My boyfriend always looks like a child in front of me, is he pretending to be na ve ?

No, he is not pretending to be naïve, but he is indeed very naïve, because the person who pretends will one day reveal his true nature, but he is always like this, which means that he is a naïve person in the first place.

I don't think he's pretending to be naïve, a guy will be like a child in front of the girl he likes, which means that he likes you.

I don't think so, it's very likely that he is this kind of character, because if it is pretended, it can't be like this forever.

I'm glad to answer this question for you, and I see your description of this problem, and my personal opinion and advice to you is this: First of all, you describe that your boyfriend is very naïve in front of you, and you don't know why you see your description of this problem, so first of all, your boyfriend treats you as the closest person, and treats you as the most familiar person, so she will show her innocent and cute side in front of you, but in front of others, she is disguised in front of you, and he dares to express his emotions truthfully I don't think you need to worry too much about that, as long as your boyfriend is good to you, cares about you, likes you, cherishes you, and pampers you, that's fine.

If he is a naïve person in the eyes of others, but he loves you with all his heart and tries to take care of you.

Even if such a man is naïve, it will not affect the emotional expression of the two, and the two will grow up slowly and have a bright future.

But there is such a type of man who thinks he is naïve, so he can make the other party keep tolerating him.

He treats his girlfriend as a mother and makes his girlfriend keep paying, this kind of love is immature and selfish.

Some girls have a hard time entrusting themselves to naïve men.

These worries are not justified, after all, marriage is a lifelong thing.

If your boyfriend is naïve and gives you the following four feelings, it means that not only is he naïve, but he doesn't love you much.

Girl, if you meet such a boy, break up; Don't let yourself sink deeper and deeper into the whirlpool of emotions and eventually never turn back.

Explain that the person you choose is too naïve.

If he only shows childishness in front of you, then please love him well.

Because that boy really likes you, naivety is that he lets go of his restraints and defenses in front of you and shows his true self, and his heart may really be just a child. So, when you meet a boy who is childish and petty in front of you, maybe it's your choice.

First of all, the boyfriend treats the outside world very coldly, mostly because he is afraid of being hurt, out of protection of himself, whether he treats other girls or boys, he will not easily show his desires. Many boys are taught from an early age that "men don't flick when they have tears", and men should be born as guardians of the weak, and it is precisely because of this that boys often wear an invisible armor to hide their inner desires.

Secondly, boys are also human beings, and they also have their own little emotions and little wishes. The more we grow up, the more reluctant we are to vent this emotion in front of our parents, because our parents are getting older, and they don't want to add to the burden of our elderly parents. In front of his brothers, he prefers to talk about his ambitions rather than play a child's temper, and he will not show his vulnerability to the opposite sex, after all, boys must establish a manly image in front of any girl.

So in front of whom can he become childish and petty? Only the girlfriend who loves him and his beloved, seeing his childish appearance, you don't make noise or laugh at him, you won't look down on him, but you will think he's cute and cute like a child, he lets him release himself without scruples in front of him, that's because he trusts you enough and likes you enough, so he can take off his armor and leave everything to you so defenselessly.

There is such a saying: When he likes you, you think that a man is very naïve, but when he makes a fuss, he doesn't like you, and he can be more mature than his father. The meaning is that when a man is attracted to you, the man will behave very naïve, and even you can't stand that childish behavior and think he is stupid.

But that's the magic of love, which is capable of making sane people crazy and mature people naïve, like polar poles, and love is the catalyst for these transformations.

The man who really loves you will have these naïve performances, you don't think that this is because he is not mature enough, this is a manifestation of his deep affection for you, I hope you can understand a sincere heart under his childish performance.

It is not easy for a heart that loves you, and a person who behaves naïve to you actually loves you deeply in his heart and hopes that you can grasp him.

When a man is attracted to you, it will be like an overturned vinegar jar. He will be extremely wary of all the guys who appear around you, even if you think that you are just in a normal relationship with that man, but he will still be suspicious, and no matter how you explain it, he will not listen.

It's like when I was a child, I found that my best friend was playing well with other people, and I felt very depressed.

If a man is in such a situation, he will have such a state of mind. Sometimes, he himself knows that you have nothing to do with that man, but as long as he sees you chatting, he feels uncomfortable.

He won't tolerate anyone watching you, even if it's just a thought that remains in his heart, after all, only a man knows men best, and he can guess the thoughts of any man who comes close to you.

When a man has his heart set on you, he will show off his abilities like a child. If a man likes you, he will want to make a good impression on your heart, he will show off his abilities and knowledge in front of you like a child, and he can judge him about anything.

Second, show your knowledge, but in fact this looks like a child's performance to you.

This kind of behavior is as childish and ridiculous as a child saying what I have in my house, what toys I have in my house.

Far from making you think he is very knowledgeable, it makes him more and more funny.

But if you think he's naïve and ridiculous because of this, you're underestimating men, who only show their knowledge in front of the people they like, and they don't pay a word to others when they say a word.

When a man is attracted to you, he will be coquettish and pretend to be pitiful like a child.

Don't think that coquettishness is exclusive to women, in a man who loves you, they also have coquettish behavior towards you, and they will also have coquettish emotions when expressing their emotions.

It is said that when a man falls in love with a woman, he becomes a child, and his childish side will only show up in you.

Personal experience tells me that it is because he loves you very much, in front of you, you are her dependence, and you are pampered like a mother, so he likes to be coquettish in front of you, and sometimes deliberately "cheap", just like a child who is coquettish in front of his mother, makes you happy, and makes you like him more, when you are happy, he is happier, so spoil him, love him, he will listen to you more and love you more! He is more relaxed in front of you, there is nothing to hide, and he can release all the pressure in work, life, outsiders, etc. Pamper each other!

I wish you all happiness!

Because you like it, you will have no scruples and show your true face.

This is what your boyfriend means to be coquettish to you, and you must take good care of your boyfriend to be right, which can make the love between the two of you sweeter.

I've done things with him before that feel childish.

When I was just in love, I happened to meet the winter vacation, and I tried for the first time what it tasted like to miss a person, it was really tasteless, and I couldn't get interested in anything, and I was looking forward to the days going soon, and I could see him when I went back to school.

That's to surprise him, I went to the Internet to find ** to learn how to origami crane ceremony, and with great interest I bought some colored paper and came back to cut it myself, and then wrote a love sentence on each piece of paper, and then folded them carefully one by one. You know, I hated manual work the most since I was a child, and now, Nashin is actually doing my things for him to calm down.

I remember that I was tinkering with it for several days, destroying a lot of colored paper before I folded 30 paper cranes that I was more satisfied with.

There was also a period of time when the two couldn't wait to stick together every day. I was reluctant to part after the end of self-study every night, and I squatted in the dark corner of the campus after dismantling the calendar....

It was summer, and there were a lot of mosquitoes, and we were even more treated to mosquitoes as a big meal when we hid in the dark. Originally, I was a very mosquito physique, and now I can't eliminate the royal wheel, mosquito bites one after another, but when the love is strong, I can't help it, I don't care about anything, I can endure the siege of those mosquitoes on me, I just stayed in the corner for more than an hour, until the dormitory is about to be locked, and then reluctant to separate.

Once when I returned to the dormitory, I came back carefully and counted the mosquito bags on my body, and there were 20 of them, which really scared me.

Later, when I went to this dark corner, I asked my boyfriend to bring a circle of mosquito coils, otherwise I really couldn't bear the enthusiasm of mosquitoes!