What should I do if my boyfriend always looks at chat history?

Looking at your chat history shows that they care about you. If he's really so sensitive, you just have to chat with the boy, and when you're done, delete the chat history and don't leave it behind. As long as the deletion is timely, there should be no problem. Small advice, I hope it can help you.

It shows that he cares about you very much, but he cares inappropriately.

The chat history is your privacy, and no one else has the right to view it if you don't agree.

You should have a good chat with him, and if you can't talk about it, you can find another happiness.

You're asking the right question, just like me, I should believe you when I love you, but I don't think you really should talk to other men, I'm like this, I should care about you too much!

Then you take the initiative to show him and make him angry.

In addition to the male friends in your life, if you still chat with strange male netizens often, I also think there is a little problem between you, if he can make you feel that your life is not empty, you will not waste time with the opposite sex you don't know, let alone your boyfriend, it's normal to be jealous.

Hurt yourself? That's kind of scary. It's good for such a boyfriend to break up, otherwise it will be too late to regret what he will do in the future!

Then don't talk about what makes him unhappy...

The behavior of a guy looking at chat history can be caused by a variety of reasons. Here are some possible reasons:

1.Curiosity: Some guys may be curious about their partner's chat history and want to know what they chat with and with whom. This curiosity may be motivated by concern and affection for one's partner, or by concern about one's own status and role in the relationship.

2.Doubts: Guys may look at chat history because they have doubts about their status and role in the relationship, or because they are suspicious of their partner's behavior. They may want to confirm if their concerns are justified by looking at the chat logs.

3.Controlling: Some guys may view chats because they want to control their partner's behavior and social circles. This desire for control may be due to a lack of confidence in oneself or a desire to control one's relationship.

Whatever the reason, boys need to be cautious when looking at chat history. In a relationship, trusting and respecting each other's privacy is very important. If a guy is suspicious or concerned about his partner's behavior, he should be honest with his partner rather than secretly checking the chat history.

Of course, boys will also read chat history, so boys like it, and they will look at the chat history of the person they like over and over again. If you want the guy not to look at the mobile phone chat history, it is because you need to adapt to the current boyfriend, and the boyfriend will look at the chat history. Men don't like to break up easily, and boys will willingly look at girls' chat history.

Boys always look through the chat history to have confidence in their other half. In fact, whether it is a boy or a girl looking at each other's chat records, if your boyfriend looks at it, different boyfriends will look at each other's chat records for different reasons. will look at each other's chat records over and over again, mainly because they don't trust their boyfriend enough, and they need to give their self-esteem or boyfriend a conclusion.

Because I want to know who you're talking to besides yourself, there's an unknown idea, of course, boyfriends and girlfriends are normal, and girls do a lot of this.

Because he's calling you too much.

<>Anonymous netizen:

Poetry and distanceHelpless? There are two options: change your boyfriend, or change your phone lock code.

Hehe, just kidding. Men will always have a kind of protective psychology towards the woman they like, and when this protective desire is excessive, it becomes selfish possessiveness, you can say that this possessiveness is also a kind of love, but this love is too stressful.

You can analyze why your boyfriend behaves the way he does, whether it's because he's narrow-minded, or because you keep a lot of things from him and make him insecure.

Find the crux of the problem first, and then prescribe the right medicine. If it's the former, then you can only change your boyfriend. If it's the latter, it's a matter of communication between the two sides.

Anonymous netizen:I'm asking this question to my male friends, so please be serious. When you have a girlfriend and you are in a relationship, you are in a circle of friends.

Li said to a female friend: "I feel very relaxed when I talk to you, and your presence makes me very confused." "I wonder what your reasoning is when you say this?

Poetry and distanceWhat you mean is that the man already has a girlfriend who is dating, but he says something very ambiguous to another friend of the opposite sex.

If this man's character is okay, it is that the new woman has made this man excited, and the choice of girlfriend and "female friend" makes him very difficult.

If this man is a scumbag, then he wants to step on the rhythm of two boats, "Chatting with you, I feel very relaxed, your appearance makes me very confused", a typical old driver pickling girl routine, the underlying meaning is: If I can, I want to you.

Anonymous netizen:Loved, happy, noisy, noisy, separated, sad, hated, wanted to open, let go, he came, looked for me, I was dead,Will you ever go back?

Poetry and distanceSince you asked this question, what is the point of "I'm dead" you mentioned? Completely desperate for a person, would you go out of your way to ask this question?

Whether you admit it or not, the truth is that you can't let him go. As for your "will you ever go back", my answer is: yes, definitely.

As long as the other party is sincere and the offensive is tight, it won't take long for you to fall. Then repeat the process of "love, happy, noisy, noisy, separated, sad, hateful, want to open, let go, he came, looked for me, I died". Not ruthless enough to others, not ruthless enough to yourself, is your biggest flaw!

