Why do you slowly lose your love of socializing and chatting?

Mainly because we are used to being alone, people think a lot and think deeply, but when there are more people, we are affected by the environment, our thinking, our way of thinking. will be affected, so a person has to learn to be alone, after being alone for a long time, you will like this feeling, so you will not be willing to socialize, do not like to chat. You should step out of your own world and learn to communicate with your friends slowly.

If you think that your friend is not sincere to you, try to keep him with sincerity, and he still tramples on your sincerity again and again, this friend does not need to be so close, just be a nodding friend. I believe that someone will see your sincerity and be good friends with you. First of all, you can share the joys and wonders you encounter every day with your friends, and go out shopping and exercise with your friends every once in a while.

Participate in more activities, make new friends, and Shen Du, who will slowly get better, will feel at ease. That's what you're talking about. If a person learns to face loneliness and learn to be alone, it is also a way to grow.

But I also want to say oh, don't be alone all the time, meet a good friend who can make friends, and a good confidant should also grasp it. Don't be too reckless, you can talk about some small emotions with your family and friends, otherwise you will be very tired.

Hello, happy to answer your questions. I have ever heard such a passage, and I have boiled myself up, and I don't want to speak, and I don't want to post on Moments, this sentence is also suitable for you. Because your personality is more introverted, because of various reasons in the past, you have a skeptical attitude towards friendship and love.

There is no sense of security. So I chose to stay away, thinking that as long as I stayed away, he would hurt and not understand. But doing so will only make you seem more lonely and make your heart more depressed.

You should get out of this mental yin of yourself. Make more friends and talk to your friends.

There are a lot of things that you say that others don't listen to, but you are immersed in the environment at the time and don't notice it. So later, you no longer talk to people, and you no longer share your happiness and sadness, you hold a lot of things in your heart, but when you look at others, you feel that forget it, all your emotions are silent, and even your likes are gradually taken back, originally you are a person who tries to express love, but it is also enough.

Your life and your circle are still the same as in the past, you can still promise when others call you, you begin to learn to smile and face a lot, you are a good listener, no matter who it is, you can listen to their complaints and sadness very carefully, you help them analyze, you give them advice, you sincerely hope they are happy, you say "just like it" to encourage them to chase what they want, you don't say more, and you won't subconsciously blurt out, I have also encountered, I also think such words, You are in a stable comfort zone, refuse others to come in, and refuse to be honest with yourself, you will no longer be impressed by a certain detail, nor will you regret because of the insincerity of others, you find that you seem to have found a rhythm and pace that suits you, occasionally because of the smile that bursts out of emergencies, when you are asked, you obviously want to say something, but that desire to share will also be suppressed by the indifference in your mind, what is there to say, others are just polite, are you still serious?

You don't seem to care so much anymore, and you don't want to be so real anymore, you no longer feel that it's a good thing to pay silently, you can not ask for anything in return but you don't like to be trampled on, you become more concerned about gains and losses, and your heart begins to deviate, you want to continue to be a gentle person on the surface, but in your bones it has become more indifferent, estranged and different, you still learn not to refuse the approach of others, but you will not take the initiative to approach others, you are eager for someone to notice that you are wrong, take the initiative to take care of you, but you are afraid that others will reach out and you will not be able to respondPerhaps, this is what many people say, the beginning of growing up is to learn to be silent and calculating, but you just want to be a child, or have a childish adult.

You don't want to call this low emotional intelligence or don't understand human feelings, sophisticated interpersonal communication, and you don't want to take the past as joke leftovers, you hope that you are still kind, still warm, and still believe that there are more good people than bad people in the world.

You said you don't know what will happen in the future, so let it be, follow your heart, say what you want, and laugh if you don't want to say it.

In recent days, I have only been surprised by the cheerful enthusiasm of previous years? The living environment has changed a lot. Let's have a setback in life!

You should be in a pessimistic atmosphere for a long time, a certain pessimistic mood is not always strong, at first it is not noticed by you, but after a long time, it has subtly changed you, and gradually eroded your original positivity and enthusiasm. There is a deep barrier in your heart, or an insurmountable wall, but you must believe in the power of courage. Life needs to be experienced, you do need to go out for a walk, and hiding in your room all day is like imprisoning yourself in an ivory tower, and you are escaping reality to some extent.

Whether you like to go alone or in a group of people, the new environment can cleanse your soul of boredom and boredom. It is recommended to read more inspirational books, listen less to sad **, and the most important thing is to take the initiative to chat with family or friends, even if it is just one or two sentences of gossip.

Because you've started to close yourself off, you don't trust the outside world, you don't have that trust between people. Don't care too much about others, look at yourself.

You're wrapped up because you're injured. I don't want to be in contact with the outside world, so I wrap myself up, I feel that it is useless to socialize, and you should slowly get out of this environment for you.

Why don't you feel happy, feel lonely, sometimes you don't know who to talk to, a person silently weeps and quietly heals herself, or there is no real empathy in the world?

I tried my best to maintain the friendship of several people, and then I was far away, and the text message was slow, and the tone was full of impatience and perfunctory, and then the greeting was never answered. This is the lonely journey, and it is also maturity. Perhaps the world is like this, everyone is equal, independent, and less and less naïve.

I think it's also good to enjoy the life of a person, after all, we come to the world alone, and leave the world alone, I want to encourage you to embrace the future and live for yourself more than emo!

It's that people have become mature and have experienced more things, so they don't want to spend time on socializing.

It may be that the side is mature, and the social and chat that feels useless can not be continued, or it is found that a person can also be very good.

Maybe it's because my soul has been hurt and I don't want to be hurt anymore, and I feel good to be alone.

