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Stars are not for liking. Because he can't be yours. He belongs to everyone.
If you like this kind of people, then you are naïve. Usually you like him because of his appearance, or his acting skills. Actually, you don't really know him.
The star has an erection, and his halo is the same as ours, and he is also an ordinary person. There is no shortage of good people around us. If you're wise, you should like the best people around you.
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To what extent do you like it, it's normal to chase stars, but if chasing stars affects your life, it's a bad thing, divert your attention from other things.
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Divert your attention and find someone you like. Celebrities are not for liking, they are for the masses, what you see is only the image on the screen, the reality is not what you think, he is also a human being, and there are many shortcomings.
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Don't paste the posters of celebrities in the room, many friends who chase stars like to paste the portraits and posters of celebrities in their rooms, and the more they look at it, the more fascinated they become, and they can't extricate themselves. Don't discuss celebrities with the people around you, people who like to chase stars will talk about celebrities all day long, in fact, this is really not good, everyone has their own life, stars also have the life of stars, we should care about our own lives.
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Make more friends who love to learn, generally people with good academic performance will not chase stars much, nor will they like any star, some historical figures they like, some great people.
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Try to watch as little entertainment as possible, people who chase stars like to watch entertainment programs, especially their favorite stars, and they forget about themselves when they see it, and they leave everything behind. Don't go to the concert, people who like celebrities, generally have a favorite star concert will go to it, in fact, the concert tickets are expensive, and you can't see it clearly, so why bother to watch it.
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Hello, then I like it silently, go out and walk more, see the outside world more, or improve my own ability more, so that I can get closer to the idol.
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If you like celebrities, you can learn the hard work of celebrities, instead of liking the appearance of celebrities, you can use celebrities as your own role models and motivate yourself, and proper and correct star chasing will be beneficial to physical and mental health.
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Divert your attention a lot, now I'm very obsessed with someone, but when you look back in a few years, you don't feel so like, but feel that you were funny at that time.
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There is nothing wrong with liking someone, but for a celebrity's obsession and indulging in a state of inextricability, it is a very sick state. At this time, if you want to reduce and get rid of this situation, you must do the following?
First of all, you have to understand that the star is just the side you see the best in him through TV movies, or the side that he wants to show to others. Think about yourself and show your best in front of your friends and family. No one is perfect, you have to look at your idol star correctly, you have to know that he is the same as ordinary people, he also has his weaknesses, and he will also have vulgar behavior.
It's just that you're still relatively young, and you have an outlook on life.
It is not perfect enough, when you contact more and more people, see more people and more things, you will slowly increase your horizons, broaden your pattern, and no longer be confused by some advantages of a certain person.
In the end, it's okay for you to chase a star, but this star must have the correct value of three views. It has to be able to bring a positive and upbeat side to your life instead of indulging in it, not wanting to make progress, not knowing how to do the right thing.
If it has reached a point where it affects your life, then you have to change it. Read more books. Chat and contact with friends and family, and don't be alone and think wildly.
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Why can't you extricate yourself? Do you think you'll be fine no matter how much you chase it? It's impossible to be your husband, so don't pay for things that don't work out.
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The solution to really fall in love with a star:
1. Watch as little entertainment as possible.
People who chase stars like to watch entertainment programs, especially their favorite stars, and they forget about themselves when they see it, and they forget everything behind.
2. Don't go to the concert.
People who like to be famous as celebrities of Zen Huan generally go to see their favorite star concerts, but in fact, concert tickets are expensive, and they can't see it clearly, so why bother to watch it.
3. Don't discuss celebrities with the people around you.
People who like to chase stars will talk about stars all day long, in fact, this is really not good, everyone has their own life, stars also have the life of stars, we should care about our own lives.
Expressions of loving someone:
1. Eager to see.
If you like someone, you will want to see each other all the time. When you can't see it, you will be worried and lost, as if something is missing. When you see it, you will be very content, and your mood will be better for the day.
2. Pay extra attention.
When you see his name, or hear someone change his name, your heart will tremble, and you can't help but pay attention to him.
3. Rapid heartbeat.
When you talk to someone you like, your heart beats faster and your face turns red. If he said the wrong thing, Qingchen would regret it to death. <>
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Find an alternative thing to do, such as signing up for yoga, piano and other courses, and make more friends in reality, in fact, you will never forget this star, and it will have no impact on this star, so take care of yourself and do more meaningful things! I hope that after a while, you can laugh it off when you mention him again!!
