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There is more than one way to realize the value of life, and there is more than one way to pursue the dream of life, this topic reminds me of some recent things that happened to Mr. Yang Liping, we all know that Mr. Yang Liping has dedicated her life to the dance career, she is a dancer, and she dances an artistic life with graceful dancing, and should be respected, but some people don't think so, in the comment area of Ms. Yang Liping, there was such a comment, and even got tens of thousands of likes, probably the content is like this, A woman's biggest failure is that she has no children, the success and face you have now will eventually leave you, when you are seventy or eighty years old, you should enjoy the joy of family, and you have no children, when the two camps are separated and spit on each other, some people think that a woman does not necessarily have to have children, and some people think that the family must be a woman's belonging, and having children is a woman's happiest thing.

Here Yang Liping teacher also gave her own point of view, she said that there is more than one form of family happiness, as long as your mentality is young, but you feel that your life is beautiful, you don't hurt anyone, this is okay. I think Teacher Yang Liping is very right, and I also give another life choice here, that is, the joy of family is not necessary in life, and there is more than one form of family happiness, such as Teacher Yang Liping, although he does not have his own biological children, but there are many students who like her, I believe that Teacher Yang Liping's later life will not be lonely.

Nowadays, many intellectual women choose not to get married and do not want children, that is because they have lost hope in marriage, and even feel that the current marriage is a kind of shackle to young people, and it is a demand imposed on us by society, which does not mean that we must pursue marriage or have a child of our own in our hearts. There is nothing wrong with some people who are so mavericks and want to live a free life, after all, each of us has the right to choose life.

To sum up, there are many intellectual women who choose not to marry and have children because they want another state of life and pursue absolute freedom.

Because these women are very enterprising, they don't want to affect their careers because of marriage and childbirth, so they choose to be single, and they can live well by being free alone.

Because many intellectual women live very independently, work very well, have a stable income, and live very freely alone, they will not marry and have children, because marriage will bring them a lot of trouble, and it will also affect their work.

Because many intellectual women nowadays are particularly avant-garde in their thinking, and they know a lot about it, they have a lot of requirements, and they also know that there will be a lot of cumbersome things when they enter the family, so they are reluctant to get married.

Because not marrying and having children can make you more free, without any ties, and you can make yourself happier.

Because these women know that being free is something that can bring real happiness, and that in marriage they are constrained.

Because they feel that this is more free, first of all, they have the ability to live independently, and if they want to talk about love, they can talk about it, and if they don't want to talk about breaking up.

Because in the current social situation, many families still require women to serve the family more, so some women choose not to marry or have children to avoid frustration in their work.

Because freedom and independence have become synonymous with this woman. These women can support themselves with their own abilities, believing that they do not need other people.

I think that unmarried and infertile young people are too sober and non-selfish, the current era is no longer than the generation of parents, at that time most people think that the more they have, the greater the power of the family, plus they do not have a pension, thinking about having one more child, the problem of pension will be easier to solve in the future. The current fertility group is concentrated in the post-90s and post-00s, these people are basically educated, more open-minded, and have personal pursuits and opinions on life. They don't think that getting married and having children will bring them a better life, and if they don't have a suitable marriage partner, they would rather live alone until they are old.

And with the occurrence of some bad social events, some people have a fear of marriage, marriage for men means to prepare a bride price, a new house, a new car, for women need to go to a new environment to live, in addition to the pain of childbirth and the pain of raising children for 18 years. The time cost and economic cost are too great, but they can't get the corresponding return, so young people gradually wake up and feel that even if they don't have children, they can take the pension exam for their old age.

As a 26-year-old woman who is not married, I also have my own reasons, because I have immune diseases, and the doctor said that if I have a child, my condition will be worse, and the child may also inherit a similar disease as mine. So I don't think any good man would marry someone who is sick, and I can't be wronged to marry another imperfect person, maybe this idea is a bit selfish, but most people will choose like me.

The average age of a person is only about 60 or 70 years old, and only the period between 20 and 30 years old can decide what kind of life to live in the second half of life. Everyone has the right to choose the right way of life, and when you see someone in their thirties or forties who is not married, please don't laugh at him. There are pros and cons to getting married and not getting married, and as long as you live happily, you don't need to care too much about what others think.

It's too sober, because people nowadays feel that getting married will become very troublesome, it will make you feel very depressed, it will also affect your work status, and it will also affect your own economic benefits, not to mention that today's men are not reliable at all.