In fact, it's not that you have such thoughts, the world of adults is almost the same, just like the saying that the more people grow up, the more lonely they become.

But I'm not, with people, even good friends don't know what to say, giving people a rather sullen feeling. Sometimes I don't want to see acquaintances, and it's embarrassing to see because I don't know what to say sometimes. It's also easy to get cold when chatting with people.

It's just that I don't know how to get along with friends. Sometimes it feels like I will.

The first is caused by loneliness, the second is caused by a negative state of mind, the third is caused by work failure, the fourth is caused by marriage failure, and the fifth is betrayed by friends.

1.I've been hurt in my heart, 2Often alone, 3The heart is more sensitive, 4There are some social fears, 5Caused by the habit of not communicating and communicating with others.

It is likely to be caused by excessive psychological pressure, or because of low self-esteem, or because of mental illness, or because of a very introverted personality, or because of being deceived by others, etc.

It is very likely that there is a psychological problem, or it is caused by too much stress, or it may be caused by being hurt, a method of self-healing, or it is caused by a depressed mood.

Life is very stressful, financial pressure is also very high, thoughts are relatively negative, I have experienced a lot of blows, and sometimes I hate socializing with others.

If you don't like to socialize, it means that you don't like to deal with others, and you must have suffered a loss if you disrupt Li with others, so you don't want to fight with the old man.

Why are you becoming less and less social? Maybe you've changed to a different kind of social phobia, so you need to develop your self-confidence. More with strangers.

There is one like this, and now I think the best way is to go to Luyoumai to communicate with others or to accompany and socialize, and then slowly you will like this social.

In fact, this is normal, there is a saying that the more you grow up, the more lonely you are, there is no need to suspect yourself of being sick because of your low mood, this is just a normal depression, everyone will experience it, it is recommended that you go out and exercise more to vent, or read a book, let yourself calm down, or eat, release yourself crazy, listen to ** or something, don't worry, find the reason why you don't want to share, maybe you just didn't find someone you want to share, you can try to tell these people around you, netizens can do it! Don't be anxious, it's not a big deal.

Everyone has a low point, don't push yourself to socialize. I think the best way is to please yourself, treat yourself to delicious food, go out and see the scenery outside the window, and maybe your mind will change when you see the world differently. Don't put it off if you feel unwell, be sure to see a doctor, it's good to just have a check-up.

Slowly, I don't want to contact and chat with anyone, I feel physically and mentally exhausted, it should be a psychological or physical problem, or I may be sick, so it is recommended to see a psychiatrist.

The world is simple and simple, but complex and complex.

It's already so difficult to communicate in ordinary social life, and when you're alone, you want to make it easier, what's there to worry about?

So don't think that this feeling is sick, it's just normal self-regulation.

Of course, people are social, and stretching out tentacles to hook up with the world can be seen as a causal line.

It is impossible to have nothing at all, it is better to stretch more, and at the same time, it is necessary to comb and cut properly to avoid excessive lesions.

People who don't usually like to talk much, this kind of situation will occur, so you must exercise yourself more often, let your personality become cheerful, participate in more social activities, read more social books, and slowly your character will become lively.

Actually, I often feel this way about you, but I've thought about it now. There are everyone in the world, and you must have someone you can talk to, maybe a little less. We can't talk to everyone, we are not courtesans, and we are living in the world, we must do meaningful things.

Don't waste your time on useless socializing!

It would be good to arrange your life very full every day, and work hard to make progress every day.

It shows that as you grow up, people will find themselves more and more lonely as they grow up.

。We can only make some general assumptions, so what are the possible reasons why we don't like to do something:1 Feeling unhelpful Wasting time and energy:

You feel that socializing with most of the people around you is not really going to offer any help or constructive advice, and you may be a very independent personality who has always made their own decisions, and most of the situations in life can only be counted on by yourself, and you can only cope with difficulties on your own....2 Very ungood: To put it simply, we all avoid doing things that we are not good at, such as stumbling or having very poor expression skills, so we simply give up doing something that we are good at...3 Very uninteresting points: Well, for example, I like to close myself in the laboratory for experiments, and I am not interested in socializing at all, and reasoning, socializing is not helpful for experiments at all, but will distract me...A category?

4 Psychological Shadows will remind you of some bad memories: if you don't do this, you won't play....Everyone knows the psychological shadow, right?5 Too undifficult and challenging Instead, it makes the task seem boring: I remember reading a guy who said why are smart people more lonely?

One of the problems is more or less the case 6 is very good at reading the air and reading words and feelings, and has a sensitive personality: of course it is also possible that you can perceive too much hidden information in social interactions that lead to "overload" and social interaction may be harder for you than for people who are sluggish....7 Unequal Situation Information Exchange: The objects of frequent contact are unequal relationships For example, the paternalistic family structure will make children refuse to communicate with their parents Boys who are afraid of their wives will not talk too much to their wives Talking too much is bound to be lost ( 8 Other internal causes of psychological discomfort:

For example, people who lack self-confidence, feel that others don't like them, and people who are mildly depressed may always be suspicious when dealing with others, and the other party hates them, overinterpret and overreact to the other person's words and actions, etc9 Stereotypes and educational factors: For example, our environment in the north often seems to convey a message to boys that boys who talk a lot are not "cool" and that reticent words are the right way for men to open up....10 Other external causes of psychological discomfort (alas, my ability to generalize...).For example, if an art student goes through the back door to a state-owned factory and works with a group of science and engineering men, he is definitely not willing to have in-depth communication with this group of people, there is really no common language, right?11 You need a lot of socializing and giving speeches at work When you really don't want to say a word outside of work...Well, I know several teachers who don't talk at all in their lives...That's what I think about for a while...Mobile phone answers....It's messy....Excuse me.