Is it appropriate for a single parent family to sleep with a 12 year old boy and mom every day?

Since the child was born into this world, parents have become the most intimate people by their side, although the child is ignorant, but we as parents should understand one thing, that is, "avoid suspicion", father and daughter to learn to avoid suspicion, mother and son also need to learn to avoid suspicion. This is not only to guide children to learn to manage their privacy, but more importantly, to establish a correct gender awareness of children, otherwise, they may become the target of everyone's condemnation like the little boy mentioned below.

Some time ago, there was an incident in my daughter's school, when a girl was in the toilet, she found that a boy peeked at the door of the toilet, which caused a group of female students to dare not go to the toilet again, and this incident quickly alarmed the school teacher, and quickly found the male classmate who peeked at the door of the girls' toilet.

The male classmate was not tall and did not like to talk, and the teacher asked him why he ran to the door of the girls' toilet to peek? The male classmate said disapprovingly, the classmate just made a bet with me, they said I didn't dare to go, so I went to show them. Since the teacher could not accept the absurd reason of the male classmate, he contacted the parents of the male classmate to come to the school.

The boy's mother came to school in a hurry, and even didn't have time to change her work clothes, and the boy's mother hurriedly compensated the teacher after coming to school, and asked her son what was wrong, so the teacher told the boy's mother the ins and outs of the matter. After the boy's mother learned of her son's mistake, she also regretted it, and quickly explained to the teacher: The child has done such a thing, causing you trouble, the main responsibility lies with me, because when the boy was very young, I and his father have divorced, so over the years, the boy has been living with me, in order to save money, we only rented a room, so we did not guide the child's gender consciousness.

The boy's mother told the teacher a lot, and the teacher also realized that the boy had been at home all these years, and his mother was at home all these years, and it was even more common to change clothes in person.

I think that regardless of whether it is a single-parent family or not, twelve-year-old boys should not sleep with their mothers every day, which is not only not conducive to the physical and mental development of children, but also may cause children to have a mother-love complex.

The 12-year-old boy is already very old, and he should be allowed to sleep independently, so that he can develop his ability to live independently and take care of himself, which is always not conducive to growing up by his mother's side.

It doesn't fit. At the age of 3, children begin to be gender-conscious, and by the age of 6 at the latest, both boys and girls can no longer sleep in the same bed with their parents. Children avoid their mothers, and daughters avoid their fathers.

A 12-year-old boy is about to enter puberty, and the secondary sexual characteristics of the body will gradually develop. In the long run, it is not good for the child's physical and mental development.

The boys are 12 years old and still sleep with their mothers, I think it is inappropriate, as a mother of children, it is important to cultivate children's independence and let children learn to be alone.

If it's not suitable, it's better to quickly divide the bed for him to sleep on.

There are 12-year-olds, but let's sleep this morning.

It is best for 12-year-old boys not to sleep with their mothers, otherwise it may affect independence, affect mental health, etc., it is recommended that parents should do a good job of guiding, and encourage and praise children to sleep alone, and give children more mental help, it can be completely done.

1. Affect independence: 12-year-old children sleep with their mothers for a long time, and the biggest harm is that they will not be able to be independent, because children who sleep with their mothers in a leak, whether they are folding quilts or making beds, are basically completed by their mothers, and they do not know how to cover their own quilts at night, so in the long run, it will lead to children becoming more and more dependent on their parents, and they will have no backbone when doing other things, and they will not have their own independent thoughts.

2. Affect mental health: 12 years old has a strong understanding of things, especially boys, who still sleep with their mothers at the age of 12, and are prone to gender cognitive bias.

A 12-year-old boy sleeps with his parents, I think it's a little inappropriate, after all, 12 years old is so old, a little sensible, and he's not short, so I suggest sleeping in separate beds, after all, parents and children still have a little privacy when they sleep at night.

Both are 12 years old, and they should still sleep separately. At this time, there is a meaning of sexual enlightenment. Children should also have their own space.

The boy is 12 years old, and it is not good to sleep with his parents. First of all, a 12-year-old boy should have his own room and his own privacy.

The boy is 12 years old and does not sleep well with his parents. As the saying goes, the words of Heng Zhan rent are changed to stupid, and men avoid their mothers, and women avoid their fathers. The 12-year-old boy is already sensible and should sleep in separate beds. This is good for the child's development.

Hello! Maybe there is no extra room at home, yesterday I saw a column group also said that the spike, the son slept with his parents until how old, and then the son slept on the sofa, and the home was a little bigger. If you have a room, you need to separate the rooms, and you have your own room to sell.

Pay attention to your child's mental health.