Ask an expert to answer about the mental illness of the elderly

From a psychological point of view, loving to buy things means that you feel empty in your heart, and loving beauty is actually more to cover up the emptiness in your heart! I think it's really possible because you feel that you don't live long so you have to toss and toss, attention, I mean maybe your grandfather thinks that he won't live long, so he has to toss, this is a normal human heart, saying that the sad point is to prepare for separation, so the old saying is that there is no filial son in front of the bed for a long time, which means that the old man is leaving, so he has to torture and torture the family, so let the family think, "Ah, you can go!" "Torture until the family thinks that he is gone, and it is not painful, but don't ask them if they are really doing this to prepare for separation, because this is an unconscious act!

Of course, back to reality, in reality they do not have a fatal disease, there are two possibilities, one, they have delusions, and second, they have neurotic organ delusions, that is, hallucinations in their own organs, such as pain hallucinations, etc., but in order to verify, I still hope to send them to the hospital for examination to determine whether it is an organ hallucination! But don't say it's a prosecutor's neurosis, you say your grandparents are so old, why bother to hit their hearts They are already an age that can't be changed! Let's just go for a physical check-up!

A great psychologist (I can't remember the name) said that at this stage of the elderly, what they need to obtain is a sense of perfection, to avoid disappointment and disgust, and a good personality trait is wisdom, virtuous quality!

Think about what you've done? Why is it that such an old person does not have a sense of perfection, she feels empty in her heart, her life has no worries about food and clothing, but she still keeps buying things, and the more fundamental reason is that you have less company, like everyone, lonely people are very possessive, because they have lacked the most important sense of companionship! The old man is no exception!

Don't take them to do anything in my heart, I feel pitiful when I think about it, accompany them more, let them maintain a certain amount of exercise, do not smoke or drink, you can drink a small amount of wine, and the food is mainly a lot of vegetables, a small amount of lean meat and rice, so that their life can slow down and ensure the health of the body!

It is important to remember that you should always counsel the elderly, "You can live a long life", show them the certificate of the hospital examination, tell them that they are really healthy, and tell them that the way to health is the way of life mentioned above! Let the elderly believe that they are healthy! 】

Old man, I don't want you to achieve much, I hope you can spend more time with them!

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The tree wants to be quiet and the wind does not stop, and the child wants to raise but does not wait!

Your grandma and grandfather have been busy all their lives, reluctant to eat and wear, and raised their children, and now it should be the time to enjoy their old age, and the younger generation should care more about honoring him and him, instead of watching them spend money on things, and feel that they have mental illness...

They are all normal behaviors, they are two old people who want to open. Need to talk to them more.

Go to a psychiatrist's clinic or go to a mental health center to see a doctor. If it is a mental illness, the doctor can see it at a glance.

Personally, I think that the reason why the education of the elders when they were young was much rougher than it is now, but they did not have psychological problems, is mainly inseparable from the time in which they grew up and lived.

After all, our elders lived in the era when they were children, the material life was relatively scarce, and there were more children in the family, and parents could not do enough energy to educate and raise their children from an early age.

The second is that our elders are not like we are only children when they are young, they all have many brothers and sisters, when they have certain psychological problems, they often choose to communicate with their older brothers and sisters, such a process can be a good solution to their psychological problems, channeling their inner emotions.

Another point is that when our elders were young, they often spent more energy on how to improve the living conditions in the family, because the biggest problem in the family at that time was the economic problem, when there were economic problems, it was natural to divert the attention of these elders to a large extent, and naturally they would not spend too much time and energy on some of their own psychological problems, and at the same time, such a difficult living environment would also make their hearts stronger. When facing some psychological problems, you will also be more calm.

1.caused by low self-esteem.

2.Go less caring.

3.Lack of entertainment.

4.The body is comfortable.

5.No elderly friends.

If you are unable to move, buy a wheelchair, and take the elderly out for a walk from time to time. . . It is natural to think more about being bored in one place and quiet, not to mention the elderly, who have so many life experiences and experiences, and are entering their old age, this kind of worrying mood will naturally occur at any time. What you can do is to spend more time with the elderly, and talk about it...

Let them feel that they are still cared for by their families.

In general, it's too lonely, this is very normal, many old people will be like this, but the family must care more and chat more, find something to do for him, let him have a goal, when people reach that age, they don't have any desires, they feel bored to live, they will be cranky, and they will be afraid of death, even if they are inconvenient, they will also develop a hobby of writing, and when they are young, they like to do things, pick flowers, make grass, and have the conditions to let him raise something, plant something, in short, let him know that he still has a lot of things to do, and what to do tomorrow When you're busy, you'll be in a better mood.

Condition analysis: When the elderly are unhappy, it is good for the family to tolerate it.

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To find a specialized hospital, you can go to Professor Wang Huan of the Outpatient Department of the Liaoning Provincial Military Region, Professor Wang Huan, an authoritative expert on mental illness in China.