My boyfriend has hit me so many times, maybe it s my fault, should we still be together?

Updated on healthy 2024-02-20
26 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    No matter what kind of mistake you make, you can't beat each other at this time, you can choose to leave, you can not continue the relationship, but you can't continue to beat each other, this is a personal injury to others, so at this time for this relationship has formed such a habit, that is to say, in the future life, no matter what kind of things happen to you, as long as the other party thinks it is not good, it may add punches and kicks, and such a life cannot continue.

    In addition, you also admit that it is your mistake, so in this case, I don't know what kind of mistake will cause the other party to have such a behavior, of course, sometimes it may be just an inference, that is to say, you may have touched the bottom line of the other party, betrayed the love between you, but sometimes it may not be what you think, and for this case, it is generally your own psychology or actually some kind of problem that will lead to such a result, Therefore, if this problem is not solved, you may not be able to have your own real marriage and true love at any time, so at this time you can continue to ask and solve your problem.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    No, since they are all doing it, then there is no need to be together, no matter whose fault it is, it is not right to do it, especially for men, it is not right to do it once, so the two of you should not be together, but this is just a personal opinion, it mainly depends on yourself.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    A man hasn't seen you for a few years, but he always hints to you that he likes you, after all, now we are all adults, and it is up to you to judge the ability of the object of like, so he must still like you if he has done so much for you, if he just feels like you playing, he will definitely not be so attentive to you, so he still has real feelings for you, you can think about it, if you think it's not bad, you can get along and give it a try, I hope my advice is useful to you, hopefully, thank you. A man hasn't seen you for a few years, but he always hints to you that he likes you, after all, now we are all adults, and it is up to him to judge the ability of the object he likes, so he must still like you if he has done so much for you, if he just feels like you for a few years, a man has not seen you for a few years, but he always hints to you that he likes you, after all, now we are all adults, and it is up to him to judge the ability of the object he likes. So he has done so much for you and must still like you, if he just feels like you playing, he will definitely not be so attentive to you, so he still has real feelings for you, you can think about it, if you think it's not bad, you can get along and give it a try, I hope my advice is useful to you, hopefully, thank you. Definitely won't be so attentive to you, so he still has real feelings for you, you can think about it, if you think it's not bad, you can get along and give it a try, I hope my advice is useful to you, hope, thank you.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Regardless of whether you are right or wrong, as long as he does it, he will decisively separate, and one has domestic violence.

    What do you like about him? I think you're being beaten stupid. This kind of man still wants to be together, are you born to like to be beaten?

    Hitting you today may be your fault, tomorrow beating you because of unsatisfactory career, the day after tomorrow beating you because you are angry outside, your heart is unbalanced, if you don't leave him, you will be his gas bucket in the future, if you are a little unsatisfactory, I will beat you, if you want to spend the rest of your life in the days of being beaten, you will continue to be together.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It's better not to be together. Because your boyfriend has violent tendencies. When encountering something, you will only choose to solve it with violence, rather than finding a way to solve it.

    If you are always together. Aren't you constantly being bullied? How unhappy it is.