What to do if you fall in love with a star and want to forget him.
Hello, glad of your question, what if you fall in love with a star and want to forget him? You can do this to forget him: find an alternative thing to do, such as signing up for yoga, piano and other classes, make more friends in reality, in fact, you will not forget this star, it will not have any impact on this star, so take care of yourself and do more meaningful things!
I hope that after a while, you can laugh it off when you mention him again!!
When you are young, everyone may have admiration for your idols, but everyone's performance will be different and the degree will be different, and in fact, the stars we see are just a halo side, so what we like is actually just an imaginary beautiful character; Psychological guidance: In fact, you also know that it is more likely to be forgotten over time, and you are also very rational to know the unreality in this, you might as well turn this relationship into motivation and do something to enrich yourself, maybe it will also bring different changes to your future? In the same way, maybe you feel that you are afraid to forget about him later, but it will not be the case when you really forget or let go of this fiery feeling.
This current relationship will also become a good memory for you in the future, depending on how you look and act.
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Child! Wake up! Those come.
Stars are all illusory, unrealistic! Even if you like it again, bai is one-sided! No one knows you're here.
Zhi personal! Or think more about the parents who give you food, clothing, and money! When I was young, everyone chased stars, and I can't bring star chasing to life! That DAO is unrealistic! 23 is not small, it's time to do something big!
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Your description above is primarily a copy of what is considered a mental illness. According to your description, it is generally said to be a star chaser, but your kind of star chasing is no longer an ordinary star chaser, but has reached the level of obsession. Under normal circumstances, there is nothing wrong with chasing stars, because everyone has a benchmark, and perhaps the star you are chasing implies the benchmark in your heart, so you are obsessed.
Your consideration of the above situation fully shows that you are still realistic and reasonable.
Psychological guidance: It is recommended that you: first, establish your own goals as much as possible, do your own work well, cherish the existing happiness, and at the same time increase interpersonal communication and do a good job in various relationships; The second is that you can take the method of transfer, anyone and everything has shortcomings, you might as well look at that person's shortcomings, or it will reduce the degree of your attachment; The third is to read as many relevant psychological books as possible, if you have the conditions, it is okay to see a psychologist or a psychiatric doctor, and you can consider mental problems above.
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If you take it off, he won't want you.
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Liking a person is not to take it for yourself, but to watch him be happy and happy
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To be honest, I have seen so many celebrities, most of them are not as good as the people around them in ordinary life! What's right for you is the best!
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If you have the conditions, chase after it, speak out boldly, and it's good.
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Ask your boyfriend to wear the mask of the star you like, or you won't see him.
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What do you like about him?
The deposit can keep me for 20 years, because I have more savings, and I don't have to worry about anything except eating and drinking, so I can maintain it for a long time.
How can love be wrong. Does your love for him mean that you will be bad too? On the contrary, I think if you were with him. Instead, it will save him. Instead, they will pull him ashore. In the tank!
If it's true love, I'm really envious of you, my lover is also 20 years older than me, she looks very young, we love each other very much, we can sacrifice everything for each other, her husband was very bad to her at the beginning, so she had a relationship with me, and then when she wanted to divorce, her husband didn't let go. They really don't have any feelings at all, because her husband is not in good health and sick, and he smokes and drinks regardless of his body when he leaves her. She couldn't bear to see him die, and in the end she chose to be with him, and we could only break off, but I can't tolerate a second woman in my heart, I will wait for her, but the torment of this kind of day is only I can experience, thinking about it will cry, I have cried except for my mother's death, I have rarely cried, for her I have cried more than once, a pain that no one knows, only I am silently painful, you say I can find another one, it is impossible, she let me find love, true love, I think true love can't be repeated, and what I care about most is whether I can be with her after 10 years, if 10 years later, her husband's illness is cured, I will leave this world quietly, either to be a monk or to the real Western Elysium, in this world, too much helplessness, I met her I thought everything was raining and clear, but I didn't expect it to be warm and cold.
Dear friend, sister! Seeing your long emotional narrative, I seem to be able to feel your heart that is cold on the outside and hot on the inside, and your own opinions and reason! >>>More
Give up, you can only give up, and you will be tired if you continue to hold on, and there is no result, I advise you to let it go early, and such a woman can't adhere to the basic rules of the game one-on-one, you don't love her, maybe you will despise this kind of behavior after many years, otherwise you think about the body you touched was still happy with others last night, and only prostitutes can endure this sin among men in the world.