Where do you live, how much is the bride price when you get married?

There are so many rules, Shanghai, no bride price.

Located in the central part of Shandong, our local bride price depends on the situation, the man's family conditions are good, generally 10,000 on the line, the man's family conditions are not good, or two brothers, generally 4-50,000, it is too bad, up to 80,000, but the woman will generally accompany a car, the man has also paid the down payment for the house at the very least, and the man directly gives 100,000 bride price, in this case, the woman will return the gift or 10,000, that is, to earn a good look.

It's hard to get married and have no money, looking at the man's economic income, the main thing is whether he is motivated to make money, and when he gets married, he has no money to raise a doll.

I got married in 2015 and gave a bride price of 60,000 yuan and 20,000 gold and silver jewelry. Many people may think that it is not much, but in fact, it is almost all my own money, which I have accumulated little by little after graduating from college, and it is my hard work for 2 years. In order to make money, I came and went in the wind and rain, and worked late.

I think I gave a lot of bride price. One of my two elementary school classmates gave a 5,000 bride price, and the other didn't pay a penny! Because they had already gotten on the bus first, the marriage was just a make-up formality.

Today's society is extremely realistic, there are few girls, the bride price is high, and we post-90s men are facing a lot of pressure, which is our fate. Let's work hard to make money! Money can't solve everything, it's up to you to get her.

When I got married, my husband's family was not very rich, and it was sincere to me, and the bride price was 28,888 for my mother. My mother received it, and asked my husband to send it back with a gift of 888, and my mother received the bride price, and did not hide the bride price herself, but gave it to me, saying let me save it well, my mother has money now, and after you get married, all aspects of life will cost money. Got married, grew up.

You have to be a good person, and you can't be as willful as a woman.

I told you that the bride price must be wanted, at that time we had only known each other for two months and got engaged and my dad asked for 60,000 yuan, but I ** knew that my partner didn't have so much money? So I didn't want him to be embarrassed and asked for 10,000 plus three gold, and then got married and asked for 12,000 car gifts, which was 11 years of marriage, and then I learned that it was really uncomfortable to live without a bride price. ‍‍

I am from Nantong, Jiangsu, my husband is from Tianshui, Gansu, and my husband's father died of cancer! Here comes eighty-eight thousand, three gold! My family has a marriage of 100,000 yuan, a house!

My husband borrowed the gift money, I know! Pay back the money after marriage! Now everything is fine, two children, there is nothing missing, just lack of a house in the city for children to go to school!

A lot of people call me stupid, but if you meet someone who thinks about you in everything and is very nice to you, don't you want to gamble once? Because of love

I am in Shenyang, Northeast China, and when I got married, I gave a bride price of 100,000 yuan, but these 100,000 miles include three gold for household appliances, because it is more convenient, the money is given to you, you can buy what you want, and you have the final say whether you buy it or not. In the end, there was more than 50,000 bride price left. Our side is actually more extreme, and some people don't want to pay a penny and have to stick a car upside down.

Some families have hundreds of thousands. I think it's better to understand each other and do what we can. ‍‍

I am from Wenling, Taizhou, my wife and I got married in 2016, the two families belong to an ordinary family with an annual income of more than 100,000 yuan, and I took 880,000 yuan and a little gold jewelry and a pair of diamond rings of less than 20,000 yuan to go, (in fact, there is not so much cash at home, half of it is borrowed by relatives, saying that it is not good to take it for less than 500,000). The woman received 30,000 in jewelry and cash. When I got married, my wife came back with 130,000 8 cash and all the jewelry. ‍‍

Some time ago, I had a nephew who got married, and the woman's family asked for a bride price of 80,000 yuan. But when it came time to get married, the woman returned the gift of 150,000 yuan in cash. We didn't think of this at the time, so it was up to the family to see if they were thinking about their children. ‍‍

The first time I heard the saying of bride price, it was when a Zhejiang boss in cooperation with our company married his daughter, and the man gave 8.88 million bride price, which was more than ten years ago, which scared me. Later, I learned that the woman's parents not only returned all the bride price to the young couple, but also married the villa, the shop and the Rolls-Royce. Sure enough, poverty limits my imagination.

At that time, I went to eat a wedding wine, and for the first time, I saw hundreds of tables having a banquet at the same time.

When I got married, 30,000 bride price includes three gold, 10,000 change of mouth fee, the man has a separate house, wedding photo money, the banquet man gives the woman four tables of money, sugar, tobacco and alcohol are all men, but the house is not, live with the mother-in-law, the woman produces electrical appliances, I don't know other places, my friend got married because the man has a house renovated, the mother-in-law gave 20,000, bought three gold, the in-law's banquet is all inclusive depends on the conditions of the man's family, my uncle's brother gives 100,000 dowry, and the house is newly bought and decorated, all are different. ‍‍

When I got married, the bride price from the man to the woman was probably between 100,000 and 80,000 yuan. Those who have no money can give less, and those who have money can also give more. More is not too much, less is not too little.