    So I suggest you give up and get another one! People with violent tendencies cannot marry.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It is recommended to leave, they all beat you, why do you still think it's your fault, it's wrong to do it first. No matter how much trouble between couples is, they can't say that they hit each other. When you are in love, love yourself first, and if the other party is hurting your personal safety, please leave as soon as possible.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    In this case, it is recommended to re-examine the relationship between the two people, and it is recommended that you stay away from such people.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Can't be together anymore, this person has rioting tendencies with you.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    The gentleman doesn't move his hands, if your boyfriend hits you, it doesn't matter if he accidentally touches you, if he really hits you, you have to think carefully about whether you want to be with such a man.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    You should ask him why he hit himself, and if he apologizes right away, there is no need to pursue it further.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If he just hits you, it may be that he is angry for a while, and if he does not hurt you, or domestic violence, or more serious violent tendencies. You can forgive him if he is out of control for a while, but if he goes too far, you have to warn him or even call the police.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    At this time, you should call back, since your boyfriend dares to do something with you, it means that you are no longer important in his heart, so you don't need to put up with it at this time, how he hits you, you can call back.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    should break up, because he has the first time and the second time when he does this, so he must not compromise and must break up in time.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Maybe your boyfriend has violent tendencies, and if such a person is together in the future, your married life may not be happy, and it may be domestic violence every day, you have to think about it carefully.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    You should ask him why he is beating himself, tell him that it is not right to do so, and if you hit me again, I will leave.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    You can't make up your mind about one thing, but you have to consider whether he is good to you, whether he treats you sincerely, and whether he really likes you.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    When he was still talking about boyfriend and girlfriend, he started to beat you, and if you get married, it will be even more unscrupulous, so I suggest breaking up.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    There are one and two, people who are too emotional are not recommended to be together, how did domestic violence come about, you don't resist again and again, and connived. Stop losses in time.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    If there is a quarrel between male and female lovers, there is only a difference between zero times and countless times, now just talking about boyfriend and girlfriend, he will do it to you, and after you enter the marriage, it is conceivable that it will become even worse, so such a boyfriend can't, or he can't forgive him once, and he can't give him a chance to make mistakes again, so break off this relationship as soon as possible and look for a new tomorrow.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Woman, remember, there are only 0 and countless times to hit you. As long as he started and moved, he left decisively.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    I don't think we need to stay with such a man, although two people have contradictions, but should not hit people, in the process of getting along with two people, it is inevitable to encounter some quarrels, if every time there is a conflict to hit you, I think this will also have an impact on your physical and mental health.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    It shouldn't be together. Because the man who beats people is very short-tempered and machismo, if you continue to be with him, he will still have domestic violence and other behaviors after marriage.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    My boyfriend slaps me in the face during an argument and I won't be with him. Because I can know that he is a person who can't control his temper, if I forgive him this time, he may do something more excessive next time, and I will not give him this opportunity.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Those who will beat their girlfriends and can't be together.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Summary. Dear, hello, of course, there is still a chance to reconcile with your boyfriend, you reflect first, if it is your fault caused by the quarrel, then you first admit your mistake to him and make up your mind to correct it, so that he will generally give you a chance.

    I had a fight with my boyfriend and he beat me for two days, will we be okay.

    Hello dear, what does it mean that he hit you for two days.

    Dear, are you still there?

    Dear, hello, of course, there is still a chance to reconcile with your boyfriend, you reflect first, if it is your fault caused by the quarrel, then you first admit your mistake to him and make up your mind to correct it, so that he will generally give you a chance.

    If it is caused by his fault, then you can let him calm down first, don't bother him, because at this time he will feel that it is your fault, give him time to calm down, he will remember your kindness to him in the process of calming down, so that after he calms down, he will take the initiative to find you to reconcile.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Summary. It is recommended that you do not contact again.

    I got along with my boyfriend for three years, he used to beat me when I quarreled, the last time I quarreled very badly, he also started to beat me, we also fought together, I called the police, and then he came back and he blocked me, and I haven't been in touch for half a month, what to do, and the police are right.

    It is recommended that you do not contact again.

    Call the police to protect yourself, yes.

    Dear, what do you think you can't put down?

    It's just that I don't understand why he was angry and blocked me.

    Does he usually have a good temper?

    Blocking you just doesn't want to pay attention to you anymore.

    He was very good to me when he first got along, but he may have always quarreled in the past three years, and he has a bad temper.

    It's very undesirable for him to do this, are you willing to put up with it?

    He didn't think he was wrong, and he said that I did it first.

    I have made mistakes and I don't admit them.

    Even if you do it first, he should let you.

    He didn't feel that he was wrong, he just felt that if you can hit me, I can't hit you.

    What are your reasons for wanting to continue?

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