From the perspective of the post-70s and post-80s, the behavior of the post-90s generation can definitely be regarded as selfish, only enjoying themselves, and they are not willing to shoulder the burden of life at all. In fact, the post-90s generation is not selfish, everyone is just becoming more and more sober.

Sober, of course, you dare to cut leeks! I dare not have children. You can sell land and make high housing prices, we are selfish if we don't have children?

Too sober, now young people are becoming more and more rational, getting married and having children is no longer a necessity of life, and you can live a happy life by yourself.

I won't choose to add a mom to a boy. Because Ma Bao Nan has always relied on his parents, he cannot be truly independent, which will cause conflicts in the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

I won't marry into a family that doesn't respect women, for example, women can't eat at the table, they must have boys, etc.

A real woman would rather be single than marry a family that uses her daughter-in-law as a tool for birth and support, has a bitter and unsympathetic mother-in-law, has a husband who is a mother-in-law, and a family where your husband asks you to marry naked and can't afford to buy a house.

In our parents' time, they had very low expectations of their significant other. As long as the family is financially passable and able to live, then the two will soon be united. But nowadays, people are demanding more and more from their other half.

People consider not only each other's economic conditions and family situation, but also each other's morals and character and character. At the same time, you should also consider whether the other person's interests and personal values are consistent with your own. Because if the values are different, the two may quarrel or even fight after they get married.

Those old people say that the post-90s generation is more rebellious and willful. In fact, those 90s are not rebellious, but because these post-90s have their own ideas. Children born in the 90s pay more attention to the development of personality, they don't want to live according to their parents' ideas, and they don't want their parents to put too much pressure on themselves.

Therefore, most of the post-90s generation is not afraid of outside gossip, and more and more post-90s generations choose not to marry and have children.

Everyone in the family is desperately urging these post-90s generations to get married and have children, because the old people in the family want to hold their grandchildren. But in fact, these post-90s generations don't want to go on a blind date or get married at all. Sometimes because of this post-90s generation, I have conflicts with my parents.

Most of the post-90s generation said that they didn't want to get married because their parents often quarreled, and when they were young, they would often hide under the quilt, and when they heard their parents quarreling, the whole family atmosphere was very bad.

Every child longs for a happy family, longs for a loving parent, and longs for their parents to be with and care for them from time to time. But sometimes the reality is so cruel, some children's families are incomplete or their parents are often at odds.

I once had a classmate whose parents often quarreled, and she came over in the middle of the quarrel when she was a child. When her parents quarrel or fight, she will hide alone under the quilt or in the cupboard, because she thinks it is the quietest place.

She also once told us that she didn't want to get married and have children in the future, because she didn't want to live a life where her parents often quarreled. More importantly, she doesn't want her children to have an unhappy childhood like herself.

In fact, a good family environment is really important for a person. A bad family environment can have a lifelong impact on a child.

Children who have been educated in a bad family environment will also spend their whole life ** their childhood.

A good family environment is conducive to the child's establishment of a correct mentality, and is also conducive to the child's healthy growth and a healthy personality!

It is normal for husband and wife to quarrel with each other, but a long-term quarrel is a problem in the marriage. Many adults are selfish and do not take into account the feelings of their children when they quarrel and fight.

When parents quarrel and fight, they don't actually know that it has caused a great impact on the hearts of their children. If you are a parent who often quarrels, please consider your child's feelings from their child's point of view.

More and more post-90s generations choose not to marry and have children because the "pressure" is too great, they can't get married, and they even have a fear of marriage. Now the pressure of car, house, parents, bride price, work and other pressures are the main reasons.

I think the main reason is that raising children is too hard, and it costs a lot of money, and at the same time, marriages are not necessarily happy, so more and more people choose not to marry and have children.

The main reason is that the cost of getting married and raising a family is too high, and many post-90s generations cannot afford to get married; Nowadays, people have higher requirements for marriage, and with the increasing divorce rate, they all feel that it is better to be married than to be single.

I think that the current post-90s generation is too transparent, and they think very clearly, and they feel that the free life is very good, and they don't want to be so much pressure in the future.

Real life is too stressful. People with meager salaries, mortgages and car loans are out of breath, and they have no money to fall in love, get married, have children, and raise children.

Why do more and more post-90s generations like "no marriage and no children"? It's very heart-wrenching after listening!