What do you think about the sky high bride price for marriage?

We were engaged for 13 years, and the man took the initiative to give a bride price of 80,000 yuan. Later, the money was used for us to live. I am a rural woman in Henan, and I am a man from an ordinary working family in Tianjin.

The sky-high bride price is unacceptable, but at the same time, the bride price, which has existed since ancient times, is also indispensable. On the one hand, he expressed the sincerity of the man, and on the other hand, he also thanked his parents for their nurturing grace, and said that the bride price would eventually be spent on the two young people. Personally, I think it is beyond the man's family's ability to pay, and it is unreasonable to borrow money in order to make up the bride price.

The quality of life of the elders cannot be sacrificed for the sake of a momentary comparison.

The bride price should be the icing on the cake, not as a charcoal in the snow, hoping to change the so-called economic conditions, as economic compensation, or a kind of economic security is not feasible, and the marriage must not be "priced". My wife and I have never had an argument over money since we got married, which is a decision of our character, and it is also possible that we did not consider the bride price as an important consideration when we got married.

Most of the bride price is a kind of life security that the woman's parents want to fight for their daughter, and that part of the money is also stored in the woman's account, but it is only from the man's pocket into the woman's pocket, but after starting a family, as long as the woman is willing, the money will still come back. So I think it's pretty normal.

Resolutely oppose the sky-high bride price, but this "sky-high price" needs to have a premise based on the economic conditions of both families, that is, on the basis of what both families can easily bear, it is okay to give some bride price and dowry. It's all voluntary, after all, it can hold up the façade.

To be honest, people who really love their daughters, the bride price will not be sky-high, unless they are strongly opposed to marrying their daughters, they will pose to make it difficult for the other party, in the final analysis, it is still a kind of unease, the man wants to let the other party's parents rest assured that the daughter will be handed over to you, and the bride price is secondary.

I think it's quite deformed. I have a daughter, so I have a room for her, and I don't want a bride price. But I don't want a son-in-law from a region with a sky-high bride price, because I think that a man from that kind of place is likely to disrespect women.

The sky-high bride price will only make women less and less of a family status.

I was forced to go on a blind date twice in Luoyang, and as a result, a meal and three views dumped me a few streets, the woman has no education, no city hukou, 1,500 yuan a month, the woman asked for a bride price of 200,000 yuan and a house and a car, it is really no emotion to take the bride price to make up, the more superior the family, the more I don't care, my parents said that as long as you are good to you, you are also a good young man who meets what kind of wonderful marriage love rather than bride price. The money is gone, the house is small, the house is small, and the big one is bought together, and the bride price seems to be a guarantee in an emotionless marriage, and it is better to change a good piano with this bride price.

In a word, low-class people make money to marry women, and high-class families pay money to marry women. Therefore, if you find the right person, there will be no problem of turning your face for the bride price. There is a consensus.

I really haven't heard of a daughter who took the bride price and didn't return the dowry. The money that the girls brought back to their families was almost twice the bride price.

For me, it doesn't matter if the bride price is not a bride price, but my mother raised me so much and suffered so much, I must repay her in order to marry with peace of mind. Don't say anything about the opportunity to be filial to my parents in the future, when I was a child, I still wanted to grow up and let my grandparents enjoy happiness, but they both passed away for more than ten years.

The sky-high bride price, as long as the food is not ugly, one is willing to fight and the other is willing to suffer, then there is nothing to say. As for those bride prices that do not take into account the feelings between young couples and the economic conditions of both families, they can only be said to be made.

insisting on a sky-high bride price can only mean that she doesn't want to marry, and another woman may be greedy for money.

I wish you all have daughters, don't support others, and your parents don't care about you.

It is always believed that the pressure of installment payment is small, and the pressure of one-time buyout is high