It is estimated that your boyfriend does not trust you, or feels that there is a sense of crisis around you, and your boyfriend's behavior is wrong, but you should also make changes to make your boyfriend trust you

It's better for such a boyfriend to break up quickly, the desire to control is too strong, and he wants to monitor your life and hold you firmly in the palm of his hand. If you get married, it may get worse.

Everyone should have their own space, and I don't think he's going to bother at all. If it's vexatious, then break up.

Summary. Emotionally he lacks trust in you, on the other hand, he loves you and is afraid of losing you, which is a sign of his own lack of self-confidence.

My boyfriend always wants to check my chat history, is he sick?

Emotionally he lacks trust in you, on the other hand, he loves you and is afraid of losing you, which is a sign of his own lack of self-confidence.

Then why are you still with him if he doesn't trust you so much?

He has his good.

It's also a little reluctant.

The most important trust between couples is gone, so what else can we talk about?

I want to fight you **, is that okay.

The platform can't be hit here

Everyone has everyone's good, but you can't ignore the most important trust because of those good.

Do you want to live under surveillance for the rest of your life? What about your freedom?

My boyfriend is a very insecure person, and he once mentioned that he broke up with his ex-girlfriend because he saw the chat history between her and his girlfriend. I'm a person who trusts each other a lot, so I hardly look at each other's phones, and I watch them together, and I mostly browse each other's Moments and Weibo to see if there's anything interesting. He doesn't often look at my phone, but if I use his phone to play games, he will use my phone and look through my chat history with others, although I have nothing to hide from him, but I feel very uncomfortable, I don't like it, after all, it's personal privacy.

If anyone sees this, I would like to ask if your boyfriend and girlfriend will look through your phone? Do you mind? Why don't you mind or if you don't mind, how do you talk to him and how do you deal with it?

Another: This problem has always been the source of our quarrels, but other than that, we have a good relationship. So I was deeply pained ......My point of view in love is that I like that you can't and never betray the other person, so I don't understand his insecurity, so I don't know what to do.

The first thing to ask yourself is: Did your boyfriend's behavior make you feel uncomfortable? If you are uncomfortable, can you express your true feelings to your boyfriend and express how you want the other person to treat you?

If your boyfriend's behavior doesn't make you feel uncomfortable, then there's no such thing as a good or bad thing, and there's no need to care. The most important thing for two people to live in harmony is to make each other comfortable.

If two people are working partners, it is likely that they need to talk about work matters frequently, and at this time, if they still need to work after work, then it is easy to add some personal things. In this way, everyone will become dependent due to the excessive communication. After all, people are animals with feelings, and as the saying goes, love arises over time, which is not unreasonable.

The Internet sometimes has the ability to beautify the other party, because we don't know the environment and real thoughts of the other party when chatting, and it is easy to fantasize. So now online dating is also very popular, which is generated by frequent chats on the Internet.

Second, ambiguity and spare tire.

Sometimes we talk to someone a lot, but that person is not actually single. But we have a very common language, and the more we chat, the hotter we get, and we even have the illusion of being in love. This kind of chat is very dangerous.

You'll get deeper and deeper, and your relationship will be an ambiguous one. Or maybe the other party treats you like a spare tire. It is irresponsible to do so, we should be serious and dedicated when dealing with relationships, it is not easy for two people to be together.

In general, frequent chatting can give people the illusion of being in love, and when this feeling of love is generated, we should ask ourselves if this illusion is the feeling of really wanting to be in love. We should have a good talk with the other party, and if we don't want to develop further with the other person, then it is better to refuse as soon as possible. In addition, it is wrong to be ambiguous in the relationship and treat the other person as a spare tire, and love must be open-minded.

Be sure to sternly warn him not to peek at his own records anymore, even if the two parties are together, they have personal privacy, and they can't let the other party invade their privacy.

It may be that you haven't reassured him enough, you can talk to him and ask him to explain the reason.

You have to talk to him well, tell him that this is not a moral act, and make him promise that he will not look at it again, and that everyone should have some privacy of their own.

If you don't want to show him, make it clear to him that everyone has their own privacy, and your boyfriend just cares about you too much, so you have to be considerate, but it's really too much.

Maybe he doesn't trust you, you can choose to have a good chat with your boyfriend, let him know that he needs privacy, and if he can't, he can choose to break up.

Communicate well with him and ask him not to do it again, this is very disrespectful to you and distrustful of you, if he has been unwilling to change, then break up with him.

You communicate well with him, is it because you love you too much and are afraid of losing you, so you don't worry, you have to behave well in front of him and love him well.