybe angry pro.

Who is angry, he is angry, I am still angry, in fact, the first time I go to someone's house to eat and give some small gifts.

I bought something, and I didn't eat empty-handed, and when I left, I told him that I bought something in your car, and I went to buy something.

You can talk to each other.

Summary. What is released is a positive signal, and not answering is the best option. If you are a person who thinks a lot, if you don't think a lot, you are simply polite.

What does it mean to buy cigarettes for the leader for dinner + a leader gave me cigarettes.

If you want to have a good reputation, it doesn't mean that you really want to give it to you. Are you of the opposite sex or the same sex?

Same-sex or opposite-sex means different.

My daughter's heterosexual leader.

Then there are a lot of meanings, one is polite, and a trillion returns to the seed to leave an impact on you. I don't mean anything to chase you. The fact that the total false accusation is a positive sign.

If you want to chase me this exclusion, because it is the leader of my superior, I refused when I gave it to me, and I refused two or three times, and I said that I would listen to him, and I took it.

What is released is a positive signal, and not answering is the best option. If you are a person who thinks a lot, if you don't think a lot, you are simply polite.

The latter accounts for a larger proportion. There is a lot more to men's thinking. It depends on what kind of person he is.

Because I bought a cigarette once for dinner, and the second time I was asked to hold it, and said to listen to him, because I was the leader, I couldn't refuse, what does that mean?

What kind of man is he?

The first time I took it, this time I said that I was only paid this little bit of salary, so I don't need to be polite.

You can choose something to give him as a souvenir or something.

So what do I mean by the leader giving back cigarettes?

The other leaders took it the second time.

Many of them may not have any day, and most likely they are not interesting to be polite to you. Small things, don't think too much.

If two leaders are present at the same time, he is only doing it for the other to see. It doesn't make sense for you to keep it.

Summary. If a male colleague can't get out of the house, it's normal to ask a female colleague to help buy a box of cigarettes.

If a female colleague is fine, it is not normal to buy cigarettes for a male colleague.

Is it normal for a female colleague to help piggyback on a box of cigarettes for a male colleague and give money for cigarettes.

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This is a normal phenomenon, the plot of normal interaction between colleagues [comparing hearts] If a male colleague can't get out of something, it is normal to ask a female colleague to help buy a box of cigarettes. If a female colleague is fine, it is not normal to buy cigarettes for a male colleague.

Is it normal. Piggybacking on cigarettes like this, can it prove that they have a good relationship, or is it general, can you only piggyback on cigarettes if you have a good relationship, or can you have a general relationship?

Only when you have a good relationship will people help.