After knowing the situation of netizens, I felt a little disappointed, did I like him

Expectations of him are too high. Thought of him too well. Suck it up. Or see the interview and feel like it.

It shouldn't be, it's online dating after all!

You probably don't have a taste in your heart.

It's because you had some illusions about him.

Imagine he's tall.

But he let you down

So you shouldn't like him

No. A very natural phenomenon. As the saying goes, the higher the expectations, the greater the disappointment. Because you think he's so good when you're talking to him. I'll be disappointed when I know. You have a crush on him. I don't like it.

Don't care.

This liking is fundamentally two different things, I think love should be at least on the basis of attracting each other, you hate a person, maybe you think of him often, and you don't think you like him.

Since there is disappointment, it is a feeling

But online dating would be impractical

Either disappointed after meeting, or waiting to be hurt.

I do not deny those successful examples, but very few very 1% will not arrive)

Online dating is not good, don't be deceived.

It's not a normal feeling!!

Hehe I'm over 1.7 meters, it's okay.

Not really. In fact, this is just an ordinary psychological phenomenon, I have also had such an experience, in fact, it is nothing, I just feel that I am too pure.

1 Appearance: The difference between real people and ** Tall, short, fat and thin sometimes ** performance is not accurate, coupled with the imagination that I always want to be on the good side, in reality, it is easy to disappoint Ming 2 Communication: On the Internet, it may be more careless, and introverts may also behave extroverted, but in real life, this transformation is still a little difficult Hail search In short, expectations are too high, hopes are too great, and a certain degree of beautification are the reasons for the death of seeing the light.

In my experience, there were two factors that led me to cut out the people I liked, and that was the communication problem and the different directions of growth.

The first factor is the problem of communication. When two people are together, communication is the cornerstone of a stable and healthy relationship. If both parties are unable to communicate their questions and feelings openly, the relationship will start to have problems.

In my case, I've found that people I like are always reluctant to communicate with me, especially when I'm trying to talk about something deep. He often avoided talking about it or just gave me something simple. This caused me to feel neglected and helpless, while also hindering further communication and development between us.

Eventually, I decided that there was no future for this relationship that lacked communication skills, so I decided to cut him out.

The second factor is a different direction of growth. When two people are together, they are separate individuals, and during dating, they communicate and share in all aspects of their lives. However, sometimes we find that we may grow in different directions, and we think and plan differently, which makes it difficult for us to be together.

In my case, there are significant differences between me and the person I like in terms of career planning, lifestyle, and long-term goals. His plan seems to be more focused on pleasure and the pleasures of the moment, while mine is more focused on self-growth and future planning. Even though he is a very interesting and charming person, I think that if we continue to be with him, we may have differences in the future, which eventually led me to delete him.

In conclusion, even if the person you like is attractive, the key is to recognize if the communication and growth direction between you are compatible. If there is a problem with these two aspects, then it will be difficult to maintain such a relationship. In my case, I chose to cut out the person I liked, and although it was a painful thing, I thought it was to find a better relationship and future for both of us.

It's just that I still like it, and I have been entangled many times and finally let go.

Walking around the school, the bits and pieces of the two of them together are vivid, his smile, the wave he gave me before, the fact that he ran out of the gym to pick me up, the bench he sat with me, his graduation ceremony, and even the small imperfections on his face when we met for the first time seemed to be frozen in that time, space, place.

He may never come back. My heart is dead. At first, you will indeed be unwilling, you will fantasize, and you will deceive yourself. But ah, to miss is to miss, to disappoint me is to disappoint me, I deserve better.

Since it has reached the point where I am disappointed, instead of emotions such as anger, grievance, and even hatred, it means that this person is completely out of my consideration. So why should I wronged myself and go down with someone who doesn't meet my own standards?

It's hard to have expectations of someone but that person to disappoint you so often, and if you're completely disappointed, there will be no more expectations. At that moment, I lost all interest in him, even if I met, I treated ordinary colleagues like ordinary colleagues, smiling professionally, talking about professional topics, saying goodbye professionally, and I didn't have a trace of turmoil in my heart, just like the work I faced every day.

Disappointment is because you find that no matter what you do, you can't seem to change this person, you can't tolerate his bad side at all, you are powerless and miserable in front of him, you instinctively want to escape, but you still remember him in your heart. No matter how much he tries to win me back, no matter how much I like him, it won't be the same as before.

When you are tired, you want to leave, you want to be a better person, you want to be better, and you will end up feeling relaxed. This is the process of slowly turning into disappointment in the person you like.

If I could, I don't think anyone would want to give up a relationship that was once unforgettable, but the disappointment again and again finally slowly wore out the last bit of patience of the lover, leading to the ending of the last two people forgetting each other.

It is a particularly painful feeling to be disappointed in the person you like, because you like him, so you have high expectations for him, and he has disappointed those expectations again and again.

I will never expect anything from him again, I will not fantasize about his future, and I will even begin to wonder if I was blind at the beginning. At that time you will be happy and not sad.

Disappointment in ordinary people may just be disappointment, disappointment in the person you like will be a desperate and bad psychological state, you will feel that the current life is extremely bad, and even have no hope for the future.

It's a very lost feeling, I was full of hope for him and liked him very much, but he did something that disappointed you, and the gap in this relationship is very big.

The feeling of a torn heart, the feeling of going from heaven to hell, the feeling of a clouded brain, even the person you like can't give you hope, what else is worth remembering, the deep responsibility of love.

It's that you always thought that the moon must be white, white, and immaculate, and suddenly one day you find that it is stained with gray and is no longer the bright moon in your mind. You're angry. It's sad, but you can't change it.

The whole person is not good, I feel that the world is unusually dark, I will not have hope for him, I will leave him, I believe that I will meet better people.

