Girlfriend is too close to her brother What to do as a boyfriend

Updated on psychology 2024-02-24
43 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    That's his own brother, they can't do anything in the circle, you can't see their behavior. It must be in a different place, and only the two of them depend on each other, and the two of them take care of each other, so you have to care more about your girlfriend to him, help him more, tolerate him more, understand him more, if you are good to her, he will be spoiled in your arms, you see how his brother treats her, you also learn from it.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Gotta talk to her, she's an adult. Personally, I feel that this problem is very serious, at least your girlfriend has the problem of loving her father and brother. If not properly guided, the consequences can be quite severe.

    And his brother is also such a big person, he is still an elder brother, and he should be very mature in doing things, I don't know how he is like this. Don't talk about my crow's mouth, a slap can't make a sound.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It's okay, it's his brother, it means that she needs to be cared for a lot, you care about her more, don't talk about breaking ......

    In addition, she has a good relationship with her brother

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Think too much! You can just tell her that you care about her intimacy with his brother! Since I care about her very much, I will say it generously! You have been thinking about it in your heart for a long time, which is very bad for your body and mind and your feelings!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It's called the Elps complex, and it's normal. First of all, you should put your mindset in place.

    Secondly, you can talk to his brother so that you can avoid messing with your girlfriend. If her brother is a reasonable person, he will understand you.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    This shows that you and their brother and sister get along well.

    That's good, after all, aren't you married?

    Otherwise, you can confirm the relationship right away and tie the knot someday.

    Isn't this leaving this place?

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    555, buddy, sympathy, why are we always depressed...

    If you can let everything go with it, you are a free man in the world.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    You can ask her directly, now that they are all adults, they can't be like that, they have to talk.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    You can talk to him, and you should pay attention to some influences, after all, you should go out with him to rent it.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Is that so? Maybe it's because she used to rely on her brother when she was growing up, so she trusted him a lot. It can be said that it is like a brother-in-law.

    Just like now, there are also people who sleep with their mothers. It's a mother-lover.

    In this case, it's best to talk to his brother.

    After all, when you are older, your body will continue to develop, and there will always be some things that are not fair to you. You just have to have a good chat with his brother, it's useless to talk to your girlfriend, because if it works, you talk to her early in the morning and she changes in the morning.

    So, talk to her brother slowly and say how you feel, but don't rush too much, or he will think you're being polite.

    It's good to talk about your thoughts easily.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    How old is she? Biological siblings can sleep together when they are young, but their parents should separate them after the age of fifteen. Because they are both in adolescence, they must have curiosity about the opposite sex!

    This question should be the problem of her parents, knowing that when their daughter grows up, they should be separated! You have to be tolerant first, don't be impulsive, your brother and sister won't do anything outrageous, find a chance to talk to her and her parents.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Wow, I can't stand this on anyone, I deeply sympathize with you. After thinking about it, all kinds of explanations or conversations may have ***, which makes you awkward, as a female compatriot, the advice to you is that you had better get engaged to your girlfriend as soon as possible, and only you can sleep with her after the engagement, and other men can no longer sleep with her. People are selfish, and they will get used to their partners sleeping with others.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    She has a brother-in-law plot.

    You can remind her tactfully.

    I think I should consult a psychologist.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Then it should be okay.

    Generally speaking. My brother and sister will never call.

    The more similar the more repulsive.

    I even have a brother.

    When the relationship is good, it can be a little more intimate.

    When it's not good, you can get annoyed when you see it.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Mom, it's been the scariest thing to like since I was a child, there's no right or wrong, it's not easy to do.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    What's so strange about this, as long as it's a brother, it's all family affection, don't think too much, if it's not the kind of relationship, you have to pay attention,

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    You may not be an only child, or you may not have been in this kind of relationship, if you are over 15 years old, since you have a boyfriend, you must know that there is a difference between men and women. It's right that the relationship is good, but you still have to pay attention to your behavior.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Is it my brother? If so, you don't have to. It is possible that her brother cared more for her. Caused by the disparity in age. If it's not your own brother, you either tell your girlfriend about this feeling, or you don't tell his brother. Let's talk.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Tell me a piece of, do you believe it? Don't blame my brother for being too straightforward.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    As a girl, it's good to have a sense of self-protection, you don't resist, it's self-protection, and when you really feel that he is the only one for you, it will be good if he doesn't marry.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    This is also a kind of self-protection, and it will be good when you have a sense of security.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Actually, I'm a person who has a copy girlfriend, your phenomenon is similar to my girlfriend, I think, if you don't want to, you tell your boyfriend okay, every time he wants to touch a place you don't let him touch, stop it immediately, or say that he just touched, you should stop it immediately, so that nothing more serious will happen. Generally, this intimate contact also comes little by little, and it is impossible to treat you all at once. If the other party says to you that he can't control himself, in fact, for this sentence, I think, it's not that he can't control it, it's that he wants to do this to you.