The key is that the two people who live their lives really want to be together, to be able to face poverty or a rich life together, and those who are invited to these banquets to eat generally also need to give a bride price, and the current starting price is about 388, then 688, 888....are very good intentions, and I wish the newlyweds a happy life all the way after getting married. The key still depends on the economic ability of both parties and the family environment, the rich man's family may have a bride price of millions or tens of millions, send a luxury house, send a luxury car, send gold jewelry, etc., but the poor jingle rings, it may be a very simple set up a few tables, and then invite family and friends to have a meal, even if the wedding is completed.

1. The bride price in our hometown is generally about 80,000 yuan.

Let's talk about the bride price in our hometown first, because our hometown is in a small city that can't get on the line, so the bride price is also very low. If the man and the woman have already established a relationship, they need to get engaged first, and the man needs to bring gifts, food and drinks and a deposit when he is engaged. Generally, the deposit will be between 230,000 yuan, and the most I have seen is 28,888 yuan, which is a good sign.

Then on the eve of the wedding, I will go to the woman's house again to give the bride price, but the bride price also includes the previous fixed money, so the sum of the two money is about 80,000 yuan.

Second, in fact, I think that whether it is a boy or a girl or the parents of both parties, there is no need to be too entangled in the bride price. Some boys think that if you get married, you shouldn't give a bride price, what is the difference between this and selling your daughter, but I think this kind of thinking is also wrong, because your wife was also raised by other people's parents, do you know how much it costs to raise a child? Moreover, the bride price is an old custom of how many years, and it can't be said that it can be changed!

Then the woman should not ask the man to give too much bride price money, they are all young people, ** there is so much money, can the amount of bride price money represent how deep the love for you is? The second is the parents of both parties, the man's parents must understand the righteousness when giving the bride price, do not pick and search, and the woman's parents should also stop in moderation, do not ask too much, and put too much pressure on the man.

The bride price here is about 150,000 yuan, and the situation of each family is different. Let's talk about the situation.

Yuan: One in a million.

The meaning of 10,001 yuan is derived from transliteration, and the homonym of the amount is 10,000 and one, so people say that it is one in a million, and the hidden meaning is that the current bride is selected from 10,000 women, and the bride is praised for being very good.

10,000 yuan: smooth and profitable.

Six in our country's I Ching has a bad saying, and people in order to express their expectations came up with the idiom of six six Shun, so over time, the number "6" represents smooth, giving the woman's family 60,000 yuan dowry is to hope that the woman and the new person will go well.

10,000 yuan: financial resources are rolling.

The number "8" is homophonic with the Chinese character "hair", so 8 also has the meaning of making a fortune, and the bride price of 80,000 yuan to the woman's family is to hope that the woman's family can be wealthy, live a rich life, and not be troubled by money, and this blessing is also given to the newlyweds.

10,000 yuan: perfect.

The meaning of the 100,000 yuan bride price is to hope that the other party is perfect, as we all know that there is no perfect thing in this world, so people will express this beautiful expectation with blessings, and also hope that the three families can be harmonious and beautiful.

10,000 yuan: thousands of purples.

The bride price of 150,000 yuan is the custom of some regions, its meaning is not derived from homophony but quantity, 150,000 yuan is composed of 10,000 pieces of five yuan, 1,000 pieces of 100 yuan, together is thousands of purple and thousands of red, and some places will add some one yuan, combined into thousands of purples and thousands of red and a piece of green.

In addition to the direct money, there are other parts of the bride price.

1. Marriage room. There are two options for a wedding house, one is to buy a house outside, or you can choose to build your own new house in a rural home, but now most young people are working hard in the city, and if the economic conditions allow, most of them will still prefer to buy a house in the city.

2. Wedding car. The wedding car is an increasingly popular necessity for marriage leave, but most of the time this belongs to the category of dowry, if the general economic conditions allow, the man buys the house, and the woman accompanies the dowry car.

3. Work. Specific work is also a necessary consideration when getting married, not that it must be a good job, at least you should work hard and have a stable income.

4. Three golds. The three gold is also a part of the bride price, which refers to the three gold jewelry such as gold rings, gold bracelets, and gold earrings, and there are also regions that give hardware, including gold rings, gold earrings, gold bracelets, gold necklaces, and gold pendants.

The auspicious number of the wedding bride price is basically the above, and the amount of the bride price should be decided according to the economic situation of the individual family.

The bride price here is basically one or two thousand, of course, if the family conditions are good, you can also give more, as you like, and you will not ask for much.

The bride price on our side is generally 100,000 three gold, of course, there are more to give.