I guess I'm very disappointed. Maybe you really want to try to leave him, because the person who always disappoints you will not love you.

He made a mistake for the first time and forgave him himself, but he was unrepentant and made the same mistake repeatedly, and he could no longer forgive him and was disappointed in him.

It depends on how disappointed you are, if it was me and he made me desperate, I would let him leave me completely. Even if my heart hurts, I won't keep it.

1. He still likes me

I like to eat eggplant, I bought a pack of eggplant seeds, watered and fertilized every day to catch insects, and I also gave them a shade when it was windy and rainy, but the fruit seemed to be a little small, so I worked harder, checked the strategy and asked people, and threw myself on this eggplant field, the wind was full of soil, and the rain was muddy, but other eggplants have grown very big and turned purple, why are my eggplants still green.

It's still thin and green, and I'm going to cry out when I'm sad, but I can't pay for so long in vain, grit my teeth and persevere, summer is about to pass, and I finally have to admit that what I grew is not an eggplant at all, this is a pepper.

It's a beautiful chili, and it's obviously a hard work as a chili, but it's not the eggplant I want after all, so I'll give it to someone who likes chili. I'm sorry, I have a bad stomach and can't eat spicy.

Second, he doesn't like me either

When my love was first opened, God said that everyone at this age will get a seed, and this seed is called love, and I have received it.

Happy. When I got home, I looked for a beautiful pot for a long time, but I felt that the most beautiful flower pot in the world was not worthy of my seed of love, and finally found the pot, and I had to decorate it carefully, paste a small flower, and pick a sunny and warm day, I planted this seed.

According to the experience of my predecessors, this kind of seed is extremely difficult to live, but I have confidence, it is afraid of cold, I will cover it, it is too hot, I will fan the wind, when it is thirsty, I will water it, it is stuffy, I will take it out to bask in the sun and blow the wind.

Year after year, other people's love blossoms, and the delicate fascination dazzles my eyes.

But my love sprouted and took root, but there was no flower, the autumn wind came, the leaves fell, only the bare branches remained, I wanted to keep, but I found that the branches also slowly dried up, and there was no possibility of germination.

I asked: When will I be able to raise a pot of blooming love.

God said, "Tell me when you have the confidence to plant another pot."

I said sullenly, "Okay, I'll be able to take my time for a while."

To be completely disappointed is to finally wake up and feel that your efforts have been in vain. That kind of deep helplessness is unforgettable, and it is difficult for people to let go for a long time.

I used to like someone, and my youthful and sensitive times were all about his memories. I like him, humble and low-key like. I don't have a habit of making high-profile gestures, even though my personality is very lively, but my attitude towards him is always to look forward to a feeling of shame.

It's like this in the time of youth, and the sensitive heart will always be hurt in the inadvertent details.

It was the beginning of a new semester, and my grades plummeted. In the new semester, I was admonished by my teacher. I knew the seriousness of the matter, but I was still thinking about how to deal with the person I was expecting.

It was in that new semester that a new girl came to the class; She is a lively, sunny girl.

At the beginning of the new semester, everyone has a strong curiosity about this girl, and of course, the one I am looking forward to is no exception. I watched their relationship grow closer and closer, watched them talk more and more about topics, watched them get closer and closer... I finally understood that what I was looking for was finally far away from me.

I didn't fight for it either, because I had my own self-esteem. When I stopped being sad and began to reflect on how I got out of the gloom, I understood that I was completely disappointed, completely consumed this little bit of expectation, and completely saw through my goals.

There are so many youthful sadness, and some are just growth trajectories that I haven't experienced. People will eventually grow, and they will eventually experience what they have and what they have lost. All we can wait for is a process of slow growth.

Thank you to the person who appeared in my youth, he was a trace of sweetness in my youth.

Very helpless, very powerless. And it's deeper and more intense than the feeling that comes from the bottom of my heart. I don't want to refute anything at all about some of the questions he said.

I felt cold in my heart, and sighed that the weather was so good, what a good sun, and why was it still so cold. That's how I feel sometimes. I'm not completely disappointed in him, though, just in some things.

But that feeling can't be faked. It's really uncomfortable.

Sometimes there is a feeling of hating iron but not steel. Between us, I have walked up to you and stretched out my hand to you, but you don't even make the simple gesture of reaching out. That's really sad.

Even if you say you're lazy, you just need to stretch out a hand, and you don't do anything simple, which is really powerless. But I am reluctant to beat or scold or something, which is very sad. If I am disappointed in the person I like, during that time, I will not want to do anything, I will not want to say anything, but reality does not allow it.

That's a lot of tastes.

Youth has been fed to the dogs, and I never want to see it again, and I don't want anyone to mention it again.

You don't have to have someone to love, but you have to love someone well!

When you have experienced loving and being loved, and learned to love, you will know what you need, and you will find the most suitable person for you and be able to get along for a lifetime.

But sadly, in real life, people who truly love each other for various reasons may not be able to be together;

The one you love the most often doesn't choose you;

What loves you the most is often not what you love the most;

And the longest-lasting, it's not what you love the most, and it's not the one you love the most.

Only the person who appears at the most suitable time will really be with you forever!

No one deliberately wants to change his mind, he really loves you when he loves you, but he really doesn't love you when he doesn't love you, and there is no way to pretend not to love you when he loves you;

In the same way, there is no way for him to pretend to love you when he doesn't love you.

When a person doesn't love you and wants to leave you, you have to ask yourself if you still love him (her), if you don't love him (her) anymore, don't refuse to leave for the sake of poor self-esteem;

If you still love him (her), you should want him (her) to live happily, hope that he (she) is with the person you really love, and will never stop him/her, if you prevent him (her) from getting real happiness, it means that you don't love him (her) anymore