    It's just an excuse that I can't control it, but I know this in my heart, don't say it. I was the same with my girlfriend when I was in close proximity, but she stopped me and I gave up. After all, I love her and don't want to hurt her.

    If your boyfriend really loves you, I think he will understand, unless he doesn't love you, and if he is just angry because you don't want to, you don't need to be sad, just say what you feel in your heart.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    If you don't like it, let's be honest! He will understand you.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    People are brothers and sisters, what kind of vinegar do you eat?

    It's better to be confident and don't be a soldier.

    Two people should communicate well.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Love emotion, possessive, easy to be jealous, easy to produce fuses, knowledge will be more than oneself, tolerate everything, otherwise it is easy to have emotional problems.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Be! What can she do with her own brother, your suspicion is a little too serious, and you really need to restrain ......

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    It's normal, it proves that you care about her a lot, but if you think about it differently, if you really have an indecent love, you should run away as soon as possible.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    No, this is a normal manifestation of a boy who loves a girl too much!

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    It's fine, it's normal to be jealous, but it's good not to be too obvious.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Brother, I'm the same as you, I had dinner with her brother at noon today, I feel a little embarrassed, I don't know what to do, and sometimes I feel that the relationship with my girlfriend is not as good as her brother's.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    To love is to strive to be together. Don't believe in the so-called Japanese and Korean soap operas that leave because they can't make each other happy. Have you ever thought that you are each other's happiness?

    Love is not an escape, it is an effort. It is not to evade the responsibility of giving each other happiness, but to strive to realize the obligation to make each other happy. When you say that you left so that the other person would not be harmed, you have already caused the most harm to the other person.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Men ! should be generous, maybe it's just that their sister and brother have a deep affection, and they have a good relationship since childhood, you don't want to be weird, treat your girlfriend well.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Your girlfriend is really annoying, and I really can't stand it if it were me.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    According to you, your girlfriend and the so-called brother have a very different relationship, since they can toss in front of you for a long time, you can also find a sister to show off in front of your girlfriend. If your girlfriend really doesn't take you seriously, it's not a pity to break up. Life is not a TV series after all, it's very realistic, there's no need to waste too much time on people who don't take you seriously, there are many good girls.

    Remember that you're looking for the right people, not the right people to be the right people for you.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    It depends on how you feel for your girlfriend, and if you can't bear her, warn the guy to stay away from your girlfriend, and beat him up if he doesn't obey, until he obeys, and that's the kind of person I fucking hate the most.

    Knowing that someone else has a boyfriend, and still playing ambiguously with someone else, brother, really, sometimes powerless, can solve everything, of course, don't let your girlfriend know.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Whether you don't ask or not, if it's too much, you will be directly divided, as a man, you should have the momentum of a man, compared to her what kind of broken brother, live your heroics, have lofty goals, there are many things in your life that are more important than girls! It's not too much, then you just say it.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Actually, it's nothing, if you believe her, just let her go, you can't help it if you don't believe her, but you have to talk to her appropriately Can't be too much of that, after all, you're her boyfriend The worst may be that she betrays you So you can do it Everyone knows that such a woman is going to be unacceptable, so you can just throw her away.

  38. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    Personally, I think you can ignore her, a little cold, depending on the situation, if she also feels like giving up, then you don't need any reason to persevere.

    As for the fact that such brothers and sisters are all for fun, as for why they should play like this, people like me don't understand, and I believe you are the same.

  39. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    You must be moved with affection and reason, first of all, you can't talk too much about her, you can't push him over there, but you can't let it go, you have to pull her over to your side. It's hard to pinpoint, but I can only wish you luck!

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    It must be a brother who has a good impression of each other!

    Why didn't Pan Jinlian recognize her brother with Wu Dalang?

    Why didn't Yan Poxi recognize her brother with Song Jiang?

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    Talk to her slowly, talk to her about what you think, and at the same time you have to trust her, trust yourself, grasp it yourself, and wish you happiness.

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    I don't agree with what I said on the first floor, I also recognized my brother's kind of heart-to-heart, but I didn't have any thoughts about my brother, I just vented my unhappiness with him, and there was no other meaning at all.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    You make it clear to him, say you're jealous.

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